2025/12/19

Men's behaviors that actually turn women off

Hello.
This is Ishibashi from Universe Club Chiba branch.

This time just a littleYour ears may hurtTell me a story.
However, these are all things that are more likely to happen because there is no ill intent.

From a woman's perspective
Smiling at the time, but not leading to anything next
Here are some common behaviors that can cause this:


① The distance was too close from the first time

Touching the shoulder
・Excessive body touching
・Speak with your face close

Even if the man intends to maintain a mature distance,
the female side
"We haven't built a relationship of trust yet..."
I often feel this way.

The first time
"It's best not to touch it."
That's about right.


② The dirty jokes start early

This is really common.

・As soon as the alcohol is served
・Intent to get laughs
・The decision was made because they were both adults.

women are
"How does this person see me?"
And it instantly becomes calm.

It's not that dirty jokes themselves are taboo,
Once trust is establishedis correct.


3. I talk too long

・Work heroic tales
・Old love
・Talking about money

Women really listen.
But it's
Having fun = OK
Not.

"Good listener = good impression"
This is true.


④ “Evaluating” women

・"You're the ____ type"
・"I think you're suited to this world."
・"You should do ____"

Even if the advice is not malicious,
women are
I feel like they're looking down on meYou may.

The first time
"Empathy" is better than evaluation.


A Final Word

Many of the behaviors that turn women off are
Because of kindness and honestyThis is often the case.

That's why, just a little
・Taking a break
・Watch your opponent's pace
・Take a step back

Just this
The probability of getting next varies greatly.

If you feel like there's no next step...
Try to remember what we covered today.

Author of this article

nice to meet you!This is ishibashi from the Chiba branch!He likes vulgar expressions, but he's a boy at heart. talk to this staff