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I have been a member of the dating club since I was 43 years old, and I am currently in my 12th year as a platinum member.
My wife is 52 and we've been married for 26 years...
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Question date: 2025/10/05 05:58
I'm a 55 year old male.
I have been a member of the dating club since I was 43 years old, and I am currently in my 12th year as a platinum member.
My wife is 52 and we've been married for 26 years.
I have a 51-year-old girlfriend who I've been dating for two years now.
I am quite satisfied with my private life apart from my sexual desire, but to put it simply, I still think that a younger woman is better physically.
So far, I have offered to Platinum and Gold class women. I think I make offers to about 10 to 12 women a year.
I'm just a womanizer.
However, it is difficult to find a woman who is compatible with me both mentally and physically. I have rarely been rejected by women, but most of my relationships with women have ended after two or three times.
When I can't find a woman I like or when I'm not satisfied, I release my sexual desire at a men's beauty salon.
The women I've considered nice so far have been one gold woman and two platinum women, but the only long-term relationship I've had is about three years.
Recently, one woman has been awarded platinum, and one woman has been awarded gold. The annual amount spent on each person is about 1.5 million to 2 million yen.
Recently, I've started to think that if I upgraded to a black member and made offers to black member women, things might be different.
To a male Black member or staff member: Are Black women really that different?
I have been hesitant to use the service because the one-time referral fee is high, but I am wondering if it is cost-effective. There is a concierge service available for black members, but do you have any advice on how to minimize mismatches when it comes to matching?
Also, now that I'm 55, I used to enjoy dating men in their early 20s, but now the age difference between us is as big as that between a parent and child, and I'm starting to feel a generation gap. I've also started to worry about what other people think when we go out on dates, as if I'm obviously trying to find a sugar daddy. Should I raise the age range a little and make an offer? Is this something everyone is concerned about?
By the way, the girls I'm currently dating are 26 and 24 years old.
- gender male
- Age: 50s
- Member: Universe male member
- Member ID: 14488
- Who should answer: Anyone
iine
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Male member
Joe Rubicon
I'm older, but you've been active for a longer period of time.
There are some parts of the question that I can relate to, but there are also some parts that I can't.
The most uncomfortable thing, to put it bluntly, is, "You're 55, you shouldn't be asking me everything!"
I understand that social club activities are highly individual and can be confusing, so you might want to ask someone for advice, but
The questioner's question is basically, "What should I do from now on?" I'm also currently wandering around.
I don't want to sound too arrogant, but I think it's important to enjoy the wandering itself.
With that in mind, I will list my personal impressions.
The longest period lasted about three years.
Three years here isn't an incredibly long time, but I think it falls into the long category.
I don't know why we broke up, but have you etched it into your mind as a beautiful memory?
My basic style is, "Thank you for hanging out with an old guy like me!"
The annual amount spent per person is about 1.5 million to 2 million yen.
What if you doubled the amount you spent? Instead of simply increasing the amount of your allowance,
For example, improve the quality of the food and hotel and spend more time together.
First, try changing the price. I'm not bragging about this (but what is it?)
I have been a member of Universe for eight years, but the total amount has never been seven figures.
I think it's proportional to the amount of money. Of course, you have a budget, so you shouldn't stretch yourself too much,
It seems possible to increase it from 200 to 400.
>Recently, I've started to think that if I upgraded to a black member and made offers to black member women, things might be different.
If you find a girl you like, I think it's okay to upgrade your ranking (this is important) even if it doesn't work out. But "cost-effectiveness"
If you think like this, nothing will ever work out. Personally, I think this is the last thing you should think about.
>By the way, the girls I'm currently dating are 26 and 24 years old.
Let's take better care of this child than ever before. The next time we meet, why not try to smile twice as much as usual?
And I'll take you to the most expensive store ever
keep it up!
- Answer date: 2025/10/05 08:27
iine
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Maezawa (Staff)
>When I'm not satisfied, I release my sexual desire at a men's beauty salon.
This means that I think men's beauty salons are a better fit than dating clubs.
After all
Cost-effectiveness
This seems to be the most important point, so you can be satisfied with a cost-effective men's beauty salon.
There is a misconception that if you spend 10 times as much money on a dating club, you will get 10 times the results.
I think that's the part that's not satisfying.
In that case, you will be most satisfied with the most cost-effective option.
