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Question date: 2025/11/02 12:11

I just started recently and am trying it out at B1 level, but after doing it with a few people I'm starting to feel that it's physically difficult.
There is someone who said that we should meet just for dinner and then, if he is interested, we could meet in 2 or 3 months, but to be honest, I don't think that's going to work.
Is it okay to continue meeting someone even though I'm not interested?
It's not like, "Let's definitely move on to the body!" or anything like that, but rather, "If you're okay with that, then maybe in about three months..."

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  • Age: 20s
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>Is it not a good idea to continue meeting someone even though you're not interested?

I don't think it's a good idea to meet without telling them that fact.
I think it depends on whether you thought it wouldn't work with that person, or whether you thought it wouldn't work with anyone.
If you think it's impossible to play against that opponent, you can also play in B1.

If you think it's impossible to win against anybody, then the answer is A.

If you think it's A, it's better to tell them and leave the decision up to them.
It would be a good idea to change the type of club as well.

If B1's feelings remain the same, but the person he met thought it was impossible,
I think it would be best to explain that even if we continued dating, it would be difficult to have a physical relationship, and leave it up to the other person to decide.

If you think your feelings might change in two or three months, I don't think you need to say anything.

I think most women can tell the moment they meet someone whether they can handle it or not.
If I feel that way now, I don't think it will be possible even in two or three months.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/02 12:55
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>After meeting a few people, I'm starting to feel that it's physically difficult.

If it's difficult in the sense that you don't get along with the person you meet, then I don't think it's a problem.
If club activities make it difficult to do anything other than eat, then your dating type is A.

>Is it not a good idea to continue meeting someone even though you're not interested?

I think it's best to decline. It's not a guarantee, but it could cause trouble.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/02 16:12

Andy

I think that's a good stance.
We make offers to B1 with the understanding that this is the type of woman who would choose it.
If I feel like it's going to be a long-term relationship after meeting for the first time or the second time, I just fade out, but there's nothing wrong with the B1 woman.

However, if you feel that it's not going to work out no matter how long you try, trying to drag out the relationship by hinting at it could lead to trouble or unpleasant experiences later on, so I think it's best to decide depending on the person.

For your information.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/02 16:20
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Fuu

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He's honest and has a good personality
questioner
Thank you for your honest opinion

While secretly telling myself that my body can't handle it
Continue receiving allowance
I think most people are hesitant to

Capa girls and snack bar mamas
That's the technique that makes money lol

  • Answer date: 2025/11/02 23:46
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Paper

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When making an offer for type B1, we are also considering cases like the one in the questioner or cases leaning more towards type A.

In fact, I feel like I would rather have a woman who is closer to A than C.


There are women and men who don't like men who are only interested in sex or money, so I think it's best to continue dating a man who shares your views on these matters.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/02 12:55
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Losing man

I think you should change it to Type A.
I don't think it would be rude if you let the people you are currently meeting know as soon as possible that you have changed to Type A.

Instead of saying, "Adults are difficult," say something like, "After much consideration, I've decided to change to Type A. If it's difficult for you to meet in the future, you can just quietly fade out." No one will be hurt.

You may feel personally rejected when you hear "adults are difficult," but since you've changed to Type A, which means that you can't handle adults no matter who the person is, men who contact you won't feel bad.


The important thing is to get in touch yourself.
Since you registered as B1, you should clean up after yourself.

  • Answer date: 2025/11/02 17:06

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