On the site of the dating club in Tokyo, "What kind of men are dumped by papa active girls?There are often Q&As such as ". (I interpreted this as probably referring to dad life including adult dating)

Men are often cited as negative points, such as their arrogant attitude that lacks a sense of cleanliness, but in fact, I think that women are often the cause.

So, I would like men to never lose confidence even if a woman dumps them. (I'm sorry for pointing out that such a thing is obvious! I'm sorry, I'm relieved ♪ lol)


Lately, I've been turning down adult relationships.

I am writing this column to let you know that it is not the man's fault but my woman's feelings and physical condition that may be the cause.

By the way, I have not registered with Universe Club.

My other dating club type is "Adult dating is included from the first day, but there is no problem even if you refuse.If you decline, no transportation fee".


The reason why I don't have a libido is to have an adult dating daddy activity, but I need money, but that's the extent of my charm.Sweat

Some people may say that if you can't do adult dating, quit the club, but now I'm slowly looking for someone who really fits me. (I don't think it's good to choose too much, but it's okay.)


All the men I met were nice.

Even if it's not me, I think she's definitely happy with other girls.

By the way, I will be shaken too!smile

Please read the details in another column.


So, I tried to consider the reasons why girls shake new dads in light of myself.
 

Why girls shake new dads in adult relationships

・ When setting up for the first time or when you are nervous: I feel nervous and uncomfortable

・Simple daddy life fatigue period: When conflicts arise, such as when daddy is tired of being active, or whether it is okay to be active as a daddy

・Full stomach, too much alcohol: I don't want to move anymore when I drink a huge amount of food and alcohol!I think.

I was so nervous that I couldn't even have a conversation at first.

・Constipation: This is pretty tough!tears.I'm worried about dating.

・ When you are mentally unstable: When your ex-boyfriend got married, before your period, when you realized you lost your house key, etc.

・When I meet a friend: I suddenly come back to myself.

・When you are similar to your father/relatives: I definitely can't do it, and I don't want to.

・When I'm tired from work: This may be the reason why it happens so often.Exhausted...

・When I get a call from work: This is also quite common.

・When you get a call from your boss: I calmly think about whether it will affect my career if I get caught.

・When work suddenly comes in early in the morning the next day, when an important meeting suddenly comes in tomorrow: I have to go home early and prepare for work

・Worker talk: When you talk to someone in the same trade, you will go into work mode and think that you cannot have an adult relationship.

・When I see a family with children or a young couple: I wonder if I should be doing this.

・Hangover: I'm exhausted...

・When you are anemic or sleep deprived: I feel dizzy...

・When you have stomatitis, when you have cystitis: I'm sorry

・When I forgot to remove my hair: I wasn't prepared enough

・ Old underwear: I was not prepared

・When conditions don't match me: I'm not looking for a lot of one-time dads, I'm looking for someone who can take me on long-term relationships or overseas trips.

You shouldn't seek ideals, and you can make money by hanging out with a lot of people.

・When you think you don't match your girlfriend's ideals: Oh, I can't meet your expectations.

・When you think you like young people after all: Worried about being able to work with uncles

・A shop you have been to with your ex-boyfriend or family ・When you come to a hotel: Ah, this place...

・When the dad is moist, when there are a lot of settings: Even if there is a continuous dad, he will ask for a new dad.

When I compare myself with a continuous dad, or when I have a lot of spare time in my dad life, I refuse without overdoing it if it doesn't suit me.

・When there is a favorite person: I feel guilty about the person I like.Arbitrarily.smile

・Where are you going from now on to your colleagues?When I answered ◯◯, "Let's go home together halfwayWhen you say with a smile: When you think that this girl is innocent, but I...

・When you get an email from your parents: Get back to yourself.


In short, I understood from your writing that you will refuse when your body is unwell or in an unstable state of mind!
 

psychology of refusal

Feelings of guilt, apology, and guilt for not being able to meet expectations make me feel like I'm going to burst into tears.

Also, I don't want to see a man's sad or angry face, so I'm nervous.
 

reaction to refusal

"Goodbye!' is the most common feeling.I will hurry home.

I've never met anyone who yelled at me. (Maybe I forgot)

vice versa"No, no, let's go!If you tell me, maybe I will go!

Wouldn't it be nice to be detained?From now on, I feel that he will cherish me and think about me properly. (She's a troublesome girl lol)
 

What kind of man would refuse?

Type C with "I want you to eat only on the first dayIf you say something like that, they'll say you're a type scam.

However, depending on the man's response and the physical and mental state of the day, some people can do it from the first day, so please don't call it a scam.

I would like to ask men why women refuse to go out, and if they can solve it together, I would like them to work together.


For example, if you forget to trim your body hair, they will tell you to buy a shaver, or if you are anemic, they will buy you prune juice or supplements.smile

However, some of the men I've met so far listened to my worries, and even if I couldn't do it, I could quit immediately, and I remember being happy.

Even if you're looking for a body, if you're someone who cares about my heart, even if I refuse once, I might reconsider.


However, my dad is different from my boyfriend, and I know it's not good to have expectations of my dad.
 

A Final Word

If you decline a date, a dating club will call you. (Not Universe Club)

What you talked about, how long you were together, what you didn't like, why you declined, how you can do it next time, etc. You may be asked in detail.

In addition, reports such as complaints from men and "From now on, when I refuse, it's not because I'm not compatible, but because I'm nervous!” and so on.

Dating clubs are involved only in setting up, and after that, although it is said that it is free love, there are quite a few clubs that are involved in free love, probably because of the trust of male members.

If you refuse, you will be worried that you will not be able to get the setting anymore.

But personally I don't think so!Even if you refuse, I will come to set you up♪


I think it's not easy to say goodbye while being beautiful and happy with each other.

And there are not many encounters that are truly compatible.

When I refuse, I worry that the other person will not be hurt.


However, in fact, just like I don't think anything unexpectedly when I'm dumped by a man, my dad's side may be "actually not thinking about being rejected" more than girls think.

I'll forget you soon

So if it doesn't fit, I want to think that it's okay to refuse at all! !smile


Of course, it is true that I am grateful for the offer I received from a man.

Dating clubs are attractive to refuse.

I think the key to continuing your ideal dad life is to be brazen, be your own convenience, be positive, and find the best dad/girlfriend while meeting various people.


You're a girl, so let's be selfish!smile

I hope you can meet a wonderful dad ♪