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    At first, I was only thinking about myself, so I was surprised to receive so much...

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Question date: 2025/07/09 14:42

Every time we meet, I receive 1 yen for one night's stay.
At first, I was only thinking about myself, so I was just happy to receive so much, but as I got to know the man, I started to like him.
Whenever they meet me, they prepare various drinks and arrange a hotel, so I think I'm putting a lot of strain on them.
Being married, I understand that running a household is expensive.

If I ask a man to cut my allowance in half, will it come across as me being pity?

I would really like to meet you without paying you, but I have to spend money on my appearance to meet you, so I can't go that far...
However, I don't like the idea of ​​people thinking that I'm only there to see them because I'll get paid, so I have mixed feelings about it.

As a man, which would you rather meet: staying with the current amount or having the allowance reduced?

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Maezawa (Staff)

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>As a man, which would you rather meet: staying the same amount or having your allowance reduced?

It is you who knows the other man.
I think it's best to find out what kind of personality a man has and what he dislikes before taking action.

There is a possibility that as soon as you mention reducing your allowance, your employment will be cut and you will be left with no choice but to accept it.
So I think the safest thing to do is to do nothing as it is.

  • Answer date: 2025/07/10 11:15
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He's a dad who works in a dating club.
I want to cut it

For dads who want to draw a clear line when it comes to money
No money needed
It may be dangerous to say

Even if the person asking the question likes you
There is a possibility that you don't like the other person
It's possible that the father is dating multiple people.

Questioner, don't stick to one person.
I had multiple relationships to diversify my feelings.
However, this activity is more difficult if it becomes too heavy.
I think

Feelings of jealousy and possessiveness arise
To control it so that
I think it’s the key to keeping it going for a long time.

I've been doing this for seven years now.
Last year, I fell in love with a regular girl.
When I told him how I felt, he blocked me.
So that was it lol
Be careful

  • Answer date: 2025/07/09 23:48
Male member

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1. Reduce the allowance and increase the number of meetings instead
2. Sometimes you'll pay for the drinks and the hotel.

  • Answer date: 2025/07/10 07:23
Male member

Losing man

Personally, I would be happy if they didn't ask for a cut, but instead saved up their allowance and bought them a suit or a trip as a gift, or even invested a lot in obtaining a qualification and said, "I'll try to get the qualification with the allowance I always get. Thank you," and went on a date near the qualification school.

Our Ace is great at giving back like this, which makes me want to spend more and it also makes me trust him more.

  • Answer date: 2025/07/09 22:17

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