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basil

If you're short on money, then just let it die out naturally and there's no need for it.
By the way, I'm stingy too, but depending on the person, I will give them the equivalent of a few allowances each time.

• Answer date: 2024/11/27 18:29

• iine

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Maezawa (Staff)

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> I'm a poor dad so I can't give you that much...

Why don't you stop your activities here and start using a matching app instead?
I think there are fewer people who give severance pay.
I think that's the difference between dating clubs and matching apps.
I think it's best to have a relationship and end it in a way that is appropriate for a dating club.

If there is no money in the first place, is it impossible to start new activities?

• Answer date: 2024/11/27 20:23

• iine

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Taro

I basically agree with Basil, but I'd like to be a bit more specific.

First, there are women who are basically distant. In other words, they don't contact you unless you contact them first. Or, they only contact you when they want to meet, which is about once a month. In these cases, it's okay to let the relationship die away naturally. Specifically, don't contact them first. Even if they contact you, just ignore them. That's the end of it.

If you are communicating with someone frequently or if you meet a woman quite frequently, she will become distrustful of people if you suddenly disappear, so I think it is important to give her a sense of fading out. For example, you can delay your reply for some reason, or decline her invitation to an appointment by saying that you've been a bit busy lately. If you continue doing that for a while and then ignore her without replying, there is a more than half chance that she will never contact you again. There are cases where she still contacts you, but if you intend to hang up, it is best to ignore her and not reply. The conclusion has already been decided, so prolonging it will only make her suffer. Try your best with the mindset of a Mimiu maid who drowns a live shrimp in boiling water and never loosens the tongs even if the shrimp struggles.

If you have the money, it's fine to offer something like severance pay. Money is like pocket tissues or toilet paper; it's good to have as much as you can, so I don't think anyone would mind receiving it.

You know the people who put bills in offerings at shrines? I think those are the kind of people who give severance money. When I first visited the shrine, I prayed, "I want to have sex with a hot woman," but later, I felt like I didn't say it clearly enough and I might be punished for it, so I went back to the same shrine on a weekday afternoon when there were fewer visitors and carefully explained the circumstances, background, and what I was aiming for. Then, I had a series of good encounters, so I went back to the shrine to give thanks, but I only put 20 yen in offerings every time.

We hope for your reference.

Taro

• Answer date: 2024/11/28 01:18

• iine

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Male member

Fuu

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No need for severance pay

So as not to make things complicated
Do you give money every time?

Block contact without making a next appointment
Or
I was unable to continue due to unavoidable reasons.
Should I tell you

Is that correct?

• Answer date: 2024/11/27 23:48

• iine

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Paper

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In my case, if I've been together for more than three years, whether it's in a club or as a couple, the relationship never fades away.


The reason is that when you're together for a long time, you don't get bored, but rather your relationship deepens. I don't really understand what it means to get bored (of a human relationship). I understand people getting bored of a woman's body, or wanting a new girl, but I think there are men and women out there who want to deepen their connection in some way.

The women in the club probably don't feel much gratitude after just three years, but as the years go by, I think the sense of gratitude between them will build up considerably.

Will you be able to experience that emotion, or will your relationship simply lose its freshness as time goes by and you grow tired of it? Is this a turning point, and is that what you want? Only you can know.

Of course, it depends on whether you place more emphasis on the adult or on the content of the relationship.

I think that if you build a relationship that is unrelated to sugar dating (even a romantic one), there may be no need for it to disappear.

If both men and women feel that they will never meet someone like them again, or that they are one of the precious few people in their lives, they will not be broken up with, and neither party will want to end the relationship.

• Answer date: 2024/11/28 12:31

• iine

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