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Question date: 2021/02/16 14:51

From a married man in his XNUMXs who has been in the club for about two years, I would like to ask an anonymous question box for the first time.

Up until now, I've been able to get along with most of the women registered in Class B in a calm and comfortable manner. is.

If I had a little time to spare, I would be able to meet the best Donpisha type of all time, which is rare. ?I feel like I've finally reached that point.

He even told me that he was ready to cross the line with you someday.

At this point, she asked me something like this..."I'm about my age, so I want to have a relationship, and by the way, even if I get a boyfriend, can you continue?"

If you haven't had the experience of being asked about it in advance, I feel that you should keep quiet about it, but suddenly? "If that's the case, wouldn't it be better to stop taking it one step further and not meet up often just for meals? I'd be hesitant about my boyfriend if he knew of his existence, and if you're cautious, it'll just make it harder for you to be divisible. It seems that I have touched the wrath of the other party painfully.

Don't you think it's not fair that you're meeting other women at the club?I was told back.

You need financial support for various reasons, and although I understand your feelings, it would be a problem if you asked me if my boyfriend was good or bad.

I don't know why you asked such a question, but is it the other person's feeling that you want them to accept it, including that?The other party is a highly educated student who is very poor due to family circumstances.

I can't easily draw a conclusion because it's too much of a shame to say goodbye to this troublesome woman.

I would appreciate it if you could give me an opinion.

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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.

Even though I'm married, I don't want the other person to have a boyfriend,
I was so selfish that I was surprised.

And that selfishness straight
Instead of saying I'm jealous

Looking from above
How to say you will be painful

How is it when you come here?That's what it feels like.
And I'm surprised that there are people who think only about themselves so much.

Moreover
"I'm going to ignore you and say bye-bye..."
and up.

It means that you only care about your own feelings, regardless of the other person's feelings.
Well, if it's going well, I won't say anything


> I would appreciate it if you could give me your opinion.

First, apologize to the woman and continue dating.
I think that's the way not to expose it.

Let's get a boyfriend
Let's make 10 dads

I want you to have a heart that is big enough to love women, including that.

I wrote that it was spacious.
not wide at all
It's normal.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 17:57
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Seattle

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Seattle.

It's only natural that an attractive woman should have a boyfriend.I think she was there from the beginning.It was a "don't care" choice.

I gave the wrong answer, so I have no choice but to apologize and give you a little more allowance.

Postscript

Mr. Taro's answer is always interesting, so I want to read the draft.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 15:03
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Marika

It's too cool.
And I'm proud of myself.
Don't you think it's only natural for a young woman to have a boyfriend?
From the beginning, please understand that there is no such thing as a single woman who is so beautiful and charming.
And if you're going to be a dad, you don't have to stand up and deal with one of your boyfriends.

You both feel clumsy.

I think that she should not bother to ask her about it.

Marika

Although it is superfluous, I feel that the questioner is very serious.
However, not only that, but the writing is so old-fashioned that I can't believe I'm in my 50s.
I'd like to believe it doesn't look like it.



  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 18:26
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Kazu

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This is Kazu, a male member.

I don't care if I have a boyfriend, so I couldn't sympathize at all.
Even though the fundamental sense of values ​​is different, the point of being a strike was also disappointing.

The mystery only deepens.It looks like I'll be working with my head tilted all day today.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 15:23
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It's okay to regret it.It's the first time I've ever had that much, and I'm going to have energy to review my actions and rants.

Also, it is possible to touch the back scales by giving arbitrary reasons, so be careful.

If you have offended a woman, the first thing you need is an apology.It's a discussion after I've been forgiven.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 15:45
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date ◎ dream

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This is Yume, the date of the male member.

If women want it and you can accept it, I don't think there's anything wrong with it.
Do whatever you like!

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 14:59

Taro

This is Taro, a male member.

Seeing the questioner being beaten up by the respondents made me feel sorry for him.Feeling like Urashima Taro helping a turtle (laughs)

I have had similar experiences.I don't think she had a boyfriend at the time.Isn't there a kind of pride behind the remarks? Tsundere feeling like "I'll date you, but I have my own life, and in that sense it's not a serious relationship."The girl said that when she negotiated for no allowance for food only, she would say things like, "It's fine.But in fact, she didn't care about the level of her store.

I think you already know what went wrong, so here's the solution.Feel free to drop to the ground.I think it's my feelings that I think are important as a man in the dating club.It's not just sexual desire, but there is a feeling that the woman is wonderful.It's true that the answer in the question is a big mistake, but I had a strange feeling of concern, and the way I expressed it was wrong. is better to tell straight.

To tell the truth, I thought about how I would say it, so I got drunk and even thought about the draft.But even if I say I'm drunk, I still have 1% of my sanity left.As expected, I was too embarrassed to raise this and thought that I would have to hang myself tomorrow morning, so I will delete it.So think for yourself turtle (laughs).

I don't hate clumsy guys, so do I.Do your best until the very end, turtle.Whether you win or lose, you learn a lot.It's true.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/17 01:25

Anonymous

This is Yuri, a female member.

I think I asked because I don't want to get involved in troublesome opponents.

Many people who offer B type offers are troublesome people who are pseudo-romance uncles.

If you think he's a good person and go out with him, make him the only one!Don't make a boyfriend!Pick up the phone now!It's not the person who was in the previous question, but isn't that kind of transcendental pain?
I'm sure I've hit a troublesome dad in the past...

You don't do that, you're a generous gentleman, aren't you?Confirmation.
It's nice to see everyone's answers.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/17 03:21
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Anonymous

This is Sakura, a female member.

Don't think only by your own measure.
"I've never been told that before," and the person I'm living with right now is the girl in front of me, so I can't move forward without accepting her way of doing things.

If she is intelligent, I think there is still room for recovery. Be sure to add her, "I thought there was no woman as nice as you."Once she says "accept", she must protect her.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/17 07:07
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Paper

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Donpisha, let's change the definition of strike.

Just as the questioner wanted, everything is about a woman who is ideal.
Also, women need to feel the same way.I think she will be successful only then.

>Finally arrived
>Eventually...

So it's not exactly what you want, it's the opposite of what you want.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/17 10:45

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