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Question date: 2025/05/05 02:12

I have a date tomorrow with the girl I proposed to on Patro.
The woman has also given her consent, the date has been recorded as agreed to in the system, and the setting up fee has also been settled.

I sent a message about three days ago to confirm the meeting time and location, but not only haven't I received a reply, they're not even online.

It's the day before our date, so I sent another message to make sure everything is okay as planned, but if I don't hear a response by the evening, would it be okay to cancel the date?

I haven't been able to see the messages, but I feel it would be rude to just cancel on a date for tomorrow if it has been planned, and it would also seem like it would cause trouble for the restaurant that we made a reservation for if the woman doesn't show up on the day, so I'm asking if it's okay to give up on the plan at this early stage.

  • gender male
  • Age: 50s
  • Member: Universe male member
  • Member ID: 21255
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Andy

My name is Andy, and I am a male member.

After that kind of exchange, I think it would be okay to cancel if I don't hear a reply from the other party by the evening.

When cancelling, there is a section on the Patrol where you can write the reason, so it shouldn't be a problem.

Also, it seems that you are a Universe Club member,
You can use the chat function within Patro to communicate with people at registered branches, so I think it would be best to use that.

We hope for your reference.

追記します。

What was the result?

Today I had a meeting with someone at Patrol.
Even though I answered the question, I didn't receive a reply the day before, but I hadn't made a reservation at the restaurant so I didn't mind waiting until the day itself.
However, I understand your concerns if you have made reservations at a restaurant.

For your reference, here is the thoroughness with which I took action after I had a cancellation just a few hours before a dinner meeting when I first became a member.

The first meeting is for all types of relationships.
The offer is based on the premise that the meeting will end in an hour at a cafe.
If you don't need to make a reservation, there's no harm in cancelling on the day.

Since we made reservations mandatory from the second visit onwards, we no longer have to worry about cancelling on the day.


Meet and greet for 1 hour
Thirty minutes later, you will have a reservation for dinner or a hotel with the person you are meeting for the second or subsequent time.
Since I started this cycle, I've been able to enjoy it stress-free.
If you do not have any regular members yet, we recommend that you meet and discuss the situation for an hour at a time to ensure stable activity.

For your information

  • Answer date: 2025/05/05 02:47
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Maezawa (Staff)

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Maezawa from the president's office will answer.

Just because the man is the one paying, it doesn't mean he can cancel whenever he wants.
In the past, women would make sure to clear their schedules, but the men would cancel on them without permission.
We have also received complaints like this.

However, if there is no reply from the other person even though it is the day before, I feel that there is a high possibility that the woman will not come on the date.

First of all, I contacted the PATOLO staff, but even though it was the day before, I hadn't received a reply.
Can you check with a woman?
If I can't get in touch with you I want to cancel.
I think it would be a good idea to contact them like this.

It seems natural to think that they would cancel the order if they didn't get a response the day before.
However, if you log into PATOLO on the day, your reservation will be canceled without your permission.
Even though I had an appointment

Because there is a reason,
First, tell the staff
And the staff couldn't contact me so I had to cancel.
I think that would be a better direction.

It's an auto-date system, so it seems weird to ask the staff.
I think it's safe to take such steps as it will not affect your evaluation.



Also, rather than asking here
I think you should contact the staff directly.
I don't think there's any need to ask anonymously.


  • Answer date: 2025/05/05 12:04
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Mac

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Apparently some men make offers to find someone to go to a restaurant with, so it depends on whether you want to go to the restaurant or go on a date with the woman, but if I were you, I would call the restaurant to cancel first. The restaurant can manage to find a new girl after they get in touch with the girl, but isn't it difficult to find a new girl now? Well, it's already past the evening of the previous day and it's the morning of the day, so the woman has probably already canceled. Also, if it were me, I would send a line to about two girls who are currently available saying, "I made a new offer, but I couldn't get in touch with you the day before, so it might be canceled. Are you available, ◯-chan?" They will be grateful and say, "Thank you for reaching out to me." The woman who made the offer will wait until the last minute. In fact, there was a time when I made an offer to a girl on Patro, but I couldn't get in touch with her the day before, so I went to the meeting place on the day, but she didn't show up. I got a refund with points, and the club sent me an apology email, but the girl didn't apologize until a while later. I don't know what the circumstances were.

The girl in charge of raw creampies is staying over again today. She's sleeping face down next to me, naked from the waist up, wearing only a T-shirt. I can hear her breathing. I stick my left hand between her legs and touch her slit with my middle finger and her left butt with my thumb, then I stick the base of my pinky finger to my wrist against her right butt, and it feels just like a soft three-point stimulation surrounding her vagina, and it feels great. My left hand has become her panties, enveloping her most important parts. How happy I am. Well, I wrote this to see if I could correctly describe the positional relationship when I stick my hand in, but I wonder if it gets across?

