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Question date: 2025/09/11 10:07

I don't really understand the dating club.
I would be grateful if both men and women could tell me.

①If condoms are used, how much does the allowance start from?

②I'm scared because I've been infected with a sexually transmitted disease in the past. Is there anything you do to prevent it?
Also, I'm thinking of using a condom during blowjobs, but are there any men who would be willing to negotiate with me? I'd also like to know the going rate for condoms.


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Kazu

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>If condoms are used, how much does the allowance start from?

Since dating clubs are not sex establishments, there is no set fee.
The results of a survey on the amount of allowance given, regardless of the nature of the date, can be found in this article.
https://universe-club.jp/newsroom/123220/

>I'm scared because I've been infected with a sexually transmitted disease in the past, but is there anything you do to prevent it?

Personally, I follow the policy of conducting tests, not doing tests with people I'm not interested in, and continuing to do tests rather than starting new ones.

I'm sure there are some men who will agree to a blowjob with a condom, but I don't think there are that many.
If it were me, I would say that we should stop the relationship from developing into that kind of thing.

  • Answer date: 2025/09/11 10:48
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Maezawa (Staff)

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>①If condoms are used, how much does the allowance start from?

At Universe Club, there are many men who want to enjoy something like romance.
People who change their allowance between condom and no condom are either prostitutes or professional sugar daddies.
There is a possibility that men will think this way and not like you very much.
(Although I think it can be made up for by other measures)

So, I think it would be better to have a principle that even if you are offered 100 million yen, you can't do it unless you use a condom.
Again, there is a possibility that this will end after one or two times, with the man thinking that it's okay to just find a woman who meets his expectations.
This is a very difficult area
It also depends on the attractiveness of the woman. (I think there are men who would continue with a woman who can't imagine going to another woman, even if condoms are used and the fee is high.)

For this reason, I think it's a good idea to think carefully about what to do, and if you receive multiple offers, try out a few and see which one suits you best.

For example, with the first man, I don't want to give him no allowance, but I'm open to the amount.
Try it out and see how much you can get.
Start with five and then gradually increase the allowance you want for the second and third children to see how much you can afford.

There are many different options, and each has its own advantages and disadvantages.

To be on the safe side, how much would you consider as an allowance if you were invited out for dinner?
Ask them and think about whether you would accept that amount.
I think there is another way.

>② I'm scared because I've been infected with a sexually transmitted disease in the past, but are you taking any precautions?

I think it's best to meet a few times and only develop that kind of relationship with someone who you feel you can trust.
You might think that's too risky, but men don't want to get sick either.
I think another important point is whether or not they are trustworthy.

Of course, in general, always use a rubber.
I think that's what it comes down to, but that's too general a story.
I have written a proposal that goes a step further (which involves some risk, but may be somewhat effective).

>I'm thinking of using a condom during blowjobs, but are there any men who would be willing to negotiate this?

Does that mean you're open to negotiations?
Looking at Mac's past answers, I took him to a doctor I know for an examination.
Apparently there was a woman who had a bacteria in her throat.
In that sense, it might be better to do so

I think there are probably many men who would dislike that, so even if you agree the first time, I feel like there is a high chance that you won't be able to meet again.

>I would also like to know the going rate for allowances at that time.

Dating clubs are basically places to enjoy romance (although there are a few men who enjoy it for the sex industry).
I think it's best to assume that there is no such thing as a fixed price for just a blowjob.

There is also a hotel as part of the date.
This is the image, so women who are fun to talk to may have an advantage.

  • Answer date: 2025/09/11 21:49
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Mac

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There are many different types of sexually transmitted diseases.

1. Things that can be transmitted through skin-to-skin contact even when using a condom - herpes simplex, genital warts, pubic lice
(Countermeasures) Condyloma is visible to the naked eye, and herpes is only contagious when symptoms are present. It's a good idea to check your partner's genitals before engaging in sexual activity. One way to do this is to wash them in the shower. However, if you have any doubts, it can be difficult to know how to refuse further sexual activity.
As the name suggests, pubic lice attach to the hair roots, so shaving or removing pubic hair should be effective.
Taking antiviral medication beforehand can help prevent infection with herpes. Genital warts are caused by the same papillomavirus that causes cervical cancer, so the cervical cancer vaccine is somewhat effective. It is recommended that men also get vaccinated.

②Things that can be transmitted to the throat during raw fellatio
Gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis.
Symptoms of gonorrhea and chlamydia can be asymptomatic, like a sore throat with a cold, or they can be completely asymptomatic. Syphilis causes a rash on the mucous membranes and skin.
Herpes simplex can also be transmitted through bareback fellatio, but it only appears on the lips.
Apparently HIV cannot be transmitted through bareback sex.
Syphilis can be detected by a blood test, while gonorrhea and chlamydia can be detected by a mouthwash test.

3) Transmitted through raw vaginal penetration
Gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, Mycoplasma genitalis, Trichomonas, Hepatitis C, HIV
Gonorrhea, chlamydia, and mycoplasma in men can cause urethritis or can be asymptomatic. These can be detected by urine testing.
In women, gonorrhea, chlamydia, and mycoplasma live deep inside the cervix, called the portio, so tests using self-collected vaginal secretions can sometimes give false negative results.
HIV, like herpes simplex, can be prevented by taking antiviral drugs beforehand.

From a treatment perspective, all diseases except for herpes simplex and HIV are completely curable.
① If you are going to have raw sex, you should take these two preventive medications.
② I do bareback fellatio, but if I use a condom for vaginal penetration, I take preventative medication for herpes simplex.
is considered desirable for both men and women.

As for the amount of the allowance, both raw insertion and raw fellatio can be considered as additional danger allowances, but since the basic allowances vary to begin with, it's hard to say for sure.

  • Answer date: 2025/09/11 12:00
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Fuu

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The allowance will be discussed between the husband and the wife.

You can find the market price by searching online.
"What is the going rate for sugar daddy allowances?"
Chat GPT didn't tell me
Gemini will teach you carefully.

Also, Patro (which is run by
Once you register, your desired allowance will be displayed on your profile.
can do

She'll accept a blowjob with a condom
I think there's a dad

There is a certain market price
The allowance amount varies depending on the person.
Appearance, youth, personality
The amount the offeror can afford
So it will vary

Not just sugar daddy, but if you have sex
Knowing that there is a possibility of contracting a sexually transmitted disease, I am prepared.
I think it's important to prepare in advance.

Fuu is looking for a hospital that can provide immediate testing and medication.
It is covered

Vibramycin within 72 hours of sexual activity
Taking medication → It seems to have a preventative effect.
It's a non-insured medication

  • Answer date: 2025/09/11 21:34
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Die

By mentioning the phrase "condom fellatio," the questioner is essentially trying to show that they have experience in the sex industry.

Women who have an amateur feel are popular in dating clubs.

Therefore, the reality is that having experience in the sex industry or entertainment industry clearly makes you less popular.

I think there are probably a certain number of women who register while hiding their experience in the sex industry.

If you insist on using a condom for blowjobs, I recommend either mentioning this during the club interview or writing it in your profile, which you can fill out yourself.

If you do that, you will likely receive more offers from men who understand your needs to a certain extent.

Men who normally receive a 5 will definitely be prepared for their allowance to be significantly reduced, to the point where it will go down to a 3.

On the other hand, wearing condoms is standard practice when it comes to sex.

Men will ask to do it raw, but refusing will not affect your allowance.

  • Answer date: 2025/09/13 06:38

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