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Question date: 2024/11/27 14:44

He asked me to meet him 20-3 times for an adult relationship for 4 yen a month.
He said that he would deduct the money as an expense for the company he runs, and would give it to me in one lump sum at the end of the month.
Is this likely to be evaded?
I thought it was great to get 20 yen a month, but I was bothered by the fact that the money would be given in one lump sum at the end of the month.

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Maezawa (Staff)

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If you are planning to deduct the expense from your company, you may be asked to submit personal information since you will be registered as an employee.
This is actually a trap
In the end, you don't get your money and are threatened with personal information.

Therefore, if you are looking to receive 20 yen a month, it is dangerous if you don't receive it at the beginning.
However, there are also cases where men give the gift at first and then lose contact.

I think it's best to meet on an ongoing basis until you build a relationship of mutual trust.
Of course, if you can get it first, that's fine.

By the way, occasionally we get consultations from men who say they will give money on company expenses but won't give it to us.

Be careful not to be fooled by sweet words.


  • Answer date: 2024/11/27 17:39
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0603 Osaka Tokyo

I also sometimes continue under similar conditions, but I give them one payment each time for the first 3-4 times, and if they continue after that I give them a two month's worth in advance.
In this case, it seems suspicious to me.
It would be different if you had received the other person's business card.

  • Answer date: 2024/11/27 17:32
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Losing man

Since that dad is proposing a monthly payment plan without even having a formal conversation with the person asking the question, there is a 90% chance that he is just trying to run away.

  • Answer date: 2024/11/27 14:57
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Fuu

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Because it seems suspicious
Often
Should I talk?
think.

Could I just have it for the first month?

  • Answer date: 2024/11/27 23:50
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Kazu

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I think there's a tendency for problems to arise with late deliveries.
If you have any concerns about the terms, it's best to discuss them with the other party.

  • Answer date: 2024/11/27 14:48
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Seattle

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They will run away.
There's no way I'd pay you later, you stingy poor dad.

  • Answer date: 2024/11/29 16:57