• This goes for dinner dates, short meetings, and adult relationships, but I don't say no to invitations about 98% of the time.
    There are people I meet about once a week...


Question date: 2023/09/24 20:15

This goes for dinner dates, short meetings, and adult relationships, but I don't say no to invitations about 98% of the time.
It's fine for people I see once a week, but I see people about three times a week.

It is said that in love, it is necessary to say no once in a while, but what about when it comes to being a dad?

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Is there anything you can intentionally say no to?
I don't think it makes sense
A top actress?Is it?

For dads who want to cherish
almost match
Or, if you understand our work, we will coordinate with you.

In many ways, if you want to continue receiving support, I think you should make the most of your efforts.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 08:01
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In my case, if I get rejected, I'll hang up immediately.

It is a good idea to make it clear that you will never refuse an invitation from the father in front of you, but that you may decline invitations from other fathers.
For example, ``You're the only one who gets to be an adult'' or ``I have a dad who eats meals, and he gave me ¥XNUMX the other day and asked me to sleep with him, but I refused.''In that way, you can say, ``I don't like things that I don't like, so I clearly refuse.''You can make up a story, or you can exaggerate your experience of getting rejected by XNUMX%.
She's cold towards other men, but makes people think she's completely in love with him, and that's the kind of tsundere that works.In the case of dad life.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 20:56
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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

>I don't say no to invitations about 98% of the time.

The details of the remaining 2% refusing are unclear.
Are you referring to cases where you cannot meet for some reason?
There's no particular reason, but there are about 2% of the time that I don't want to see you.
I'm concerned about that, though.

I think men like it better if you don't say no 100% unless you have something to do.

>When it comes to love, it is said that it is necessary to say no once in a while.

Is this a story from the Showa era?
Lately, even in the Reiwa era, I feel like such stories don't come out much anymore.

So, I don't think it's necessary these days.
I feel like it's the same with dad life.

However, every once in a while, Mac writes a story about a woman who is an amazing father.
For such people, while engaging in such tactics,
There may be a technique like that.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 21:45
Female member


It's best to fit 100% into dad's schedule.

One of my fathers is a handsome and very popular man, and at first he met several children at the same time.

I think one of the reasons why I was able to narrow it down to just myself is because it was so easy to accommodate my schedule.

When I look at their emails (aside from the tsukkomi telling me not to look at them), they say things like, ``I have work on ⚪︎day...'' or ``I'm really sorry about the ⚪︎day, but I feel like work is going to take a long time, so I'll have to change my time a little.'' “…” and things like that.

There are many rich, business-manager dads who don't like to conform to others, or rather think, ``Why should I be the one to conform to others?''

So, if you match it 100%, your favorability will skyrocket.No problem.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 22:28
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Please try it.
Personally, I say goodbye to women who try such tactics, whether it's love or not.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 20:22
Female member


I've never thought of turning down a job on purpose even though it fits my schedule.
Many of my dads are flexible with their schedules, but they are relatively always available, so if they have free time on the day they invite me, I don't turn them down.
Are you saying it's a tactic?I don't understand the point.


  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 14:43
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It's My

Sometimes it's necessary to say no
It's better not to think about it too much

The number % is just a result.
Each time is everything, 100%

It's My

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 23:49
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I think it's better not to refuse either.

I've never turned down an invitation from a woman I'm dating.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 06:05