I place my thumb on her left buttock and my wrist from the base of my pinky finger on her right buttock, and with my index and ring fingers I spread her labia majora so the pad of my middle finger touches her clitoris. It's as thick as my pinky finger. It's thinner than my middle finger, so it feels like I'm torturing her. As I run my middle finger along the clitoris, it feels a bit slimy and a depression suddenly appears. It's the opening of her vagina. I insert it just a little, about half the depth of my fingernail. She doesn't wake up. She is breathing softly in her sleep.
I pulled my finger out without inserting it any deeper, smearing the sticky liquid on my fingertip around the opening of her vagina. The insertion of my finger must have made a path, as the liquid that had been building up inside started to overflow, making the whole pussy sticky. The girl's right hand, still lying face down, reached out towards me, wanting to touch something. I placed my swollen penis on it, and she gripped it tightly. She was still breathing heavily, so she was probably unconscious. She must have had a good dream as I stroked her swollen, love juice-covered clitoris with my middle finger while letting her hold my penis. I'll sleep a little, and when morning comes I'll thrust my raw penis into her again. I'm going to turn this into my own personal penis storage facility.

But young girls really do have a sweet, pleasant scent. The main ingredient is lactone 10, which is said to be the same as the scent of fruit, but the animal-like texture mixed with a hint of sweat is something that cannot be reproduced artificially. If I could, I would like to smell it all day long. Anyway, I'm grateful that I can enjoy it to my heart's content, even just at night when she sleeps next to me. I'm getting sleepy. I'll go to sleep for a bit.

Just as I thought that, the girl turned over and lay on her side, her butt touching my crotch. She stuck out her bare butt and bent her legs, as if to say, "Please insert it." I couldn't resist and pressed my penis against her, and since she was wet, it slid in. It felt good. The girl seemed to have woken up, and her breathing stopped. I decided to do it seriously, so I turned her over on her back and inserted it again in the missionary position, moving my hips. When I turned her over, the girl laughed, "Ufu." I was woken up from my sleep, but she didn't hate it at all. However, I couldn't drag it out, so I concentrated and ejaculated in about 5 minutes. Not inside, but on her stomach. I wiped her with tissue, covered her with the futon, and went to the shower. The girl took a shower in her place. I thought I had finished it in a short time, but I guess I woke her up after all. I made the bed and waited for her to come back from the shower. I said, "Thank you, that felt good," and the girl replied, "Yes," and fell asleep again soon. She was still not breathing. Just then, I started to hear her breathing lightly. Whenever I sleep with her, I always wake up in the middle of the night and have sex. We did it at 10 last night, and it's 4 now, so that means six hours later. I've slept for three hours, so I'll sleep for another three hours. Today, I had sex with one girl in the afternoon and one girl in the evening, and I'm meeting new girls in the morning and one in the evening, so four in total. It looks like it's going to be a busy day. I don't have time to be sleepy, so I'll just go to sleep.

Good morning. I just noticed something and added an answer, but isn't it a long weekend right now? I think there are a lot of people who spend the long weekend with their families and can't contact anyone at all. Wouldn't it have been better to wait until the morning of the day?

If the date is May 5th and it's three days before, then it's May 6rd. It's the first day of the long weekend. Well, I think it's possible that he turned off notifications and didn't check because of his family, boyfriend, or daddy. But why three days before? The questioner may not know, but the proper way to check on the app is to check if he can be contacted the night before or the morning of the day (= he's just teasing). Three days before is a bit cute, as it makes him seem like a novice daddy who is not used to it, but I think it would be better to check the day before next time. When in Rome, do as the Romans do.
On May 5nd, a 2-year-old who was supposed to stay over suddenly sent me a message saying, "Sorry, I have to cancel. My long-distance boyfriend, who I was supposed to meet on the 20rd, suddenly said he's coming over tonight." I replied with a simple "Okay," and haven't contacted him since then out of consideration. I'll send him a message tomorrow to see how he's doing. Everyone has a public life, and sugar dating is secondary, so we need to be humble and considerate of each other. Of course, I invited another girl to stay over on the 3nd. She came over suddenly from work in a pants look, so I made her change into a miniskirt and transparent underwear that I had prepared, got her to drink alcohol, made her dizzy, went around to sex clubs, and played with her by making her clitoris with a vibrator. It was fun. Let's do it again.