At this stage, I think that men's beauty salons are very cost-effective.
I think it's best to work in a place that suits you best.
It says that you chose black, but I think this class is not suitable for people who are concerned about cost-effectiveness.
Do you think black cards have high annual fees and are poor value for money?
It may look similar to.
- Answer date: 2025/10/05 09:04
iine
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Male member
Die
I think everyone has their own way of playing.
If I continue for another five years or so, I will have the same amount of experience and be the same age as the person asking the question.
I have been a black member before, but to be honest, I didn't feel that there were any benefits to it.
The concierge service at the time would ask me about my preferences and introduce me to women who matched those preferences.
I've also heard about secret women and people with rare professions and made offers to them.
There are also introductions to women before the release, but personally I mainly get offers from far away, so I've never used it because it didn't fit into my schedule.
However, there are quite a few men who are black members.
It would be difficult to provide such an individualized service to a man who makes around 10 offers a year.
Even if you are a black member, it doesn't mean that you will only make offers to black-class women...
In my case, I decide on classes based on whether there are women I want to offer them to, rather than cost-effectiveness.
I get the impression that women who wear black tend to be glamorous and beautiful, but I prefer an amateurish and cute look, so I'm quite satisfied with platinum.
- Answer date: 2025/10/05 09:16
iine
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Male member
safe area
I registered with a dating club in my 40s and am now a black class member in my 50s.
There are many women in the Black Class who are both beautiful and considerate.
We're on a date and it's so much fun.
However, the content of the sex is not black class,
The concierge won't even give you advice on physical compatibility.
(In fact, if you reach the black class, you can earn money without sex.
I feel that there are many women who are reluctant to have sex.
So, if you're prioritizing physical compatibility, you're likely to be disappointed.
The best woman I've ever known is in her 30s,
If you are a woman working in the beauty industry or customer service,
She's much prettier than the average woman in her 20s.
Well, I think you won't be convinced until you experience it for yourself.
Let's make an offer to Black Class right away.
- Answer date: 2025/10/05 10:01
iine
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Male member
Fuu
No, no, it's a waste
I personally think that 28 years old and above is the best age these days.
Certainly, the younger you are, the more thrilling it is.
You can feel the pleasure of your genes being pleased.
If you do it multiple times, you may not have experience or it may be just a requirement.
Then you get bored
Fuu's recent lineup 28-30
He's fairly young, but he's also experienced.
A woman with a good personality and devoted to sex
I will become a regular customer
I feel it so much, I'm coming, Fuu's thing
They say it's the best and give lip service.
Women who satisfy my need for approval lol
Recently, women aged 36 or 40 have been taking on the challenge.
I saw it, but she was very beauty conscious and her body was poor.
I'm taking better care of myself than I did in my 20s, so it was great.
As the questioner also feels, it depends on your age and
The age of women who feel good together is gradually increasing.
I've been feeling that this is going to happen lately.
But
From 20 to 40 years old, without prejudice or bias
There are regular customers from a wide range of backgrounds, each with their own unique style.
I'm enjoying the goodness
After all, she's a 20-year-old girl, but she's a dead fish.
The tightness there and the electric pleasure
I can't stop, and the next week I'll be a 40-year-old woman.
It's okay to be devoted, and the sex is irresistible.
That's possible at this dating club.
After doing it for that many years, in my 30s and 40s
It's a shame they didn't offer it.
And
Only people in their 20s can solve their problems through men's massage.
I guess the sex between regulars isn't great.
Is it more of an obligation than customs?
If Fuu is not satisfied, he will not become a regular customer.
But,
- Answer date: 2025/10/05 13:35
iine
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Male member
Losing man
I'm in Black Class, but I've never used the concierge service.
I have only met my representative once, but it wasn't to get any advice; we are close friends, so it felt more like we had tea together for the first time in a long time.
I don't think there's any problem with staying in Platinum class, but I think there just aren't enough offers.
You just have to take a few shots to find a great woman.
I've probably received around 200 offers in total, but among them there were two women I would spend the rest of my life with.
That means the probability is 1/100.
One of them is not a grown-up. I don't care about sex, I just want to meet her. As long as I can help her life, I'll be happy.
She was the first, and probably the last, woman to make me realize that sex isn't worth much.
- Answer date: 2025/10/05 18:19
iine
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