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    When I was visiting clients in sales, the transaction...

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Question date: 2024/04/16 00:25

This is the story of when I was assigned to a branch in Osaka for two years after completing new employee training in Tokyo.

When I was visiting a customer in sales, an employee of that customer and an employee of a company that was delivering goods to that store colluded, diverted goods from that store, and exchanged them for cash elsewhere. , there was a time when we shared the money.

The employee at that business partner was a very nice person, and no one would have expected him to commit such a crime. Both had gambling debts that they apparently used to pay off.

In the end, I was arrested by the police and fired from the company, but at the time, I, the store owner, and the employees all said, ``It didn't seem like I was going to do something that big.'' I remember him talking with his shoulders slumped.

I never thought something like that would happen at the first branch I was assigned to after joining the company, so I wondered if it was trauma. please? I don't know, but every time I see the news about this interpreter, I feel very sick.

The man I'm dating tells me, ``You shouldn't worry too much about it,'' but every time I see the news on TV, I feel bad.

I think the fathers have much more experience in society and life than I do.

Have you ever been betrayed by someone you trusted, or felt surprised and disappointed, thinking, ``I never thought this person would do something like this,'' like the interpreter who is currently being talked about?

Is it good for your mental health to think that it doesn't matter because it's something someone else did, and that you can only wait for time to resolve everything?

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Seattle

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I have never had a bad experience of being betrayed.
PJ took out tens of thousands of yen from my wallet.

They think that it doesn't matter because it was something someone else did, and that all they can do is wait for time to resolve everything.
↑I think this is exactly right.


Gambling, lottery, idiots who can't calculate probability. Horse racing is fun, but you can only buy it for up to 1,000 yen.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/16 07:13
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Paper

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In Mr. Otani's case, I think it is unavoidable because he does not understand English.

I believe that I am at fault for creating a situation that led to betrayal, embezzlement, and crime.

In fact, damage occurred because I did not manage things properly, and I am remorseful.

I also think it's more important to believe and move forward, even if you're betrayed or deceived (and don't care).

  • Answer date: 2024/04/16 01:22
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sun moon new

I see you still remember what happened in Osaka.
However, the theft of an interpreter that has recently been reported in America? scam? The time, place, and background of the incident are completely different.

It seems that humans have a tendency to think in relation to other things, but the things that the person thinks are related are essentially not related at all.

I think it's better to stay away from TV and the internet than to feel depressed.
News etc. are designed to stir up anxiety and keep people glued to their eyes, increasing viewership and site visits.

People say it's better to be interested in the world, but more than 99% of the news is something you don't need to know.
Regardless of whether a war breaks out in the Middle East or not, if there is nothing that can be done at this point, such as lobbying the Israeli government, moving the Japanese government, or accepting Japanese nationals living in Israel, then what will happen when the impact approaches the extent that can be dealt with? That's a good thing.
In the neighboring prefecture, it doesn't matter if someone is being molested or someone is being hurt.
If you don't want to compromise and learn through the news and become a victim of crime, you should use the time you spend watching half-baked news to study.

Because we have half-hearted expectations of others, we have the luxury of spending time watching the news and feeling depressed.
I think if you completely stop expecting things from others, you can concentrate on what you need to do without unnecessary stress.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/16 14:49
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Taro

Humans are creatures that lie.

What was interesting about this case was that one of the TV commentators classified the lies.
1. Lies to cover up one's wrongdoings
2. Lies to make yourself look good
3. Lies that deceive others
4. Lies to help others

Once again, humans are creatures that tell lies. I can definitely say that I live a lie every day. It's shit and it's also a lie. A lie with poop (lol)

At the same time, humans are weak creatures. At the mercy of desire and temptation. The technique of lying becomes intertwined and becomes more and more complicated.

In such a situation, people who can do the right thing are wonderful. Saint Kimiko is wonderful. Otani-san, who lives his life without telling a lie, is also amazing, Otani Go! GO!♫.

Well, most people don't do that, myself included, and the world won't work unless we all work together. Bad things are bad, but these days I want to be tolerant of people who admit their faults.

Taro

  • Answer date: 2024/04/17 04:03