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system engineer member

Men can set classes to public or private.
By the way, with this update I downgraded from Black to Platinum, but it has remained private ever since.

In my case, I have received a message from a woman I had favorited saying that she was nice, which led to an offer.
I'm not particularly interested in messages that don't contain a message or that are just a template message that seems to send the same message to everyone.

• Answer date: 2025/04/13 15:56

• iine

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Male member

Paper

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I think it's okay to only send ``That's nice'' to men who have added you to your favorites.


If not, how did you find them? It seems like you're just sending a bunch of random emails, and even though the texts are too detailed, it's scary to be so proactive, so either way it puts me off.


If you have been added to your favorites, I think your chances of getting an offer will increase, even if only slightly, by simply replying that it's great.

It doesn't matter if you include a message or not. I think you will include one when making an offer. If you know enough about the club to be able to write a message or are putting effort into the club's activities, that can be a bit of a turn-off, so unless you are very interested in the content, there is no need to comment if you have the message booked as a favorite. However, for men who want a woman who is active in the club's activities, a proper message is a good thing, so this may not apply to everyone.
In my case, being too aggressive puts me off.

Adulthood or dating first?
Which comes first, the allowance or the relationship?
Do you want to date? Do you want to do activities?

I think it depends on the individual, both men and women.



Postscript

Men may not remember or know whether their profile was public or private, may not know that their profile itself was public, may not even know that it could be made public, or may have never edited it.

From a woman's perspective, an aggressive man probably doesn't leave a good impression.

• Answer date: 2025/04/13 16:31

• iine

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Maezawa (Staff)

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> Can men themselves set their profiles to public or private?

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>Will this have a significant impact on the offer?

It won’t affect your offer significantly.
The impact is so great that it may affect 100 out of 1 emails sent.

However, in the end, it all depends on whether the woman is the man's preference.
Some women send 100 emails but don't get any offers.
There are women who receive many offers even though they have never sent a ``That's nice'' even once.

>What kind of messages would make a man want to make an offer?

Basically, photos and videos have a big impact.
The message is just a trigger.

I think there are messages that make people want to see your profile.
In the end, if someone looks at your profile and decides you’re not the type of woman they like, then no matter how great your message is,
I don't think it will be an offer.

I think that's a big difference between dating sites and dating clubs.
(I think this is related to the difference in whether or not there is a setting fee for making an offer.)


P.S.

>For me it's not about the setup fee, it's the difference between looking for a hole or looking for a partner.

It's important to remember that every person is different.

• Answer date: 2025/04/13 16:33

• iine

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Male member

Kazu

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As a systems engineer member answered, men can choose whether to make their classes public or private.
I also keep it private.

I also make my profile public only to those who make me an offer.
It's annoying to receive messages like "you're lovely" from women I don't like.
I do receive messages through apps, but as Kamihikouki said, they seem like the kind of things people send out randomly, and I've never made an offer to the people who send me messages.

The only people who have made offers to Universe Club based on action from women are female members who read the Question Box and contacted us through the club.
At times like these, I receive responses that make me think that they have read my regular answers and have a good impression of them.
In the past, I would make an offer to meet up with female members who contacted me in this way, but since difficult people have started posting on the question box, the question box has become dominated by prank posts, so I don't think I'll be able to meet up even if a female reader contacts me.

I read Mr. Maezawa's answer and added it.
>I think that's a big difference between dating sites and dating clubs.
> (I think this is related to the difference in whether or not there is a setting fee for making an offer.)

For me it's not about the setup fee, it's the difference between looking for a hole or looking for a companion.
There is no setup fee if you use the app, but I also ignore women who like me or send me messages through the app.
When using dating sites, I would check what kind of jobs the women who gave me likes were looking for.

• Answer date: 2025/04/13 16:45

• iine

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Male member

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Male members can choose whether or not to display men's classes.

In my case, I have never received an offer in response to "That would be great."
However, I think there are times when I see "That's nice" and think about making an offer.
In that case, I think at the very least, they should have looked at my profile carefully and written something that would resonate with them.
If you think about it that way, I don't think there's any point in people efficiently clicking the "That's nice" button.
However, from the perspective that there are no results without action, I think it's better to do something than nothing.


In my case, my profile is private.
I live in both Kanto and Kansai, and whenever I make my identity public, I receive passionate messages from people of the same generation from my hometown who live in other regions, which makes me scared (middle or high school classmates?), so I can never make my identity public again.

• Answer date: 2025/04/13 21:17

• iine

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Male member

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I also keep it private.

In terms of my own class, there were times when it was BLACK, and there were times when it was PLATINUM or GOLD.

When I don't make many offers, I keep it at GOLD, and if the woman I want to offer to is PLATINUM or BLACK, I change it to that class.

I wonder if there are a lot of men like this.

In other words, just because it's black doesn't mean they're paying well, and just because it's gold doesn't mean they're stingy.

That's why I don't see the point in a woman knowing a man's class.

That's great, but the functionality is tricky.

It catches your eye and doesn't leave a bad impression, but it does have a downside in that it makes people suspect that you don't receive many offers.

Recently, there's a woman who responds by saying "that's nice" if a man adds her to his favorites.

I think it's a clever way of doing things because it doesn't make people suspect the number of offers they're getting and it's clear that they want people to notice them.

There should be a message.

However, don't expect an offer to come in right away.

It's also a matter of timing...

• Answer date: 2025/04/14 06:16

• iine

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Male member

Fuu

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men are
You can hide your entire profile
You can hide classes

nice
It is better to do it than not to do it.
思ってください
Is Fuu currently private? When will it be made public?
I got a nice comment, but I
From the women I like and have in my favorites
There were only two comments saying "It's nice"
It costs money, so I prioritize my own preferences.
In the end, I'll offer from my favorite
Publication has ceased

Messages men want to offer
FuuPersonally
Polite but not too polite
A little bit naughty but not too naughty
It feels like a dedication.
Easy
Clean, smiling, slim waist
Height - 110 = weight kg ± 5kg
The second half is all about appearances lol

• Answer date: 2025/04/14 08:06

• iine

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