[JP ONLY] Sugar Dating Anonymous Question Box

Female member

Aya

Dads can generally be divided into two types:

1) The amount remains the same each time (this is stable in a sense, but the relationship is easily broken)

2. Even if you meet once in a while at first, the frequency of your meetings will increase, and you'll end up saying things like, "I don't want to give you a gift every time, so let's make it a monthly deal," or "I'll rent you a house instead of a hotel every time," and the gifts and allowances will go sky-high (it's stable, but breaking up is a hellish situation).

I have experienced both, but option (1) is by far the most common.

I have had experience with ⑵ twice, and both times the other person recognized me as his "girlfriend." Since she was my mistress, I put "girlfriend" in quotation marks, but it was a one-on-one relationship where I could only describe her as my girlfriend.

There may be pros and cons, but the desire to "take care of my girlfriend" or "protect the weak" can be motivating for some men.

Her presence gives me energy every day and I can feel the influence I have, so if the child is troubled I want to help her and support her.

So even if it's just a physical relationship at first, there's no limit to what can happen.

I'm in Hawaii with my dad right now, and I'm surprised that I made him buy a 160 million yen Chanel bag. He was indignant, saying, "You're not a pretty woman... this is the first time I've been forced to buy such an expensive bag," but he also said, "No other man would do this for you. This will be something you'll remember forever."

However, most women have no desire to become an uncle's "girlfriend" even if it's a lie, so it's quite difficult. If you act half-heartedly, he'll see right through you if you're used to being with women.

By the way, if a father is a salaried worker and has little income or assets, then "you can't touch what you don't have," so option 2 doesn't apply.

The chances are higher for self-employed or business owners, so I think it would be a good idea to steer such dads towards option ⑵.

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 17:19

• iine

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Male member

Seattle

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Start with 5 each time.

For example, if a student is struggling with tuition fees, I could pay the whole thing, like 60 yen.
In my case, she is not my girlfriend. She is just the first or second place project. Someone I have known for years and want to watch over for the rest of my life. Naturally, we have become monthly partners.

She decided to move near my house, so I increased the deposit and the monthly payment to cover the increased rent. I decide based on whether it is necessary for her lifestyle.

It's been more than three years now, and I'm probably her number one dad, so when I see her showing affection and trust, the sky's the limit for me.
As a former ugly dad with a bad attitude like me, I've never been popular with women, so I'll easily be fooled if you pretend to like someone.

That being said, I'm not as rich as Aya's dad, so my birthday presents were just five figures in cash. I've never given her anything worth six figures.

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 20:09

• iine

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Male member

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When we become close, we go on trips together, and since the time commitment is longer, I add an extra allowance.
The number of souvenirs will also increase.

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 17:56

• iine

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Male member

Mac

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This person's ID doesn't seem to have any history of asking questions in the past. Nice to meet you lol

Is there an urban legend that says, "If you work hard, your allowance will increase"?
Well, if there is one, it depends on what you put effort into. It's like a game, it's about strategy.
I have to check where the weaknesses of the monster called Papa are and what weapons I have, and then I'm not going to defeat Papa, I'm going to raise him. There are various ways to express this, such as swamping him or rolling him over.
It's fun if you approach it with the feeling that you're an adventurer conquering a sugar daddy dungeon. Good luck.


Even if there is no history of previous questions from that ID, if the question has a familiar, deja-vu feel to it, it feels unnatural. If it's the first time, I want them to have a sense of "innocence" that comes with it.
Or if there are two or three past histories, you'll feel happy and think, "Oh, this person is real."

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 16:31

• iine

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Maezawa (Staff)

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I only hear about pay increases very occasionally.
Rather, I think it's better to assume that it almost never happens.

Of course, if a man likes a woman, he will want to do more for her.
That might lead to an increase in pay, though.
Either way, even if I like something, I think I would keep the allowance the same and buy additional items if there's anything else I want.

However, I haven't heard much about it being lowered.
If you have been demoted, it's probably a good idea to think about what caused it.

When a man talks about lowering his allowance
If the other person doesn't respond, I think it's time to think about breaking up.
I think there may have been something that made them think that way.

However, I put up with the fact that the allowance was higher than the man had originally expected, and we continued dating.
In some cases, it may be getting increasingly strict.

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 22:14

• iine

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Male member

Kazu

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There must be.
I remember Seattle and other people answering that it was up.

Personally, I have never lowered the rate, and I have raised it if it is converted into a monthly rate and calculated on a per-use basis.
There are even more bonuses that I've given out.

However, I feel something is off about the "if you try hard" part.
The idea of ​​working hard is a woman's subjective opinion, and it is the man who evaluates it.
Even if you work hard in a way that does not lead to an evaluation, you will not be evaluated and your allowance will not increase.
I think in most cases in this world, what is appreciated is not effort but results.

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 17:13

• iine

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Female member

Losing man

There is an allowance increase.

If the allowance is too high at the start of a relationship, the girl will often not be able to keep up.

It's normal to have 12 or 15 each time.

So recently we have changed our approach and stopped offering a high allowance on the first visit.

I would offer a low amount and start the relationship, see how it goes, and then increase the allowance depending on how hard you put in, as you put in.

There are two girls who I would like to give extra money to the more money I have.
These two are in a class of their own.

They both call me their boyfriend.

I don't consider these two to be my girlfriends.
There's no doubt that she is a truly important woman, but I draw a line.

I make sure to say things like, "XX-chan is my girlfriend ♡" in front of the girl because it makes her feel uneasy.

• Answer date: 2024/09/27 17:54

• iine

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Male member

system engineer member

If they are going to cut my allowance I will break up with them, so I won't talk about cutting my allowance.
I don't think I'd have any fun if we continued dating if it caused our relationship to deteriorate.

Generally, the allowance will not change, but depending on circumstances, we may make a one-off purchase or provide more allowance.
It would be great if you could build a good relationship and naturally get an increase in treatment.

• Answer date: 2024/09/28 08:40

• iine

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