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Question date: 2023/09/24 19:40

There are some dads that I usually only see in my hotel room.

Recently, everyone has started saying that they want to go out together, eat delicious food, and go on a date sometime.
However, I don't feel comfortable walking outside with my dad.It's good if he looks young and handsome.
But there's no way he's a good-looking old man...If we go outside together, we'll definitely float.
But I can't say that, so I try to avoid it, but every dad keeps saying it without giving in.

Do you have any good ideas for staying in a hotel without having to go out?If you have any, please let me know.

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Kazu

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There is nothing.

Although it's not a fundamental solution, why not try going to a place you don't know, saying, ``Let's go somewhere far away because you're likely to be found by someone you know nearby.''

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 20:10
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Mac

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This is slightly related to the answer to the next question, but if an adult refuses to eat, I will immediately cut off the cut, but if someone refuses to eat, I will not cut the cut.However, I've never been turned down, so I'm just imagining this hypothetically.
When my child refuses to eat, I think to myself, ``Oh, I guess he doesn't want people to think he's a daddy.''It won't hurt her in any way, and it won't give her a negative opinion of the child.
As for the answer, wouldn't it be fine just to just refuse to eat?Just tell him clearly that you don't like him, not just that man, but other dads as well.
It's obvious, but it's no good if you say, ``I'd be fine with a young, good-looking guy.'' Say, ``I don't want my acquaintances to see me.''

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 21:05
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It's My

The reason why I get excited when I'm with you
I don't think it's an age difference.
It doesn't matter whether the other person is good-looking or not.

There are several reasons why it floats:
1. The man is grinning and the woman seems annoyed.
2. One of you is unnaturally concerned about what other people think.
3. Women are aggressive, men are timid (and vice versa)
4. Men's fashion is inappropriate

If you do this, you'll be found out in no time

Atmosphere and fashion included
Surprisingly inconspicuous if you blend in with your surroundings

Next time I go out, I'll take a look at people.
I think you'll find out soon

As long as you can behave naturally, you can go out.
If this is not possible, as a policy for your relationship
I think it's best to continue refusing to go out.

It's My

  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 00:25
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Marika

The other day, my dad and I went to an outlet store to kill time, and there was a girl in a miniskirt and knee highs shopping with an old man.I said, ``They might be a real parent and child,'' but my dad said, ``That's real.'' There's no reason,'' he said.
``If it were me, I'd say let's go buy some pants first,'' he said.
After all, men don't like it when daddy activities are revealed.

So, the solution would be to dodge slowly, or as Kazu-san suggested, suggest a long trip.
Surprisingly, you can feel at ease if it's not in your own area.

Marika

  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 13:08
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Maezawa (Staff)

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thanks for your questions.
Maezawa will also answer.

>Do you have any good ideas for staying at a hotel without having to go out?

I can't think of any good ideas
If I had just said that it would be better to suddenly meet at the hotel as before.
I feel like men will eventually give up.

Or if a man says let's go out for dinner next time.
I'm glad, I want to eat too.
While saying something like that, when it came to specifics,

I won't have much time that day, so I'll either just eat or stay at the hotel.
Is it okay to just stay at a hotel?
To surpass while doing something like

I can't think of any good ideas
I think it would be a good idea to go out to eat delicious food in places where you don't know anyone.
Even if someone you don't know sees, I don't think it will affect the person asking the question in any way.

I think it's better not to worry about it.

In the first place, there are very few people who actually like older people, and some even end up marrying them.
I don't think it matters what people think.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 21:54
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Paper

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>I always see my dad only in the hotel room


If so, aren't you just saying it as a conversation topic?


My dad also has a certain level of self-awareness, so I think that's why he meets me that way.


If you're a dad who enjoys going out, you probably spend more time doing that.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 13:37
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Shirosa

Hotels these days have a lot of video distribution systems, so why not pick up a movie you want to watch and say, ``I want to watch a movie at a leisurely pace.''
You can also connect your smartphone, so you may be able to prepare your own.
If you give her the impression that you want to spend some time alone with her, she'll eventually think, ``That's better.''
surely.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/26 02:10
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date ◎ dream

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I'm a sneaky person and have the same way of thinking as the person who asked the question, but I recommend going for a drive when going out.
I'm isolated from the people around me and don't really stand out (lol)
Be careful of traffic accidents...

  • Answer date: 2023/09/25 06:11