Every day, our generation struggles every day not to become senile as we age.

But don't be impatient. (especially those over 55)

However, what do you do to keep yourself from panicking?How do you live happily every day?How do you enjoy interacting with people?I try to think of positive things as much as possible.

I do so myself. (Because I can't beat old age)

Therefore, I think that there are many people who have been introduced to women at the dating club and are enjoying themselves in various ways. (Of course I am one of them)

Of course, there are people who basically have a positive spirit, such as "I want to live happily every day" and "I want to enjoy communicating with young women every day".

The dating club certainly introduces young and beautiful women

If you sign a contract on the spot, you will definitely feel happy from that day.

However, the treatment of women who are introduced to dating clubs is too old-fashioned, and the hurdles for men are quite high, aren't they?I was surprised that there are quite a lot of men who are worried about it.

To be honest, I have consulted about 10 people in my neighborhood just this year. (I thought I would be asked well for a long time, but...)

Certainly, I don't understand why the men are worried.

Many men who are registered in the dating club are of a reasonably older age.

If a woman in her early twenties is introduced there, I'm at a loss as to what to do.

Besides, I can't deny that there are dull parts in the current fashion, including me.

And, to top it all off, his appearance is old, and he's a little unskilled at being a woman.

Isn't there a lot of "men who want to be dads" who are shy and stuck?

Honestly, I think a lot of people here would agree.

In fact, the above part is written with a little strong feeling because I have experienced it in the past.

Conversely, there are very few Japanese people who can escort a woman from the beginning like a foreigner and say, "I have nothing to worry about" regarding this kind of "treatment of women". (If you have lived abroad for a long time, you can understand it.)

I still find it difficult.

That's what women of the same age can talk normally.

Maybe it's because there is always a part that says "I don't see the other woman as a woman"?I interpret it arbitrarily.

Now that I think about it, if you don't look at the other person as love, you can talk normally without being conscious of it.

And you don't even have to be conscious of taking care of yourself and raising the topic. (However, I like this kind of natural conversation between people of the same generation.)

Most of the women introduced in dating clubs are young, so they don't fit in with people of the same generation.

Is it very difficult to handle?

To put it bluntly, if you are thinking too hard, you are thinking too much.

Surely there is some kind of education for women at the dating club?They are so considerate of me when I talk to them, and they also suggest various communication tools, such as emails and lines, from the female side. (just my experience)

It is to say that there is no need for the men to show more than their own power while feeling great anxiety.

On the other hand, if you push yourself too hard, there are cases where you are not used to dealing with women, and on the contrary, it develops into a pattern that does not go well with a woman who has made a contract with you. (This is also my experience)

In other words, it means that you may end up strangling yourself.

To be honest, I think there were a lot of families in our generation who were a bit like husbands and kanpaku.

Perhaps because of that, other than drinking places, were there many female contacts?When asked, I have few memories.

Even if you do, have you ever had the experience of being a little defensive, unable to show your true self, acting cool, and conversely being seen as cold by the other person and having a "negative image"?I have

In the end, even if you push yourself too hard, it's fine if you can tell the other person how much you pushed yourself, but when it comes to the opposite sex, it doesn't work that way. (After all, the brain that thinks and feels things is completely different.)

So, if you don't overdo it and you're unfamiliar with it, it's fine as it is as a father's personality. (Especially when it comes to being a dad.)

A woman who works as a dad will read well a man who is unfamiliar with a woman who said that, and will suggest ways to communicate that suit her, and will also devise ways to do so.

For example, in my case, it takes time to receive an email, and there is a high possibility that the conversation will be interrupted.

However, now there is a thing called line, which allows you to communicate in real time, and you can receive it quickly and you don't have to worry about the conversation being interrupted.

I was ashamed to say that I did not know this at the time and was told by a woman. (It's really convenient, isn't it?)

Probably, there are really many cases where men who do not know modern tools such as lines become dads.

Perhaps that is also a source of anxiety for those who are thinking of becoming dads in the future?That's what I feel.

However, the women are more and more proactive in teaching me everything, and on the contrary, I feel like I'm being treated, so I haven't felt that it's difficult after signing a contract with a woman.

Another part I found difficult

For example, I felt that it was more difficult to choose a present or give money to a woman. (Because I didn't know the standard of the market price)

However, this is also a proposal from a woman, so I wonder if the men will be satisfied with that.I don't think so, so it might not be that difficult. (You can also ask the dating club about that.)

In the first place, I'm not picking on people in the city, and I'm not trying to persuade my subordinates at the company.

If you get introduced at the dating club, you don't have to think so much about how to treat women.

So, if you ask me, "Is it difficult to handle?", I would say "easy".

Certainly, the age group is completely different from the women's side.

The men's "feelings of anxiety" may not be wiped out.

However, there is a dating club for that purpose, and you will be introduced there, so there is no need to worry.

Inexperienced treatment of women = advantage, not handicap

This is what I was told by the woman on the contract.

It seems that it will increase the favorable impression without chattering.

I thought, I see.

From now on, if you are going to be a dad, please rest assured.

Once you become a father, you will understand what I am saying, including the treatment of women.