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What many dads want

Nice to meet you, I'm Bell♪(*´▽`*)

It's been 5 years and XNUMX months since I started working as a father.

I've never been married, I've broken off engagements, I don't have a boyfriend, but I do have someone I like. I'm around XNUMX.

To be more precise, I turned 37 this year (°▽°)

I've met a lot of people through Papakatsu.There are about XNUMX people in total.

We've covered dating clubs, dad-hunting apps, and drinking money.

I would like to share my experiences and impressions in it and help you even a little.

I will write about what I feel and think about being a dad.


Before I started working as a dad, I worked at night as a hostess in Ginza for about seven years in total.

I worked as a hostess in Ginza from the age of 23 to 28 (there was a time when I wasn't in Japan for about two years as a backpacker or on a working holiday).

And I have been working as a father since I was around 34 years old until I am currently 37 years old (*´▽`*)

The reason I started working as a father was that my mental health suffered and I fell ill.

I started having panic attacks on crowded trains in the morning and couldn't go to work, so I started doing this to earn a living (´-`)

I'm sure there are many reasons why people become fathers, such as people like me who do it for a living, to earn money for school fees, to pay off debts, to pay for a relative's medical treatment, etc.

I got the impression that there were many people who said that they would be in trouble if they didn't have money right now in order to survive.


I'm currently living overseas, so I meet my dad and friends when I return to Japan.

The frequency is about once every 3 to 6 months, so I'm not really active as a dad right now, but I've come into contact with a lot of men due to my job, so

I would like to write with that in mind (*'▽'*)


My dream was to live abroad.

In fact, the reason I was able to live my dream overseas was because a gentleman I met through Dad-Katsu gave me a job that I could complete online.

Thanks to that, I can now work from anywhere in the world (o^^o)

It's thanks to Dad-katsu that I was able to live the life of my dreams! ! (*^^)v

Dad's activities are various ♪


Well, today's theme is "What many dads are looking for."

This is what I feel, but first

It feels like the price of dad market prices has fallen due to the coronavirus pandemic.

I feel that there are more women who want to be dads than there are dads.

And, along with that, I feel that what dads are looking for has changed a little.

In the past, I used to feel like I just wanted to take a breather, to heal, and not to have a physical relationship with a woman as part of my job, but to have a relationship where if we both liked each other to a certain extent, I would end up becoming a father with mutual consent.

Of course, there are men like that even today,

Now more than before the coronavirus pandemic"I want to speak honestly" "I want to have a proper conversation"I feel like there are a lot of men like that.

Due to the coronavirus pandemic, the company has imposed restrictions on eating out, such as ``No more than 4 people can go out to eat.''

I think this is because executives in particular have fewer opportunities to meet and talk with others in person, as it can lead to trust issues if they are seen by clients.

I feel that the content of the conversations is often about troubles and worries in private and work life.

That is to say, menThank you for speaking honestly

A woman who can clearly talk about her troubles and worries.Seeking.

People who can understand the situation and ask in-depth questions even if they don't have the same experience.. I felt that it was working.

Just being young and cute

I thought it would be difficult to survive from now on.


From a woman's point of view, I'm working as a dad because I want to get better value for money!

Some women may say that.

If you have to have a proper conversation, it's no different than working at a club or cabaret club, and it's more stable if you get paid for the work you do!

I think there are many women who think so.


If the market price of dad-hunting is going down and the demands are increasing, I won't be able to do it! It seems like there will be a lot of people saying this.

I think there are many women who are working as dads, those who are attending school, and others who want to earn money in their spare time.

However, to be honest, I don't think the current father lifestyle is cost-effective (;;)


In the past, it was not uncommon for women to have three or four specific fathers, but now it is rare to hear of women having more than one father.

Men to decide on one particular woman

I decide after meeting several women, so the odds are high.

It might be tough for you if you don't have something that sticks out better than other women.

Then let's appeal to get it dropped! I think you would think so.

Unfortunately, people don't like being stubborn -_-

My recommended method is

Tell him, ``I like your father, and I'd be happy if you feel the same way.''

We recommend a low-key attitude of ``I look forward to your reply, and if you'd like, please do so.''

Convey your feelings while maintaining a graceful and low profile.

Rather than trying to appeal, it's an image that honestly conveys your feelings.

As I wrote earlier, there are many men who are looking for someone they can honestly talk to, so it is very effective to express your feelings honestly (*´꒳`*)

Please try it! !


I hope you all meet wonderful fathers (^_−)−☆

2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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