[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

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Maezawa (Staff)

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I think there are more men who want to know personal information.
This is an adult environment, so I think there are many people who think it's okay if the other person doesn't want to tell them.

If someone asks me to teach them something,
Since we are in a relationship, I want to know many things, even if it is about money.
I think it's normal to think that.

I think some people use it as a barometer of how much the other person trusts them.

That being said, I don't think you have to teach things you don't want to teach.

I don't think there's any need to investigate what everyone else is doing.

First of all, if you find out that many people are teaching because of this question, will you start teaching them in the future?

Whatever the answer to that question, if you're not going to change anything
It seems like just curiosity research.

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 19:52

• iine

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I don't want to ask for or give out personal information either, so I've been in contact with people like the questioner for years.
Is there any benefit to knowing my personal information?

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 19:23

• iine

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Aya

Looking at the responses here, it seems there are both patterns where people naturally share personal information with each other and patterns where there is a strong sense of compromise and people prefer to remain anonymous, but I think the majority of people tend to not share much information.

So I took advantage of that and was the type to disclose quite a bit of personal information. I think that if a woman tells you personal information that a normal sugar baby girl wouldn't give out, you're more likely to think, "This woman is good, I can trust her."

However, I've had many bad experiences, and in the first place, if the sugar daddy isn't into the looks and personality of the partner, the relationship won't continue.

If you can sense and provide what each dad wants, you can continue to use the service without disclosing personal information. I think you are able to do that.

• Answer date: 2025/01/20 16:39

• iine

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basil

I also like to avoid risks, so I only give my older colleagues the same amount of information, such as the company name and address.
Since it's a mutual thing, I haven't even asked the other person.
However, if they work for a large company, station names and industry types will come up in conversation, so you'll eventually be able to guess.

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 16:42

• iine

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People who had been together for more than a year naturally knew my address and occupation without me having to ask. I also disclosed it right away.

I feel that a compromise like the one you mentioned is lonely.
On Christmas, he buys takeout and we watch the M1 Grand Prix at my house.

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 16:54

• iine

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Fuu

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Fuu is a practical man who doesn't want to take any risks.
I've been a regular for over four years too.
I don't know his workplace or address, and I don't know anything about him.
I don't teach.

For a date
Where do you live and where is the nearest station to your workplace?
I only know that. I don't know what kind of work it is.

It's up to the man

Before the term "sugar daddy" was coined
Men who had lovers
Knowing the house, giving me an apartment,
There may be some.

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 21:13

• iine

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Kazu

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I'm not particularly interested in finding out, but my boyfriend has invited me to his workplace and to his home.
This is usually the case not just with one person, but with someone you've been dating for more than six months or a year, so from my perspective what you're asking about is a casual relationship that doesn't seem like a dating club.

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 16:18

• iine

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Is cheers for good work.

I think there are many different patterns, such as casual, intimate, or special.

You don't need to know, but if you're in a serious relationship, you'll have the chance to find out their real name, job, home, and workplace at an early stage, and it's natural that you'll be invited there. If you have the chance to take them to their parents' house, you'll also get to know their home address and be introduced to their family.
Even if you don't have a spare key, as long as you are given a key, you can always enter the house first and create a good relationship.


What kind of relationship do you both want? Are you compatible enough to feel a natural trust between you?
If you're going to break up soon, you probably won't feel that way, but can you both feel that you want to continue your relationship from the first few times you meet (the first time?)? I think it depends on your compatibility, your way of thinking, and your past experiences.

• Answer date: 2025/01/19 16:40

• iine

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Toshi

No matter how close I am to someone, or how close I want to be to them, I don't want to know more personal information than necessary. Of course, I don't mind them telling me, but I don't want to reveal more personal information about myself than necessary. However, if I want to deepen our relationship, I would like to know at least their real first name.

Also, it depends on what you consider to be personal information, but if you are left vague on too many details during a conversation, the conversation will likely not progress in the first place, and you will ultimately not want to continue.

• Answer date: 2025/01/20 04:43

• iine

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Joe Rubicon

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I think that's fine. Is the fact that it's been going on for four years proof of that?
In my opinion, there is no need to change the basic policy.

Regardless of how much actual harm it causes, personal information is leaking more than people think.

• Answer date: 2025/01/20 22:33

• iine

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It's My

I guess it depends on the other person's feelings

"Just the right distance"
Because it totally varies from person to person

Sharing some personal information
If I can be friends with you, I will.
Disclosure of personal information
If it's painful, I won't do it.

It's My

• Answer date: 2025/01/21 01:17

• iine

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