Thank you as always! This is Teratsuji from the Universe Club.

It's already October... Only 10 months left of 2024. Doesn't it go by so quickly? Aren't you scared?
Is there anything you want to do?

I have nothing left to do!

Anyway, the other day, I reviewed my insurance and signed up for a few things for the future.
Too realistic.

 

But today...in fact, this very moment is the youngest I will ever be in my life.

 

Today is the youngest day,
Is it okay if I don't join the Universe Club?
Is it okay not to make an offer to that girl you like?

 

Don't think that your parents, money, and that cute child will always be there.

 

Before"I've been thinking about how to beat the B1 type."I wrote an article saying that, but that was just a speculation based on data, and it may just be armchair theory. After all, the incident happened on the ground.

 

Armchair theory
An argument or plan that seems logical but is completely useless in practice.

 

Well, I hope it's not completely useless.
I hope it helps in some way.

 

So, now we know what type B1 is.

 

So then,What about the B2 type?That's what we're saying, right?

The B2 type is simpler and clearer, so today's article should be quick (I think).

 

B2 type

If I'm type A or B1, I won't get any offers, and if I'm type C, I'm afraid I won't be invited on the first day, so I'll go with B2.

Type and

I'm okay with having a deep emotional relationship, but on the first day I want to see what kind of man he is over dinner or tea

There may be two patterns:

 

What is the B2 type?
"The first time is just a meal. From the second time onwards, there is a possibility that it will develop into a relationship."
This type expresses the following intention.

This "may" is a bit troubling, but aside from that,
When this B2 type was newly decided, the original nuance was
"The first date can tell you whether or not you can develop an adult relationship on the second date or later."
It became.

Of course, it all comes down to feeling.

Before changing from Type B to Type B1 and B2, there was a forum for exchanging various opinions within the company.

The president suddenly took the lead.

So let's change that starting today!

That's not what I said.
We spent a long time debating what kind of expression, what kind of sentence, what kind of explanation would be best. We even asked our members to help us by filling out a questionnaire. Thank you for your help.

 

In fact, when I was transferred to the sales promotion department in April of last year, the proposal to change to Type B was already in existence, so they may have had about a year to prepare. I don't know the details up to that point, but it's certain that it wasn't decided overnight.

It was a pretty big change.

 

So, at that time
I once participated in a meeting on the topic of "how to best explain things to women in interviews."

I can understand

"If we meet for dinner the first time, and the second time we meet, and it doesn't develop into an adult relationship, then we'll never see each other again! (For each other, right?) Goodbye! Isn't it okay to say something like that?"

I gave my opinion,
It was rejected as being a bit too explicit.
It didn't resonate much.

But the nuance is something like this.

So, women
If they refuse by saying something like, "I'd like to meet you a bit more before making a decision," then that's not the right answer.

The correct way to decline a B2 type request (in my opinion) is

"I can't imagine you growing into an adult, so I won't be seeing you anymore."
"I can't have any adult developments, but if it's just for a meal, I'd be happy to meet you."

Is it something like that?

 

In a survey conducted after a date with a B2 type woman,
"That's not B2."
"A-ish, at best B1"
I sometimes receive comments like this, and I don't want to overlook this kind of feedback.

Because it shouldn't end with, "Is that a refusal?"

 

Of course, if you ask the women, most of them will turn you down (unfortunately).

 

Often

• The pay conditions were high
• I was charged a high transportation fee
• If we could have a few more meals and get to know each other,
• I'm not feeling well today

 

We sometimes get feedback that women have said to us,
This may be a refusal phrase used by women who are not very clear.

As a staff member, there are times when I feel this way.
In fact, we have received some negative feedback from women, and we don't think that women who request 10 yen allowances are necessarily bad.

There is a feeling, and each person has their own values. The club has no influence on the amount of the allowance, and to be honest, I personally don't care or care how much the women say.

However, as I may have written somewhere before,
It is the mismatch between women who want higher allowances and men who want lower allowances that causes the mismatch, so we would like to support efforts to eliminate this mismatch.

I've digressed a bit, but
Even if you check the facts with women
I'm sorry, I couldn't say no properly... is the response I often get, so I guess that's how it is.

 

However, we need to wait a moment to consider how the B2 type is rejected.

 

① The club is not able to provide women with a clear understanding of the B2 type.

② I chose B2 because I thought I would get more offers than B1 or A.

3) When the time comes, I can't say no clearly.

I think it's these three patterns.

In case ①, the club should make improvements.
In case ②, check to see if the woman's relationship type should be changed.
In the case of ③, you should think about what to do together with the woman.

The solution will be different.
From the man's point of view, the result is still "rejection",
Depending on which pattern it fits into, future operations will change.

For this reason, the post-date surveys that we still receive cooperation from so many of you are like a treasure to the club.
Let us use this as a hint to help you improve your club activities going forward.

Thank you very much for your continued cooperation!

If you're confused by the way they turn down B2 type women, feel free to throw it in the club.

However, it's really unfortunate, but if you find yourself thinking "Huh?", it's usually after you've been turned down...

 

So, is there really a way to beat the B2 type?

 

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This may seem like a clickbait title, but
More than C type "Feeling" I wonder what it is.

 

It's about whether or not we'll get a good feeling for what's to come on the first day.
Will I be able to do it next time or not?

Do you like cilantro or not, can you eat it or not?
Isn't this the ultimate two-choice question? Not quite?

 

I think there are many points to consider when thinking about the feeling you get at that time, both for you and for each other.

• Looks, cleanliness, smell
• Conditions of allowance
• Did the conversation get lively?
• Isn't it intimidating?
• Are they asking about your personal information or about other men?
• Isn't the dirty jokes exploding?
• Haven't you been carrying it around for a long time?
• Are you showing your ulterior motives?

 

There may be more information about this in this article:
The article was published about a year ago, but the data hasn't changed that much.

Seen from the setting data, "I don't want to see you again! What is the male image that seems to be?

 

I think this is true whether in a romantic relationship or marriage,
You can't really know if you think "this is the one!" until you actually meet someone.
There are some things that cannot be seen in photos or data.

Based on my past research,

Go on dates with 3 to 5 people and see if there's one person you'd like to see again.
After meeting about 10 people, you may find one that makes you feel like you want to have a long-term relationship with that person.

That's it.
This is not an armchair theory, but rather a voice from the field, as I have met and spoken to many male members. Of course, the actual number may be higher or lower.

If you get turned down or feel like it's not quite right, just go ahead and try the next one. It might be more fun if you have that mindset. It's not something I can say lightly because it costs money, but
My impression is that men who are quick to move on and eager to meet different women are the ones who are able to find good matches.

 

Today is the youngest you are. Right now, at this very moment, you are the youngest you will ever be.

 

(I feel like I'm telling myself that!)

 

The way to beat B2 type is
Get some general details about the woman from the club and make preparations in advance.
More than that, enjoy the first date. There is something that will come into view after having fun.

How about something like this?
It doesn't seem to make sense at all, but that's what I think.
There's no need to worry about this or that, just meet him! That's all!

 

Sorry, I lied.
It doesn't end quickly at all.

 

I wonder if there's a strategy for types A, C, and D? So this series will end here for now.

Thank you for your association until the end.

 

If you have any helpful tips on how to deal with relationship type B2, please let me know in the comments.