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I joined a dating club for the first time and met a man.
After dinner, we went out for drinks at another bar and spent 40,000 yen...
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Question date: 2026/01/08 23:16
Good evening
I joined a dating club for the first time and met a man.
After the meal, we went to another bar for drinks and spent 40,000 yen.
Is this more than the market rate?
Would it be better to meet with the same man rather than accept a new offer?
If they do have a physical relationship, how long will it last?
- gender female
- Age: 30s
- Member: Universe Female Member
- Member ID: 03708
- Who should answer: Anyone
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iine
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question answerAnswers: 8

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Male member
Seattle
It's more than the market price.
When you're in an adult relationship,
The bottom is 3, the median is 5, and the top class is around 20. Makeo's Super PJ is in a class of its own, so I'll exclude it.
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 00:03
iine
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Male member
date ◎ dream
I think it's on the expensive side for just the food (and drinks).
However, if a relationship that includes an adult relationship in the future is possible, in my case I would pay the same amount of allowance, so I think it's up to the person asking the question to decide.
Also, considering the importance of knowing the market price and the fact that it is a backup, I think it would be okay to accept a few more offers.
However, those who maintain a constant relationship will receive the most support in many ways.
I don't recommend being too casual and trying out different things in a relationship.
I recommend focusing on one or two relationships (lol).
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 08:38
iine
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Female member
Take a deep breath
I think an allowance of 4 is too much for drinking with friends.
Perhaps he knew it was your first date and was being generous and wanting to continue dating you in the future...
As Kamihikouki-sama said, was the higher allowance given because of his advanced age?
Or maybe you've always had your own style in mind...
I get the impression that the person asking the question has only recently registered.
Why not keep this guy and take on other offers while comparing men's allowance styles?
As you meet different people, you will get a sense of the right distance and comfort with men, as well as how to provide them with benefits.
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 13:23
iine
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Male member
safe area
There is a price list for entertainment and prostitution, so there is a market price,
In a relationship, I don't get any allowance but my husband covers all of my living expenses.
The allowance is high but the restrictions are severe,
It's not just the allowance.
Still, if you just want to use the price as a reference,
Find out how much you can make with Feng Shui.
There is a several-fold price difference between popular and high-end establishments, and the same is true for dating.
If you can get 1 per hour for water, it would be classified as a high-end store.
I received several offers, and I chose one based on the level of commitment and availability.
I think it's something that should be judged on the whole,
If money is the only deciding factor, then that's fine.
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 15:32
iine
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Male member
Fuu
It was good
In your 30s, without an adult, that allowance
Please take good care of that daddy
I can't imagine Fuu, who is looking for adults.
is not it
If you search on a search site
The approximate amount will come out
If you want to know, you can try it
As other answerers said
Why not try accepting other people's offers too?
There are various types of allowances offered
I think
I won't accept anything below this amount
If you want to become an adult, this is the price
Decide on the minimum line
I think it's better to keep it
The first agreement becomes the default
Please be careful
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 20:22
iine
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Male member
Mac
As far as I know, it's not true that dads who give a high meal allowance tend to give even higher adult allowances. This is because dads who give a meal allowance are satisfied with that, but may not necessarily want adults.
Be careful, because if a woman starts talking about adult matters, she may end up cutting him off instead.
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 21:56
iine
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Male member
Losing man
2 jobs in 4 hours is 4?
I think that's a pretty high price for a meal allowance.
I added 10 to my meal allowance.
If it's 4 meals, it would be 14 for adults.
However, thinking about it now, I think it was a poor way of doing things.
Sugar daddy activities are built on many failures.
I have several children over 20 at a time, and since I take responsibility for these children's lives, in a sense my style is similar to Seattle's.
By taking on a woman's life itself, I feel a sense of ecstasy, thinking, "I'm being useful," so I think that in the end, it's Seattle and I who benefit.
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 00:13
iine
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Paper
If you're concerned about the market price, I think it's better to accept a new offer.
You can also choose based on compatibility rather than market price.
I think the pay isn't bad.
If you limit it to the first day and only eat there, I think it's not too expensive or too cheap.
The average is 1-5 (1-40 for some people), so it's higher than the middle. If the man is older, even if it's just dinner, it's still average, so it's 4-5.
The number of men who find value in being together does not increase significantly just as they get older.
If you feel it is important for adults, I think you will make a big difference between meals.
- Answer date: 2026/01/09 02:41
iine
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