[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

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Mac

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I'm not an expert on sugar mommy dating (lol), so I'll just write about what I know.

I know two guys in their 20s who are dating moms. Where did they meet their moms? One was in a hospital waiting room, the other was at an izakaya.
I don't think there's a system like sugar daddy that introduces you to moms.
But why,

◎ No matter how old a woman is, or how strong her sexual desire is or how inconvenient it is, she is reluctant to be the one paying

It is.
That's why women in their 40s, 50s, and even 60s are registered with Universe Club.
I want sex, but I also want money.
This is similar to when a man who was once popular with women starts to worry, "Maybe I'm still active and can hunt? Paying money isn't what I'm looking for" (this is known as sugar dating syndrome), but at its core there is a slight difference.
I will explain that now.
Recently, many young women are actively using brothels for women. There are probably some women who have tried calling sugar daddies out of curiosity.
The good thing about brothels for women is that there's no romantic relationship involved, you just get to have quick sex.
Please remember the difference between sugar dating and sex work for men.
Whether or not there is a pseudo-romantic element.
When you consider the difference between sugar mommy dating and prostitution for women, women don't want to pay money for a pseudo-romantic element.
I'd rather spend the money on myself.
This is the difference between sugar daddy syndrome and sugar mommy syndrome.

So, regarding what the questioner is referring to as "sugar mommy activity," it may simply be something like "I want money in exchange for sex."
In that case, you should apply for a job in the female sex industry.
There are a lot of women's brothels, and in Nagoya, what was it called? There is a famous place, and it seems that you have to provide services to about two existing female members first, and if you don't pass, you won't be hired.
However, from what I've heard from other people who have actually tried working in the female sex industry, there are some places where all you have to do is register online.
Once he registered, there was no training or anything, he was suddenly introduced to the company as a client and told to "go and see what happens."
Come to think of it, didn't Flame say he registered before?

But I don't think it will be a huge amount of money.
If you want to make a lot of money, hosting is the way to go.
In fact, it is often the case that men who are unable to impress female customers as hosts or who are not suited to the job end up working in the female brothels.
Is it like not being suited to being a hostess and becoming a delivery health worker?

Also, there is a dark side to sugar mommy dating.
I heard this story from one of the two people I mentioned at the beginning. They went to their mother's apartment, got ready, and waited, but she never showed up.
After a while, he came over with a smile on his face, holding something in his hand.
Show me the brown solid object in your hand.
He said, "If you eat this, I'll give you 100 million yen right here and now. What will you do?"
I've never heard of this kind of play in sugar dating.
Well, there's a story about a certain celebrity who said, "If you break the bones in your fingers, you'll get 100 million yen for each one."
Come to think of it, the drug-induced sex incident in Minato Ward involving a certain famous company president was also a 100 million yen deal.
A lot of crazy stories seem to involve 100 million yen.
I take back what I said earlier: there are some people with darker side in sugar dating.
However, I think that women who try to lure young men in order to have fun under the guise of "sugar mommy dating" have a high chance of having a shady side.
It's best not to take it lightly.
It doesn't matter whether it's looks or skills, but young men who can't become hosts should work hard at a daytime job and aim to make it big.

Some people might say, "What about romance scams? In those, the woman is paying for the romance, right?" But in those cases, it's not pseudo-romance; the person involved is in real love.
It is difficult for women to develop a sense of "pseudo-love." There is only real love.
Women have sexual desires too, but unlike men, they don't have the same sense of "just having sex is empty, I want to immerse myself in the feeling of being in a relationship." That's why "mama-katsu" (a relationship where you have a sugar daddy) isn't as popular.
I think the sex industry for women will grow because it is still largely unexplored.
However, brothels for women are looked down upon by hosts.
I was once involved in introducing a female-oriented sex industry to a woman in her 50s I know, and the person who agreed to the discussion was a current host.
I was wondering if the host could help me out a little, but...
He laughed and readily agreed, saying, "If you give me about 15 yen, there are plenty of former hosts who are my juniors who are willing to do anything like that, so I'll give him 5 yen and take 10 yen for myself."
However, that story was dropped.
The reason why is that the person who brought up this idea was a female beautician, and while she was giving her a facial massage, a woman in her 50s said something like "I haven't had sex in a long time, I want to have sex with a man," so she thought she would be considerate and introduce her to someone, but after actually setting the stage through me, when she approached the woman, she laughed and said, "Thanks, but even at my age, if I were to do it, I want to be paid for it. I am a woman, after all."
She was once a very beautiful woman who worked in the entertainment industry, married a wealthy man, a company president, several dozen years older than her, and was widowed by him.
Apparently she's so fat now that she looks nothing like that. But, since she's actually married into wealth, I guess that's what it must have been like.
I'll spend hundreds of thousands, even millions, of yen on beauty treatments and cosmetics, but I don't want to spend money on men.
That's the kind of creature a woman is.
The story goes that it's hard for men, but it's also hard for women.
That's it. Wait, wasn't this supposed to be a column?

The high-class brothel for women I mentioned above was "Nagoya Secret Base." It seems there's one in Tokyo too. Questioner, if you're confident, why don't you apply?

• Answer date: 2024/09/29 15:35

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Female member

Nana Ayase

It's natural that people in their 20s don't understand the female mind.
It can't be helped, since men older than that don't understand women's hearts.

Much of what Mac wrote applies to me.
It was a good lesson in life. Well, that's just how it is, so give up.

• Answer date: 2024/09/30 10:39

• iine

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