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Question date: 2025/11/04 14:58

I just signed up for Universe and Patro.
I was communicating with a male Universe member on Patro, and he asked me, "I'd really like to meet you, but is it okay if I ask you via letter date instead of Patro?"

I don't understand why you would go out of your way to offer a letter date when you're already communicating through Patrol. Why is that?
The initial allowance desired for Patrol is set to 1.

  • gender female
  • Age: 20s
  • Member: Universe Female Member
  • Member ID: 51067
  • Who should answer: Anyone

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question answerAnswers: 7

Male member

Kazu

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The correct answer is a question only the person in question knows, but I came up with reasons such as wanting to use the balance in my Universe Club or wanting to use the Universe Club because I had inquired with a staff member at the Universe Club.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 15:17
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system engineer member

Although this is not the case for everyone, the cheapest setup fee is when you use a letter date.
Only he himself knows whether his intention was to keep the setup fee low.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 18:20
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Seattle

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I guess it depends on which one is cheaper. I don't think it has anything to do with the amount of allowance.

Comments on columns are approved slowly.


Postscript
I just commented on Mac's latest column, but I guess it'll probably be approved again in about two days.
I don't mind it being late, but five years ago there were dozens of discussions going on in the comments section, so it's a bit sad. I'm a veteran now.


P.S. of P.S.

I posted a comment on the column just before noon and it has just now been approved.
Two days later it was over, it was half a day, sorry.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 18:55
Male member

Die

It's clear that this is to save on setup fees, but does it make sense for the person asking the question to know that?

However, only black members can apply for letter dates.

In other words, I think it's more likely that they don't want to save on their allowance.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 19:32
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Maezawa (Staff)

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This is because the setup fee for letter dates is cheaper.

Letter dates are half the normal setup fee.
This means less money to pay to the club.

However, with letter dates, the setting is complete once the man and woman exchange messages.
In fact, even if the woman does not meet afterwards, the club does not have to refund the setup fee.
Men who don't understand this principle sometimes complain.

Letter dates are set up by exchanging messages, but since it's not clear whether you'll be able to go on a date with a woman, they're priced at half price.
It's just that they don't understand that.

Of course, the woman will also need a reason, such as gradually becoming disliked by the content of the emails.
You may learn about the other person's personality while interacting with them.
I think that's just the men's fault.

One thing to note is that if you are stingy with the setup fee
There is a possibility that they will skimp on your allowance
If you are invited to a hotel, we recommend that you make sure that the allowance is something you are satisfied with.


ps>Comments on columns are approved slowly.

Comments on columns are not approved, and should be displayed immediately after they are written.
Are you talking about the comments on an old column?
Are the old columns still approval-based?

It may take some time to display due to possible server cache issues.

Server cache has a negative effect, so I'm telling you to remove it.
They give various reasons why they can't remove it.
I'm in trouble.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 20:17

Andy

I can imagine that this is a way to save on the offer fee, but since only black members can use letter dates, why not look at it positively and think of it as a confirmation of an offer from a black member?

The offer fee is not much different between via Patro and via letter, but as I wrote before, there is a reversal phenomenon, where there are women who are Platinum on Universe and Black on Patro. If you look at the offer fee alone, there are many cases where it is cheaper to make an offer through Universe, so this may be the case.

For your information.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 20:54
Male member

Losing man

I do that occasionally.

The reason is that I want to extend the record for the total number of offers I have received at Universe Club.
I currently have around 200 offers and am aiming for 300.

Because there are idiots like me, I don't think I can give a general answer to the question, "Why?"

It's not important, but a friend of mine asked me, "Are Darling's comments approval from the club and not the writer?"


Postscript
It seems like letter dates are somehow evil, so I'll answer seriously.

I apologize for talking about a friend of mine again, but my friend wrote a column called "Etiquette for a Letter Date," so I recommend you find it and read it.
Give the woman the setup fee you saved. This is where the letter date begins.
If you tell the woman "This is for a letter date" and send her the money, she will be happy and you will be one step ahead of other sugar daddies.
By the way, I once gave a woman 10 just for a letter date.
Since you can't send money through Patolo, unless it's an emergency, I will direct them to a letter date and hand over the money there.

Of course, I want to support the Universe Club, but the most important thing is the women.
If you cut the setup fee in half and give the money you save to the woman, she'll be happy, right?
It's a shame that everyone only thinks about themselves and ends up thinking that letter dates are stingy.
I always put women first.

I know that if I write this, I might reveal my true identity, but I just wanted to say something.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/04 16:02