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Maezawa (Staff)

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> I think the maximum time for a date is about 4 hours.

Then I think that's fine.
Even if you know what other people do, once you exceed four hours you will have exceeded your limit, so I don't think it makes sense.

If someone else says that four hours is too short, would that time limit change?
Enjoy it within reason
I think that's the best way.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 09:45

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Mac

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This is the second question. Last time,
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Regarding serious love men, I am a female member of Universe. Recently, there are too many men who fall seriously in love after meeting someone once and having an adult relationship on that day...
2025/03/01 22:49 Female 20s Universe Female Member 61473
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It's usually from 6pm to 9am. I go to work in the morning, but I finish around 12pm, so we date again until around 14pm.
Recently, we have sex after dinner and go to bed as early as 10pm. We stay in an apartment I own. I haven't been to a love hotel in a long time. We sleep naked next to each other in a queen-size bed if possible. Some girls sleep with their clothes on, and if I can't fall asleep next to them, we sleep in a single bed in another room in the same apartment.
I sometimes go to happening bars, SM bars, and mixed-gender hot springs, but only to girls who like that sort of thing and are okay with it. I never take girls who are uncomfortable with that sort of thing.
Some girls stay over every time, some girls live at home and are okay with once a month because they can make an excuse to their parents, and some girls won't even go on a date at night, let alone stay over. By the way, if it's not a sleepover, it often takes less than 4 hours, let alone 3, to have dinner and have sex.
I'm always trying to find out if the girl is uncomfortable or not interested in the time, including the time. Each girl has different tastes in this area, but I think that most girls don't like going to places where they're likely to run into someone they know, rather than a long time.
A trip is just an extension of a sleepover, so I wouldn't go on a trip with someone who doesn't usually stay overnight. If the trip is the first time you've stayed overnight, it's going to be tiring.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 02:00

• iine

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I don't like sleepovers so I've never invited him.
If we were to stay overnight, we would get separate rooms so we wouldn't have to worry about each other.


Postscript
Day trips can be long (up to 12 hours).
However, there will be about two hours of time during the trip for women to do things on their own, such as shopping or visiting a hot spring.
Also, while traveling, I sometimes spend time playing with my smartphone or sleeping.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 09:50

• iine

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Kazu

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I basically like being alone, so I don't invite people to stay over.
I stay when they say they want to stay and I feel like it, or when they recommend that I stay.

Our schedules vary, but if we're traveling we'll be together for several days, and if we have work the next day we'll go our separate ways to get to work.
No matter how you look at it, this is what would happen if both parties were working adults.

I only stay with people who aren't a hassle, so I don't feel it's a hassle at the time.
However, I basically like being alone, so if it continues for too long, I will start to want to be alone.

As Maezawa said, I think what other people are doing has no bearing on what you do.
Please limit your questions to posts.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 10:50

• iine

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Paper

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If it's becoming difficult for you, it could be due to incompatibility with the man or your personality, but it sounds like you're not enjoying it at all.

To be honest, you don't need to push yourself. And I'm not a sugar daddy type.


You can either enjoy sugar dating or look for a better option.





>Lose man

> Spasmodic orgasms are more a function of a woman's constitution than their technique.

That's right.

Regardless of whether they have convulsive orgasms or not, most women have only ever experienced an orgasm, so in the case of a girl who has convulsive orgasms, if the touching of her legs to feel them convulse was the end of it, then going from there into unknown territory, she could experience the epilepsy-like full-body convulsions mentioned above multiple times, or if the girl does not have convulsive orgasms, she could orgasm multiple times, progressing to an unknown stage.


Sorry for the previous question.


The loser's thoughts about money are true and I think many men and women feel the same way. Is the loser popular with good-looking men?

My opinion is the exact opposite because I'm not a good-looking guy.

"Pretty girls don't want handsome guys" "Pretty girls don't want money"
There is plenty of room for that.

"Unattractive girls want handsome guys" "Unattractive girls are all about money"
This is especially evident when it comes to regular romance outside of the club, where less cute girls only have eyes for handsome guys and flock around them to the point where they can't even see me...So, since cute girls don't flock around handsome guys, this can be a good opportunity.


If Mr. Loser could get rid of that fixed mindset, I don't think he would need to keep making offers... Maybe he should try to take some of the brakes off his mind...

