There are unexpected arguments

Have you ever unexpectedly gotten into arguments when dating a woman who is a father?I haven't had it recently, but it has surprisingly happened in the past.

This has even led to contracts being canceled in the past.

First, let me tell you why.

The content of the contract is quite different from the original contract.

Before dating a woman who is working as a father, she always makes a contract that includes mutual conditions.

In my case, I first listen to the woman's wishes.

For example, how much allowance do you need?So, how do you go about being a dad?Listen to the details in surprising detail.

The reason for this is that I don't want people to say afterwards that it was like this or that I wanted it to be like this.

Then, state your request.

How often can we meet each month?Or, to what extent is the relationship OK?I'm going to say this in quite a bit of detail.

So, if we both agree, we will start dating like a couple from the next time onwards.

So why have you had arguments with women in the past?

Of course, there are rules and relationships with father-active women are established.

And I'm a person who likes to follow basic rules.

Therefore, if there is even the slightest violation of the rules, there are cases in which people become suspicious and show it on their faces.

In most cases, the women I contract with abide by the rules, including the contract.

However, in the end, there are many aspects of a woman's inner feelings that are not revealed in the contract when they first meet.

So, in most cases, you won't know until you actually start dating.

So, I thought to myself, ``Will this child last long?'' and reached a contract agreement.

But some of them are terrible.

It's the pace at which we meet.

For example, let's say you promised to meet twice a week.

But what do you do if you're told from the first time that your partner is busy and you can only see him once?In my case, I'll wait and see for the first month.

However, I am well aware that I have a problem with allowing this to happen and continuing with the contract.

The second month had a similar feeling, and my schedule was not filled with other women who were active fathers.

At this point, I decided that I should also have a discussion with women.

Of course, the promise was broken in the first month, but we paid the allowance as promised.

And I was having a discussion with her, and this is what she said.

"No, I have plans too. Even though I made a promise to my dad when I signed the contract, that doesn't mean I can keep it.Besides, this is my dad's life, right? It's only natural for me to support women. Why should I let you be free? Daddy, you're asking for too much."

That's what I was told.

Personally, I'm a dad, so of course I want to support what women want to do, and I don't feel like I'm constraining them.

If the women needed anything, they were willing to donate.

However, I was surprised because I expected him to say, "I'm sorry for not being able to keep my promise."

I never thought it would open up again.

Then, I thought, ``Is this child a child for whom common sense doesn't apply?''

As expected, I'm also in the position of being a dad, but I'm not very popular, and he says, ``But, you made a contract, right?If you can't keep your promise, there's no point in me making a contract with ____-chan either.'' '' I said this in a somewhat oblique tone.

In the end, they didn't understand.

And she also said:

``In my mind, when I'm a dad, my dad listens to my every selfish request.And if I need anything, he helps me.But dad is different.''

Honestly, I thought, "Yeah?"

Certainly, I had a receptacle to listen to my selfishness, right?But isn't it the minimum etiquette for women to abide by their contracts?That's what I thought.

I'm not the type of guy who keeps breaking contracts with women once they've signed a contract, so to be honest, I wanted to keep it going for a long time.

However, there was no benefit to us even if we signed a contract with this girl.

While my other mistress was keeping her promise, I felt that I couldn't give her special treatment.

After talking with her for about 2 hours, I requested that I cancel the contract.

A woman who speaks harshly

When I first signed the contract with this girl, I liked her because she was classy and very polite in her way of speaking.

Then, after half a year, her attitude completely changed.

Did you drink alcohol one day?

Suddenly, my smartphone rang and it was her.

"Dad, are you free now? I'm pretty drunk. I have something to ask you."

And the way she speaks is completely different from her usual way.

And is it just a phone call?So, when she met with her the following week, she was told this.

``Recently, I've been getting tired of talking to my father with care.Is it okay to talk to him in a friendly way or to shorten the distance?''

Honestly, I was surprised.

I made the mistake of telling him, ``It's okay if it's easy to talk to you.''

From that day on, I was spoken to in Tame language, and my language was very bad.

When someone drinks alcohol, do they say things like, ``Uncle, try harder,'' or ``You stink, please put some perfume on next time,'' just to get a laugh?I couldn't understand it.

And gradually, I couldn't help but smile.

What a rude child.

That was my honest impression.

Where did the first decent woman go?That's what I really thought.

It is true that women who have said this are rare cases, and I am one of them.

But it's a story that actually happened in the past.

I told her, ``I'm sorry, but today is the last time I'll see you again.'' and she said,

"What? I don't like it. I'm sorry."

But my emotions had already moved on and everything was slow.

So, I canceled the contract on the spot.

As expected, a woman who speaks poorly cannot be a father.

Even though age has nothing to do with it, I didn't feel any respect for him.

If you have a child who is difficult to talk to, it is better to wait to sign a contract. (This is just based on my experience.)