The person asking the question asked a question once three years ago on "Universe Female Members". It's not good to lie. You'll get found out like this someday.
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Can women know how others rate them? If they don't enjoy a date, or if they give a bad rating, they will tell the man...
2022/09/26 01:36 Unanswered Unanswered Universe Female Member 21255
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/14324
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  • Answer date: 2025/05/05 16:56
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Fuu

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I know how you feel
There are a certain number of activities like that here.
Please understand that there is nothing you can do about it.

Go tomorrow, if someone cancels, you can get points.
I'll be back so I can offer it again.

If you don't like that, you're a member of the questioner's club.
I think it would be good to make an offer from the club.

I'll show you some special tricks for Fuu
It's actually such know-how that I wish I could get paid for it lol

When the offer was made for Patro
"I'll check it 3 days before (◯th) and the day before.
Please give your reaction
We can accommodate date and time changes up to three days in advance.
Please be sure to make any sudden cancellations in advance.
Please contact me."

I will tell you in advance
(This rule is the same for regular customers too.)

Then, if you can confirm it the day before
I will contact you when I leave on the day.
Please reply."

I will let them know that.
If you do this, you can pretty much avoid it.

If it's too much hassle, just make a club offer lol

If you can communicate with regular members, you can start a conversation.
If you don't contact us 3 days in advance, we can't accommodate your request for a restaurant or room.
It would be a waste to have to pay a cancellation fee.
But it will be even more delicious with XX-san (female)
I told him I wanted to eat something with him.

  • Answer date: 2025/05/05 13:21
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Paper

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If you use an email address that you don't normally use as your patrol contact information, you may not notice the message.
If you're not online, you may not have noticed it yet.
If you think an active woman who checks regularly would be better, I think it's okay to wait until the day.


The date, time, location, and area have already been decided, so I don't think there's any problem with checking on the day itself.


I guess it all depends on how much the person asking likes it.


Whether it's Patro or Universe, the chances of it being cancelled are close to 0%.



> Mac

I really got the message across.




Postscript

In the club, there was only one cancellation without notice when the date was set and the date did not arrive on time. There has never been a letter date or a patrol.

That was the only cancellation, and the woman was expelled.

Rather than worrying about something that may only happen a few times in life, if it does happen you should just think of it as some free time you have.It's also important to be prepared and be okay no matter what happens with women, and I think it's important to have confidence that things will go well between men and women (rather than worrying about it).



>Lose man

It's amazing that you got the offer without running away! It must be very satisfying and fulfilling. I tend to run away and put things off...

I agree with what Makeo-san wrote about the issue of cancellations. You get a lot out of it, so you don't need to worry about it.

  • Answer date: 2025/05/05 14:21
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Seattle

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I'm jealous because I've been sleeping all Golden Week. I have no choice but to smell Deoco body shampoo.

As Maezawa and Fuu have written, it seems like it would be a good idea to keep in touch frequently.

  • Answer date: 2025/05/06 00:42
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Losing man

Cancelled King

I'm a loser who gets canceled on so often that I tell my agent, "I'm a loser."
I don't mind at all though, because I don't have to pay an allowance.

If you set it at around 180, you will often be satisfied with just the fact that you have made an offer.
I didn't run away, I made him an offer.


I'll just give you an update on my current situation, but I can't help but feel like the day when I have to retire from sugar dating is approaching.
This is because it's pretty much certain that a gorgeous woman who is about 10 times the normal amount of beautiful will be staying over about a quarter of the month.

He had been asking me to live with him for a long time and I was ready to do so at any time, but I kept putting off saying yes because it would make it harder for me to see Ace and the other gorgeous regulars.

Then, he changed his plan and asked me to let him stay with me for about a week every month, and I found it impossible to refuse.
It would be an honour to have such a beautiful woman stay with me for almost a week every month, and I thought that a short-term cohabitation of about a week, not full-time or semi-full-time cohabitation, would be the best situation, so I said OK.

This woman has quit sugar dating, so she doesn't get any allowance. She won't accept the money.
I stopped being a sugar baby over three years ago, and even after I stopped, we have met regularly, and it seems like she chose me because I felt comfortable around her, something she has cherished for many years.

This girl is the ultimate cancel girl. She often cancelled without notice. Back in the day.
He's so popular that no one would complain if he canceled. Maybe it became a habit.

However, since this girl always came to my house, it didn't really hurt me when she canceled, so I never blamed her for canceling.Perhaps that turned out to be a good thing, as she gradually got closer to me, and eventually asked to live together, and we started living together for a quarter of a year.

Questioner, if you keep complaining about cancellations you'll miss out on something big, right?
Cancelling is proof that you're a popular woman, so keep a cool head.
Then you might get incredibly lucky like me.

  • Answer date: 2025/05/07 09:50

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