★5 Ask male members!How to make a good impression on women

This time, we had a 2-minute online conversation with a male member, Momotaro Tsurugi (a pseudonym), and Juzo Suzuya, a second-year staff member who joined the company as a new graduate.
A gentleman with a long club history and good feedback from female members taught us what male members want to know and what they usually can't ask.
I was able to get a lot of helpful stories for men who are new to dad activities.
I think there are many men who are concerned about questionnaires from women, so I hope this column will be helpful.

male profile
A man in his 50s who is good at talking. platinum class.Needless to say, ★Evaluation is five.
We mainly use letter dates.
This is a man who has received good feedback from many women he has dated.

■Suzuya: Bell

■Male: sword

 

About the offer

Suzu: You've received a lot of offers up until today, but are there any women who continue to do so?
Sword: Yes, I am.Several people are still continuing.
You are far away.

Have you ever made an offer to a dating type A person?

Sword: Yes, there is.There are various A-types, and there are those who choose A-types because they are afraid because they have no experience of working as a dad, and those who are stiff who cannot think of developing an adult relationship.If you are the former, you will have a good time.
So when I offer an A-type person, I'm looking for that kind of person.

Suzu: Do you have a long-term relationship with an A-type?
Sword: Yes.is.Some of them even develop into adult relationships.
Surprisingly, there are type A people who are happy to receive an offer for the first time after months without an offer, and there are type A people who have received many offers.
Such people tend to comment that there is a possibility of B, and on the contrary, I feel that there are a lot of offers.
Everyone, you can't have that kind of relationship with other men, but you can do it yourself, right?There are cases where I make an offer with a feeling like (laughs) There are women who receive offers rather than careless B or C.

Suzu: If you develop into an adult relationship with an A-type woman, you'll gain a lot of confidence as a man (laughs).
Depending on the man, there are some men who place importance on a woman's educational background and work when making an offer.

Tsurugi: I'm not particularly picky about it, but I'm interested in people who are doing work that I don't usually deal with, so I'll make an offer.
It's interesting to talk to a woman whose profession I don't usually meet (laughs).

Where is the meeting place for the first date?

Suzu: I often receive inquiries from men who are new to papa activities after joining and do not know where to meet.
Where do swordsmen usually meet on their first date with a woman?
剣：Is it a hotel lobby?I think it's the safest option.It seems that there are many women who are in trouble at stations.
A lot of people use the hotel lobby to meet up, so sometimes people who don't have anything to do with it call out to me (laughs).

Suzu: It might be a detriment that papa katsu has become mainstream (laughs).
In fact, even at the club, there was a problem where a woman talked to another man, so I think it's better to verify your identity when you meet for the first time.

What are your plans for the first date?

Ken: I was thinking of something relatively light,
First of all, the reason why I do a lot of letter dates is that many women feel nervous when they meet suddenly, so it's better to exchange letters several times on a letter date, but I often ask for letter dates because I can feel at ease. I'm leaving.Do you try not to make it too long by having them see your impressions in an hour or two with tea, etc. for the first time?
So if it's good for both of us, we'll go out to dinner and get along better, and so on.
Since it's a club activity, I don't think it's a good idea to develop it before the other party has a favorable impression, so if it's a good impression, I'll ask them to meet again.
But it's a story that you'll be shaken quite a bit, so be prepared for it.
Suzu: So even a nice man like Master Tsurugi gets dumped...

What do you look out for on a date?

Tsurugi: I wonder if women are enjoying it.Until I make an offer, I will choose the woman, but after meeting, the woman will choose the man, so if you don't enjoy it, I won't choose you, so I feel like I'm careful about that.
Suzu: So you're thinking of putting women first when you treat yourself to a meal and pay for transportation and allowances!
I'm sure there are some women who don't get along with each other, but do you ever feel like leaving halfway through?
Sword: I keep it short for the first time. About an hour.I've never felt like going home, but I'll do my best for an hour.

