How to enjoy dating club ② Money (from offer to first date)

Self-introduction

I will post the second column I am addicted to caffeine.

Thank you very much for reading my last post.thank you very much.

In my column, for those who are considering joining a dating club, I will write about how to enjoy it based on what I have experienced so far.

*This is just my personal opinion.It would be helpful if you could read it as a reference.

Since this is the second draft, let me introduce myself briefly following the previous post.

● 30s, single, medium height, small business owner
●Universe club regional members
●The registration class is black for the first year, and downgraded to platinum after renewal.
● 1 times a year setting
● Offer is C type in basic platinum class

The reason I joined was because I thought that I would have to think about the future of marriage when it comes to dating in a general way of dating, and I wanted to have a relationship without having to think about it.

The reason why I chose the universe club among the dating clubs is because I have a lot of business trips, so it was a dating club that seemed to be a proper dating club with branches all over the country.

This column is about money from the offer to the first date.

*Basically, I'm an offer for C type, so I'm going to do it until the first date.
 

money is not always necessary

I have never joined a dating club other than Universe, so I don't know about other clubs, but in the case of Universe, you don't necessarily need financial support to get into a relationship.

Ultimately, the Universe Club is a place for men and women to meet, so there are women who want to have a general relationship, and those who want to have a relationship without any restrictions (so-called SF relationship). increase.

In fact, I have been in a relationship without financial support.

If you look at the women who make offers, you can meet such women.

What kind of attributes do you personally think women have?

●Student
●Early 20s
- B type or C type close to B
●There is no specific support purpose in the comments from the club staff.

There were many people who applied to more than one of these attributes.

If you make an offer to a woman with the above attributes, treat her as a single woman on the first date (not just because she was a woman you met at a dating club), and dress well, a SF relationship is not a dream.

However, if you are thinking of joining a dating club, I honestly don't think you want this kind of relationship.

This is especially dangerous for those who are married.I was fine in the beginning, but the longer it continued, the more difficult it became.

In conclusion, "a male-female relationship on the assumption that financial support was provided" reached the best.

I really don't recommend it.
 

Talk about allowance

So, how much allowance should I actually prepare in order to become a “male-female relationship with the premise of financial support”?

The first is transportation costs.

It's just a way of saying it's transportation expenses, and it's NG to give only the train fare.

Please take it as a thank you for accepting the offer.Here, the club says 5 to 1 yen on the site.

It seems that there is no problem with paying more, but it seems that there is a problem with less than 5 yen.

It seems that various small problems are occurring due to this 5 yen range.

I,,,

・Isn't it troublesome to prepare 5 yen bills for 5 yen?
・Don't you think that 1 yen x 5 sheets will make you expect something strange?
・In that case, 1 yen is fine.

I think, and I'm 1 yen every time.

Also, regarding this transportation fee, it is a rule to hand it over as soon as we meet.

Therefore, we recommend that you reserve a private room for the first date.

I think it would be difficult to hand over when there are people around.

Next is “allowance”.This is separate from the aforementioned “transportation expenses”.

In my case, I will ask the amount of money a woman wants, but regardless of the female class, if you decide within yourself that one male-female relationship will be between one hand and both hands, and if it exceeds this amount I gently decline.

I think that deciding the line within myself is an important thing in carrying out activities.

I think I would politely refuse a woman whose asking price exceeds this line even though I own a fortune equivalent to that of an Amazon CEO.

That's stingy! !You may think so, but didn't your mother tell you that long ago? "Yoso is yso! Our house is our house!!"

Everyone has different values.

By the way, the line I listed above is probably the lowest line.

If it is less than this, most women will feel dissatisfied and will not enter into a relationship, and even if they do, they will not be seen as a continuous man.

Also, I never negotiate.

There was one time when I negotiated and became a man-woman relationship, but after it was over, I was left with a feeling of emptiness, like when I went to a sex club and then left.

Since then, I've tried to politely decline without negotiating.

I think that some men are active because they are paying for the offer fee, so even if they negotiate, they will only do it once for the time being. is wise.

The above is the money for the woman who offered.
 

other expenses

Then, what do you need other than "transportation expenses" and "allowances"?In other words, other than "transportation expenses" and "allowances",
*: The following is my case.

● First time only) Offer fee paid to the club: Usually 5 yen for platinum
● Meal fee: between 2 yen and 1 yen for two people.We change the shop according to the taste of women.
● Hotel: Between 2 yen and 4 yen.It varies depending on the day of the week and the time of the reservation.
●Transportation expenses associated with movement: Reservation for each within a basic 5-minute walk.Taxi depending on the feet of the woman

What a place, such as.

I don't know what kind of woman she is until I meet her, so I won't do my best from the beginning.

If a woman likes me and I like her, I'll do my best from the second time onwards.
 

A Final Word

The above is the story of the money it takes from the offer to the first date.

As for the second and subsequent dates, let's leave that for another time.

What did you think.

I would appreciate it if you could refer to those who are going to join from now on, and those who have not joined smoothly.

Thank you very much for reading.