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Question date: 2025/03/30 20:31

With my dad who I only communicate with through messages
Meet and watch a movie at your partner's home for 2-3 hours
I was told that there is no treatment for adults for the first treatment.
Since there were no adults, I agreed to 1.
I was asked to wear thin loungewear like underwear. Is this normal?

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Kazu

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What if it wasn't normal?
Personally, I don't have the habit of inviting people I've met for the first time to my house.

  • Answer date: 2025/03/30 20:39
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Maezawa (Staff)

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Asking "Is this normal?" after agreeing to something is the wrong order.

The two ministries are synonymous with a contract.
I don't think it's right for a person to go back on a contract after signing it.

If you have any doubts, I think you should hold off on replying until those doubts are resolved.
This is not the same as ignoring a read message.
Generally, we exchange things like, "I'll reply later," or "When should I reply by?"
It's something you think about and research until you are satisfied with it.

If you are not satisfied after making a comprehensive judgment,
I think you should either negotiate or decline.

As long as both parties are satisfied with the situation, I don't think it matters whether it's normal or what other people are doing.

Well, generally speaking, it's not acceptable to go to someone's room even if you've never met them before.
This is because, in the Showa era, if something was done to a woman, it would likely have been considered her fault.

We live in a good time, so if something happens to you, you can sue them and they'll probably catch you for non-consensual sex.
However, even if they do catch you, I wonder if you will be satisfied if they do something unpleasant to you.

Thinking about it like that, I don't think it's common to go to someone's house when you've just met them.
In my personal opinion
If you are going to someone's house, I think it would be better to have some kind of plan or some other means in case something happens.
If you can't do that, then I think you should just skip the movie and go to the cinema instead.

I think that if you're wearing thin underwear-like loungewear, you're already assuming that people will touch you...
I think it's normal to think of voyeurism as part of the same thing.

Once you have had some experience, you may ask, "How about 5 yen?" or "How about 10 yen?"
And then he sells the secretly filmed video and makes about 100 million yen.
It seems that there are people who think this way, so are you still able to accept it?
I feel like that.

Of course, there are people who take secret photos and sell them for just 10,000 yen.
I think you should carefully consider the risks of going to someone's house.



  • Answer date: 2025/03/30 21:45
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Fuu

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What do you think?

Why accept offers on your home?

It was good
That's all it took.

Aren't you scared?

Is there a lack of crisis management?
It's a rejected case.

  • Answer date: 2025/03/31 23:32

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