Suzu: I'm glad I didn't introduce a woman who would make me want to go home as soon as I met her...
I would like to ask you to give me the transportation expenses as soon as we meet, but when are you negotiating the allowance?
Tsurugi: We'll meet in person, incorporate it into the story, and talk about it in the middle.On letter dates, there are cases where women ask questions before meeting.Sometimes we end up not seeing each other.
I think it's better for women to talk about conditions as early as possible, so I try not to be late as much as possible.
Suzu: In the end, it might be rude for women to refrain from talking about it because their biggest goal is to get paid.

What is your allowance?

Sword: It's below market value.Decide in advance and hand over at the end.
Suzu: I want more inside!I think some women say that.
In the case of a person who is more beautiful than the photo, will you give me a higher amount?
剣：Give Up.I'm dating someone who says it's okay.
It's better to be able to meet twice a month happily than to put up with high conditions and meet once a month, so I feel like I'm dating someone who thinks so.
So, inevitably, I have a long relationship with everyone. Some are 2 or 3 years old.

Suzu: Strictly sticking to the amount you set yourself may be the key to increasing the number of women who stay with you for a long time.

Do you use a love hotel when you have sex?

Tsurugi: Most of them are city hotels.A love hotel is only when there is a request from a woman.
If you choose a city hotel, you can choose between the daytime session and the nighttime session, which is very convenient.
Suzu: I will personally use that as a reference (laughs).
I'm sure there are some women who have strict guards, but do you have any tips for smooth invitations?
Tsurugi: I'm talking on the premise that we'll be alone, so (after the second or third time) we'll go to our room after dinner or tea.
I've been with them once (for tea, etc.), so if they don't get along right away, I tell them that I'm scared when I meet them for the first time.

↑ This is a picture of the lunch I received from the man.
In the case of lunch, it seems that women can feel relieved without being nervous if it is a bright place.

The secret to staying with a woman

Suzu: You say that there are many women who have continued for a long time, but what is the difference with women who do not?
Tsurugi: There will be no reason to break up with the woman who agreed with the amount I offered, so I will continue.
I think there are many women who have a long life of 1,2 or XNUMX years.I broke up with another dad.
If you don't mind that kind of thing, I'll continue.
If you get a boyfriend, build a relationship that you can tell.
Suzu: I think the same can be said for actual male-female couples not to interfere too much.
What is the frequency of contact with those who have been in contact for a long time?
Tsurugi: Once a week, not too many.that muchIt's a good sense of distance.

Suzu: LINE from women is slow!It may be a good idea for men who are worried about it to wait patiently with a little leeway.

What is the amount change with a long-lasting woman?

Sword: Sometimes it goes down.Women rarely lower me.I pass it on all the time.
If it's a monthly contract, women won't want to meet much, and men will want to meet a lot, so it's not very good.
Suzu: If you pay monthly, you will have a fixed amount every month, so women are grateful, but if you can't build trust, it can cause trouble, so we can't really recommend it as a club...

 

Suzu: The club advises women to set aside four hours for a date, but do you honestly feel that four hours is a long time?
Tsurugi: Even so, I'm keeping it short for the first time, so it's okay.If there is no development, I think it will be absolutely tough (laughs)
The age difference between women and men can be exhausting.
Suzu: I'm a poor person, so if the price doesn't change, I might think I'll stay until the end of the hour, but the difference in my peace of mind is what makes men popular and unpopular... ( smile)
 

Summary

He was a very gentlemanly person who respected the other party even when he was considerate of women and consulted about allowances.
I think the flow on the day of the date is a point that many men worry about.It may be a good idea to save the fun for the end by finishing it in a short time and continuing it while having fun.

Regarding the conditions, I felt that it was the right decision to have a relationship with someone who respected the other person's wishes and said that it was okay, rather than haggling over the price, and that it was inevitable that the relationship would continue in the long run.As you said, the goal is to put up with each other and create a relationship that is more enjoyable and long-lasting than just once a month, and to find the right person for me.

In the activities of the club, we will support you to meet a wonderful person who suits you.

I received a picture of a meal with a woman.
I don't know how to eat it as a commoner, but it definitely looks delicious!
It looks like a photo, so women will be happy.