[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

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Mac

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This is the second question. Last time,
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I would like to know what everyone else is doing with hotels. 1. Are you staying at a city hotel? 2. In that case, do you book a hotel and then go out to eat?
2023/10/25 21:28 Male 40s Unanswered 18986
https://universe-club.jp/help/questions/view/16146
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I think this is a very rare story. If you search for "family restaurant female employee confession," you'll find a lot of stories about male customers falling in love, but nothing about the reverse.
However, if he eats dinner at that family restaurant almost every day, people will assume he is single or has been transferred away from his family, and there are a certain number of women who like the melancholic older men in "The Solitary Gourmet," so this may not be a complete fabrication or delusion. This is especially true if the woman comes from a single-parent family and admires her father.
Regarding the allowance, if you give them something like that, it would be like confessing that you are always doing that kind of activity, and it would be a total turn-off. So it's better not to give them anything.
I also thought that she might actually be a sugar baby, and that she came out to hunt because the questioner has a collection of expensive brand name items, but I think that kind of girl would hunt in a bar on the upper floors of a hotel, not in the family restaurant where she works part-time. So I think this possibility is slim.

However, the person asking the question has little experience in love, right? I've caused a lot of trouble for women in real life and experienced hell, so I joined the dating club with the feeling that I was going to become a monk. The path that the questioner is about to embark on is not always going to be pleasant, so please keep that in mind.

I saw the movie "Love is Like After the Rain" at the cinema with a 19-year-old girl I was dating at the time. I had planned to watch the movie while hiding in the dark and having her give me a blowjob, but the cinema seats were not suitable for that, so I gave up. However, up until then, our relationship had been just sex and she gave me money, so I remember that she must have been really happy to go to the movies with me, because before and after we walked around town, she clung to my arm and pressed her head against mine, which felt really good. In my case, I sometimes meet girls like this, like a friendly cat that clings to your legs.

Well, since girls who are looking for sugar daddies can fall in love with their sugar daddies, I suppose it's possible for a female waitress at a family restaurant to fall in love with an older man who is a customer, but I'm a little skeptical as to whether this is something a questioner who has no intention of getting married and doesn't have much romantic experience can really handle. Please be careful not to cause trouble to the woman who has shown her affection. Don't stray from the path of humanity.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 16:09

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Joe Rubicon

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I don't mean to brag (actually, I do), but I've had a similar experience. What's more, the person asking the question is 25 years older than me, but I'm 40 years older than him, so I win, right?
We were just tea buddies and went out to eat a few times after practice.
So I had no idea what her aim or purpose was. I'm married, which makes me happy and embarrassed. And she confessed to me on the Shinkansen platform at Kyoto Station. "You're going to fall in love with me."
　To put it simply, I didn't know what kind of relationship we should have, so I eventually faded out.
　As everyone else has said, I don't think the person you're dating is after your wallet. In my case, I didn't know how to show my love for him other than through money, so I gave him a tea bowl (Karatsu ware) as a birthday present, but he was shocked. He was a Living National Treasure, so I had to laugh bitterly.

• Answer date: 2025/03/12 10:56

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Kazu

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What address are you asking for?

If the person has confessed to you and you have exchanged contact information, you should just discuss the restaurant with them.
I don't think transportation costs are necessary since the meeting is not at a place where allowances are provided.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 12:41

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Paper

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Recently, even when I type correctly, the wrong word often appears at the beginning...
That's advice, isn't it?

The senior colleague who has appeared several times is truly a family restaurant killer no matter how old he gets, and he continues to seduce women one after another, from flight attendants to cashiers, even into his 70s.


I think that men are most popular in their mid-40s, so I think it's possible to date a girl no matter how old or younger she is. I also think it's normal for a woman to want to be his girlfriend.


If he is a senior, then he is a very ordinary man. I think it is fair to say that she feels calm and comfortable being with him and with his personality. If it is something that anyone can do, or if they have the money, then it may be that she is okay with other men.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 14:09

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Fuu

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Is there any difference between this and a sugar daddy girl?
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How suitable is it for girls looking for sugar daddies?
Aren't you having fun?
Wouldn't it be nice to have the same fun?

• Answer date: 2025/03/12 22:12

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Losing man

Movie "Love is Like After the Rain"

Look and study, the answer is there.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 14:30

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