Hello! I am Seiichi Ishibashi from Universe Club Chiba branch.
This time we would like to introduce some frequently asked questions in a Q&A format!
*This is based on Ishibashi's research, so please use it as a reference only (┰_┰)
Q1: What does sugar dating actually involve?
A:
The basic style is to receive compensation for the time you spend together, such as for meals or tea.
There is no need to force yourself to do anything, and the key point is to "build a relationship with mutual consent." It's OK to proceed at your own pace!
Q2: Where can I meet people safely? What is the difference between apps and dating clubs?
A:
Although apps are easy to use, it is important to manage the risks. Be careful as many of the people involved are unknown.
On the other hand, dating clubs have a membership screening process, so you can feel safe and secure in terms of manners. Staff will be there to help you, so it is recommended for beginners!
Q3: What should I talk about when I meet someone for the first time?
A:
It's best to ask questions that show you're interested in the other person. It's best to start with easy-to-talk topics like, "Are you busy with work?" or "Do you have any hobbies?"
Finding common ground will naturally lead to lively conversation!
Q4: How much can I ask for? How do I decide the amount and terms?
A:
If you focus on negotiating price from the start, your relationship is likely to become shallow.
It is important to honestly communicate "what kind of relationship you want" and "what kind of support you would like" and work together with the other party to find a solution. Take a "consultation" stance rather than a negotiation one.
Q5: What should I do if I start to feel uneasy or it doesn't suit me?
A:
There's no need to force yourself! If you don't feel like it, it's okay to politely decline.
Safety and comfort come first, that's OK. Relationships are also a once in a lifetime experience, so don't push yourself too hard and take care of yourself.
Q6: Any tips for continuing for a long time?
A:
Exactly,Gratitude and care!
Small words like "I had a great time today" or "Thank you" can lead to trust and a comfortable atmosphere. Even just being a little considerate of the other person's preferences and lifestyle can greatly deepen your relationship.
in conclusion
There is no right answer when it comes to sugar dating, and compatibility and timing are also important. However, just being a little bit polite and considerate will make you feel more secure and trustworthy.
If you're wondering, "What should I do in this situation?", please re-read this Q&A. I hope you can find a relationship that is comfortable for you!