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Question date: 2023/12/05 13:29

I haven't been active for a long time, so there aren't that many, but for the first time, I received 5000 yen for transportation expenses.It's within the terms and conditions, so I have no complaints, but does that mean that the person doesn't like me?
You said "I'd love to see you next time," but is this just a social greeting, and even if I promise to meet you next time and move on to adulthood, I wonder if the allowance will be very small?I'm a little worried.

Do you only give 5000 yen to women you don't like?

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  • Age: 20s
  • Member: Universe Female Member
  • Member ID: 06497
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system engineer member

After all, there is a range of fluctuations, so if I set it to 0.5, female members would think so, so I fixed it at 1.0.
Even if you have taken the time to meet someone, if that is your first impression, it will be difficult to make the next impression.

In any case, it seems better to discuss allowances first.
I think it would be good to be judged from there.

  • Answer date: 2023/12/05 15:01
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Kazu

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Personally, I give XNUMX yen for transportation expenses first, so the only people I have given XNUMX yen to are one or two women whose motivation was low from the time I made the offer.
My instincts were correct; I had tea with the woman for about XNUMX minutes, and then we broke up and never met again.

However, I don't think the allowance offered by a man who charges XNUMX yen for transportation expenses is necessarily a very small amount.

  • Answer date: 2023/12/05 15:14
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Shirosa

I think so.
I'm giving 10,000 because I want to have a pleasant relationship.
The other person may not know how to build a good relationship.
You might want to be careful with that person, as you may end up having trouble with them from time to time.
Since the first date is probably over, why not let him know in advance if you would like to receive an allowance when he invites you next time?

  • Answer date: 2023/12/05 16:33
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date ◎ dream

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I think the man had decided on that amount from the beginning.
I think it would be difficult to change it midway through since it will be given to you at the beginning.

I think that transportation expenses and allowances are linked, but they are basically different things, so I think it would be a good idea to ask about them.
If you can't listen to it, maybe you can try it out?

  • Answer date: 2023/12/05 14:03
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Paper

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Even if you don't like it, it's not a waste (because things like that happen, you'll also have good encounters), so I try to give over 1 yen to avoid spoiling.


I don't know if the man is just making up his mind or is looking for efficiency, but he is definitely a rare person.

  • Answer date: 2023/12/05 16:45
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What a farmer

I'm referring to water in response to other people's answers.

According to the rules, 5000 to 10000 yen must be given to the woman for the first time.If the meeting is at a location where the woman I'm meeting with doesn't require extra transportation fees, I charge a flat fee of 5000 yen.We will prepare it in an envelope before you meet and hand it to you right before you start eating.
Still, just the other day, we had a nice meal and some adults went too, and they said it was fun and that they wanted to see us again.Of course, we discussed the allowance and gave the amount agreed upon by both parties.

What really annoys both men and women with the questions and answers here are posts that say that anything below a certain amount is seen as having low value, whether it's the amount of your allowance or the transportation expenses you're asking about.

Amount = value as a human being
If you can't think of anything else, go to the sex industry.Ah, both men and women.
Because I don't think so.When I meet a woman, I think more than just the price, I think about whether she will like me as a man, for who I am, and whether she would be happy to go on a date or have an adult relationship.

  • Answer date: 2023/12/12 21:45