Seeking pseudo-love.Or a failure story of club activities (Part 1)

First of all, please allow me to briefly introduce myself.When I asked why I joined the club, it was "seeking pseudo-romance".On the male side's self-profile, there is a column "Whether or not you want to enjoy a pseudo-romance at a dating club."I asked the club staff about it and got the following response:

> You can turn on/off "I want to enjoy a pseudo-romance at a dating club" in the "dating type" of your profile, but isn't everyone normally on?What kind of person will turn this off?
> Thank you for contacting us.There are people who want a pseudo-romance, and there are people who want a simple and easy-going mistress relationship.

In my opinion, the difference between a pseudo-romance and a straightforward relationship may be the difference in the distance between men and women.Comfort (distance is far) << Pseudo-romance (slightly close) << Love, I guess.In my case, I clearly realized that I was looking for a pseudo-romance.Because I joined to fill the gap in my daily heart. When I was in my teens and twenties, I had many thoughts like, "I wanted to have a relationship like that" and "I wanted to have a date like that", but I couldn't fulfill them at all.Kenshi Yonezu's "Fireworks" PV was stabbed even by an elderly student.Yes, such a pure romance was unrelated to me, who was an otaku at the time and was not cool and was only enthusiastic about his studies and hobbies (but he was very interested in girls, but he couldn't even talk to them).Decades after that, in exchange for some financial leeway, the gap in the teenage heart has been trailing, and it was at that time that I learned about the dating club.

 

Customs are no good.I'm not looking for physical satisfaction.That's why love.

But only pseudo.I'm happy just to have a girl I can go out with, but for me who can't develop into a true romance, this kind of club might be perfect.In the first place, if you are handsome and have a high social status, you can usually fall in love.Clubs are the perfect place for me, the exact opposite of me who can't match that, who isn't cool and doesn't have a social status.

Well, I'm going to write a failure story as an article first of all.Because this kind of man's failure story may be of some help to both women and men.

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Artists such as music and painting are attractive. According to "Matsuko's Unknown World", only 1 in XNUMX people can succeed in art and entertainment activities.For me, who finished art activities as a junior high school club activity, an adult woman who is engaged in art activities is a longing existence.It's a great opportunity to get to know someone like that.Among the female members, there was one who was active in such an artistic field, and she looked very beautiful.

My approach is to set up restaurants that women want.Because I want women to be happy (I don't usually eat at restaurants, so I don't know famous or fashionable restaurants in the first place lol).

So, I ate at a stylish and quiet restaurant she requested, and I "intended" to use my little art knowledge to keep the conversation going.

In the meantime, I asked what kind of work there was, but this was a landmine.Her expression turned grim for a moment.

As a student, I am a woman who is active in the world of admiration.She was thinking that she would be happy if she could support her in this way, but she seemed to be wary of finding out. She said, "Oh, she didn't mean to ask that."

For the time being, we exchanged contact information, but well, I sensed the circumstances after being ignored just once, and refrained from contacting him any further.

In addition, the artistic knowledge of junior high school audiences may have been on the level of comedy from a professional point of view.

(excuselet meIf I were to change my position and ask a woman, "What kind of work do you do?"I would like to talk about how I gained experience in this field after going through high school, university, and working.But I think I'm aware in the back of my head that there's nothing more irritating than the old man's bragging lol)

No, in the first place, it may have been thought that it was "impossible as a feeling" before that. It was a valuable knowledge I got from the club site that "Instinct makes a conclusion in a few seconds for the prosperity of descendants in the feeling between men and women."If that's the case, that's a tough one, but w

I was keenly aware that "dating is training" is a maxim.