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Question date: 2024/10/28 11:23

When I go to the bath before the man, I leave a towel and toothbrush with toothpaste for him and he says thank you for that. But when I think about it, does that make him think I'm too skilled or like I'm in the sex industry? I've never worked in the sex industry, so I might be overthinking it, but do I go too far? Are there any other actions like this that you feel are too provocative or over the top?

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She said that when she went into the bath first, she was preparing for the man who was to arrive later.
Personally, I don't think this suggests that she has experience working in an adult entertainment establishment.
I think most people think that she is a caring woman.

Many people who think I might be a sex worker are lying in their reports to the club or in their conversations with me.

I understand that you want to hide your experience as a sex worker, as it's easier to get offers if you keep it a secret.
If you have no experience, there are many things that are hard to explain. Of course, things will go wrong in other ways besides language, such as the atmosphere or behavior.
Lies can also be revealed by the cover stories used to hide them.
After meeting him a few times, I began to think that it must be difficult for an actor to fully act out a false setting.
However, my belief that it is a lie is based solely on my own personal prejudice and intuition, so I don't know the truth.

If they sense there is a lie, in most cases they will stop inviting you.
I think it's best to only provide information that is convenient for you, but if you go beyond silence and actively lie, I don't think it will last long.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/28 12:33
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This varies from man to man, so some may think it's like a prostitution experience just because of that.
I think that in most cases, few people would consider it to be like a sex establishment.

However, I don't think you need to take the trouble to prepare for brushing your teeth.
It's difficult if you want the other person to brush their teeth too.
Polishing when the other person is around
(Maybe the other person will even brush their teeth with you.)
I think it's about right.

However, if it really bothers you, please brush your teeth.
Because I'm a bit of a germaphobe...
I think it would be a good idea to ask them to do something like that, but many men don't like being told that.
I think it's better not to say anything about this if it's okay not to.


Apart from that, I often hear from men that they don't like women who want to be treated as soon as they enter the room because it seems like they're in the sex industry.
That's the story

I think you can ignore that part of it.
On the other hand, I think that it is men who think that it is too prostitute-like that they would dislike it and would not be able to date him.

However, even so, it seems that a fair number of men think this way.
Observe the other person carefully during the meal
If you think that this man will pay you properly even if you receive compensation after the act,
I think it's better to just keep quiet and wait for the other person's timing.

However, if you are a person who is not tactful even at the meal stage,
I don't think there's much benefit to continuing our relationship in the future.
I think it's best to get it as soon as you enter the room.

Another thing that men dislike is women who are too pragmatic.
In other words, I want you to hurry up and go to bed. Are you there yet?
Something like that
Once I'm done, I'll take a shower and get changed right away.
Something like,
Because men hate it

Make sure you don't get out of bed until the man does.
She doesn't say anything about when the man will come.
I think it would be a good idea to do something like this.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/28 15:03
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If you have never worked in the sex industry, I think any gesture is okay.


If you're worried about whether you're overdoing it, then you should just stop. But if it's something you want to do, then it's natural to do it.

The difference from prostitution is that you are free to do it or not, and you don't have to do anything you don't really want to do, and you don't have to provide service, so I think it's best to behave comfortably and naturally, which allows your true self and individuality to come out.
Men also enjoy seeing their women having fun and being happy.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/28 15:57
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For me, towels and toothbrushes don't make me think of prostitution.
Regardless of whether it's prostitution or not, I sometimes get the feeling that they're used to it just from the content of the acts being performed.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/28 16:43
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That's too much

That's dedication.
What else can I do for you?

If you do too much, you'll get tired.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/29 01:02
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It depends on the woman's other actions, but personally I would just assume that if she left toothpaste on your toothbrush, she's the caring type.
There are quite a few women who will leave towels for you.

I think that the impression of having experience as a sex worker is relatively easy to convey in bed, but I don't think it can be said with certainty because it can also be influenced by the woman's sexual preferences and previous men.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/28 11:45
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I understand that there are some people who are obsessed with cleanliness, so I put the bags in a visible place by the bathroom sink so they know to brush their teeth, but they don't open the bags because they're dirty.

After that, when you get out of the bath, keep a towel nearby so that you can use it immediately. This is to prevent someone from walking with wet feet and slipping and falling, which would mean having to call an ambulance.
This is something I learned as a former medical professional...
If you prepare too much, it will be a disadvantage if people think you are used to the sex industry, so I think it's best to be a little casual.

  • Answer date: 2024/10/29 10:02