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Question date: 2025/06/27 12:49

Until now, I've only been able to see my husband after work, but I've decided to stay overnight with him on my day off.

Until now, when meeting people I have been carrying a work bag and wearing clothes that look elegant, but when meeting privately I am unsure of what to wear and what to bring.
Since my partner is a very wealthy person, I am all the more nervous that he might appraise what I am wearing.

I don't usually wear earrings, but should I wear a necklace or ring?
Is it better to buy branded bags as well?

My husband will be providing the hotel, meals, and drinks, so I'd like to bring a gift as well. What kind of thing would he like?

Sorry for bombarding you with questions!
I would appreciate any advice you can give me.
Thank you.

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Kazu

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Since everyone has different tastes, whether or not they scrutinize what a woman wears, and even if they do, how they interpret it, will vary.
The same goes for souvenirs.

Speaking of personal preference, I don't like wearing necklaces, rings, etc.
What a woman wears is a matter of personal preference, so I don't really have any deep feelings about it.
The same goes for bags.
I don't want people to bring gifts because I feel it would be a hassle to have to give something in return.

People's tastes are diverse, so for example, if I were to be introduced to another man's dating partner, I would just think, "I guess this guy likes this type of woman."
I have never once felt jealous that he was dating such a beautiful woman.
That's how diverse tastes are.

That's why I think it's important to try to understand the other person's preferences when dating.
There's no point in asking a complete stranger about their preferences here.

  • Answer date: 2025/06/27 13:16
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date ◎ dream

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Me too a little!

Since you're meeting on the weekend, why not wear something like a dress?
I think it's better to wear what you think suits you rather than being particular about the brand.

You don't need to wear accessories like necklaces or earrings. I like small things that are just a little accent (laughs).

No souvenirs necessary.
Even if I received it, I would have trouble disposing of it.
I prefer cake and sweets to eat together (laughs).

Rather than that
Speaking of staying overnight,
Make a solid all-night plan so that your partner will say, "Let's go to bed now!" and make the hot night even hotter! If it's a night that makes you wonder if the air conditioner is working, that's great, and you'll definitely get double the treatment! (laughs)

  • Answer date: 2025/06/27 15:32
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Fuu

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I wish I'd listened.
I think they'll be happy

Maybe it's okay to just do things as usual
I think I would say

If it's clean and neat
On the other hand, it might be better not to use a brand name.

If the meal is French
Do you wear necklaces and rings?
It might be good, but if it was room service
I probably won't need it until then

Depending on the time and situation

Try asking cutely something like, "I'm so happy, I don't know what to do."
I think it's best to go with what dad likes.
I think

  • Answer date: 2025/06/27 22:23

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