I think there are relationships where you can love each other because you are connected by mutual respect. You are very calm, you feel each other's value and necessity, you trust each other, and the feeling of security that continues to grow deeper. That kind of love continues stably without ending or being cut off... that's how it feels...

If a woman thinks that even if they haven't met yet, they will meet 1000 or 2000 times, does that make her think that they are in love in that way (although it's not the same as love or romance)?


Marriage is about having hope for a future that is yet to be seen...

If a man is cautious or senses that there is a possibility that the woman might break up with him, I think that kind of relationship will be the limit. I think there are good aspects to that, though...

Because it's a dating club, I think it's possible to have a relationship in the realm of dating (not just adult dating).




Postscript

About date time

There's nothing wrong with a short date.

I think this works just right because it's okay for men to have short hair and okay for women to have long hair.

If men think that long sex is good and women think that it has to be short, I don't think the other person will enjoy it.


Dates can be 1, 3, or 1 hours, or they can be a whole day if both parties have the time, and if we're going on a trip, we'll try to leave early, so on the first day we'll go here and there, eat here and there, and look around, and before we know it it's late at night, and it's too late to be an adult, and the next day we'll have so many places we want to go and things we want to do, and it will pass by in a whirlwind...

Whether it's a trip or a date, I think the most important thing is for the woman to take the initiative.
If the man giving the allowance takes the lead, then as the questioner imagines, the woman will end up spending time wanting to be free from the pain.

I think it's a good indicator of whether you're a man or woman who wants to do what the other person wants, rather than bargaining.


Do you fundamentally want to do what the other person wants? Do you have the personality to find joy in doing so? If that's not the case, then no matter how well you act, what you convey to the other person will be shallow, and I fear it will only result in an accumulation of pain for you.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 00:44

• iine

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I don't stay the night unless the woman asks.

There's nothing good about sleeping together.
Three hours after going to bed, I start to worry about my bad breath and have to get up to brush my teeth, and in order to avoid waking the woman, I have to act like a ninja.

A date of 4 hours is a long time. The standard is 3 hours, but the longest is XNUMX hours.
For kids who are just adults and want to finish up, the group may disband after an hour.

All tailored to the desires of women.

Even if a woman wants a long date, you can't help but suspect, "Is there something different about her true feelings? Maybe she's just being considerate to me?"
So I don't go on long dates unless I'm invited.

Even when we stay over, we don't have sex in the morning unless asked.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 00:57

• iine

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If you've been friends for a long time, it won't be a bother even if you go on a trip for a week, and you'll probably get invited back again.
I don't invite them very often. I've traveled 300 times already and I've been to all the places I wanted to go.

It would be relatively better if you were given two single rooms.
I do it occasionally for long periods of time.

I want to stop traveling with people who are a pain. Or I want to get a huge bonus.

• Answer date: 2025/03/11 23:10

• iine

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Joe Rubicon

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　As everyone has said, it's important for both of us not to push ourselves too hard, especially when it comes to trips that involve overnight stays.
However, I only realized this relatively recently. Nowadays, when we go on a trip, we make certain decisions in advance, including allowances. What I personally think is important is the time we leave the next day. In the past, we would cram a lot of things in, but now we leave in the morning.
Last month, I went to the Sapporo Snow Festival with Emily. I went to university in Sapporo, so there were a lot of places I wanted to take her to, and the trip ended up being 2 nights and 3 days. I believe Emily enjoyed it too. She even made a travel guide for us.
The key point is that we went our separate ways during the day on the second day. I had lunch with a friend from college, and Emily said she was going to meet up with an old friend again (maybe a different sister).
In any case, it was a good trip. I have no good memories of the snow festival during my university days, but this was the first time I thought it was fun. I'd like to go again with my girlfriend.

• Answer date: 2025/03/12 13:44

• iine

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Fuu

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Staying overnight and doing it
I mistook it for a serious relationship
Fuu, who has been asked to break up
I hate to say it, but

Until it gets too hard
It is not an activity to
If it's hard, just say it's hard.
think

If you don't say it, it's like Fuu
It's okay
I like Fuu
Because I will misunderstand　

Ah, with a woman who is willing to stay over again
I wonder if we can meet
I can shoot up to 7 or 8 shots at night and in the morning.
it was great lol

Incidentally
Alcohol wears off more in the morning than at night.
It's possible, right?

• Answer date: 2025/03/12 22:17

• iine

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