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Question date: 2021/02/16 13:00

We always have fun look.
I am a female member in her 20s.
There is a male member who meets once or twice a month for more than half a year.
There are often times when it's just a meal for the convenience of the person, but at that time, I'll give you a meal only allowance.
I'm sure everyone has their own ideas, but I was wondering how the other male members would be paid for a meal-only date for their own convenience.
Please let me know if you don't mind.

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If you only eat for men's convenience, it is natural to give an adult allowance.Find another man.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 14:03
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I don't do things like cheating like that lol

Basically, I think that they are more interested in the allowance than the person I am, so I can't ask them out on a date only for dinner.The feeling of being sorry wins.

The other day, I was asked out on a date, but when I declined because I didn't have enough money, he said, "I want to meet you even if it's just for dinner!"
When I said, "Eh, I can only pay about XNUMX yen for meals, is that okay?" I'm happy!", but I feel like my senses are getting strange lol

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 17:03
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Maezawa from the president's office will also answer.

thanks for your questions.

There is no point in knowing what other people are doing.

In this case, I decided to have a meal instead of going to the hotel due to the convenience of the man.
First of all, whether there was consultation in advance
I think that will be an important point.

If I had been consulted in advance, I would decline this time if it was just a meal.
I think I was able to do it.

If there was no consultation in advance, the man who did not fulfill the contract would be responsible if it was a general contract form.
You may be able to claim the cost of it.

In the case of an adult relationship, the contract is not concluded in the first place.
It's just a general case.

Then, even in a case like this time, if you think normally
Because the man suddenly decided to only eat today

I think it's a gentleman's man to give the same treatment as usual.

Men may not be aware of this, so
If it's a man's convenience and you suddenly change to a meal
I would like you to contact me by the day before.
If that is not possible, could you give me the same treatment as when I went to the hotel?

It's also a hand to say.

However, I think that there is a high possibility that men will think of you as a troublesome woman and end the relationship there.
So, I'm not convinced, and only when I have to complain
It's best to only do it when you're ready to end the relationship.

if you still want to meet

I think that man is a man who can't think about the other person even if he changes for his own convenience.
As soon as you find a new man, I think you should think of it like saying goodbye.

If there was a story in advance that it was just a meal
I don't think it's so strange that the allowance is only for meals.

The point is that it was changed for the convenience of men.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 16:18
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Kazu

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This is Kazu, a male member.

It's rare, but for my convenience, if it's a meal, it's an allowance as usual.I have never discussed the amount of the allowance for meals only with the person who is continuing.

If it is a meal for women's convenience or a woman's invitation, there is no allowance.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 13:05
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This is Yume, the date of the male member.

In my case, we only meet twice a month, so I will give it to you regardless of adults, meals, or tea.
Otherwise, women's income will not be stable.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 19:46
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Paper

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This is a male member's paper plane that I have never met due to male circumstances.I'm just a lazy person...

That's why the flow when we met and the mood of the two of us will determine which flow.

If it is once or twice a month, if the time is short, there is no choice but to stay at the hotel. If you are type C.

If it's 4.5 times, it's different again...

  • Answer date: 2021/02/16 20:04
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This is Yuri, a female member.

Even if I ask the male members here, I feel that there are many rich and gentlemen who give allowances as usual, so I feel that it is not helpful.
If you suddenly decide to just have a meal, I would like you to decline before you meet.
If you don't have an allowance, tell them that you can't meet unless you have an adult.
It would be nice if we could meet in a way that we were satisfied with.

  • Answer date: 2021/02/17 03:52

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