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Question date: 2025/03/11 12:26

I was confessed to by a waitress at a family restaurant I often visit. She is a female college student who will soon graduate and enter the workforce. I usually meet women through P-katsu, but she is an ordinary woman and I am confused about how to interact with her, who is about 25 years younger than me. We are going out to eat soon, but I wonder if I should give her money for transportation or would that be rude? Should I go to a high-end restaurant or a more down-to-earth place? I am really undecided.
I went to an all-boys school, and since I was in college I've been working, so I have no experience as a company employee, and I have a pretty quiet personality, so I don't have much experience interacting with younger, normal women.
What should I do?
The child is cute and likable.
I'm single but I have no intention of getting married.
If you have an address please let me know.

  • gender male
  • Age: 40s
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  • Member ID: 18986
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Joe Rubicon

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I don't mean to brag (actually, I do), but I've had a similar experience. What's more, the person asking the question is 25 years older than me, but I'm 40 years older than him, so I win, right?
We were just tea buddies and went out to eat a few times after practice.
So I had no idea what her aim or purpose was. I'm married, which makes me happy and embarrassed. And she confessed to me on the Shinkansen platform at Kyoto Station. "You're going to fall in love with me."
 To put it simply, I didn't know what kind of relationship we should have, so I eventually faded out.
 As everyone else has said, I don't think the person you're dating is after your wallet. In my case, I didn't know how to show my love for him other than through money, so I gave him a tea bowl (Karatsu ware) as a birthday present, but he was shocked. He was a Living National Treasure, so I had to laugh bitterly.


  • Answer date: 2025/03/12 10:56
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Kazu

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What address are you asking for?

If the person has confessed to you and you have exchanged contact information, you should just discuss the restaurant with them.
I don't think transportation costs are necessary since the meeting is not at a place where allowances are provided.

  • Answer date: 2025/03/11 12:41
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Paper

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Recently, even when I type correctly, the wrong word often appears at the beginning...
That's advice, isn't it?

The senior colleague who has appeared several times is truly a family restaurant killer no matter how old he gets, and he continues to seduce women one after another, from flight attendants to cashiers, even into his 70s.


I think that men are most popular in their mid-40s, so I think it's possible to date a girl no matter how old or younger she is. I also think it's normal for a woman to want to be his girlfriend.


If he is a senior, then he is a very ordinary man. I think it is fair to say that she feels calm and comfortable being with him and with his personality. If it is something that anyone can do, or if they have the money, then it may be that she is okay with other men.

  • Answer date: 2025/03/11 14:09
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Fuu

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Is there any difference between this and a sugar daddy girl?
or
How suitable is it for girls looking for sugar daddies?
Aren't you having fun?
Wouldn't it be nice to have the same fun?

  • Answer date: 2025/03/12 22:12
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Losing man

Movie "Love is Like After the Rain"

Look and study, the answer is there.

  • Answer date: 2025/03/11 14:30