• How many years have you been dating a woman?

    In my case, it's been about 3 months to 2 years, up to 3 years, and I've recently broken up with that person...


Question date: 2023/09/24 01:56

How many years have you been dating a woman?

In my case, I've been in a relationship for about 3 months to 2 years, the longest being 3 years, and I just recently broke up with my partner, so I'm jealous of people who have been in long-term relationships.

Please let me know if there are any things you should keep in mind when aiming for a long-term relationship.

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  • Age: 40s
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All of the girls in my favorite club are over 3 years old.

My favorite candidate, the club lady, is almost a year old.I have already paid about 1 years' worth of allowance in advance, so I can't afford to break up with her...I think the woman on the other side would have earned all of her allowance if she just left, but she doesn't seem to have any intention of leaving.

All of my ex-girlfriends have been dating for over 20 years, so it feels like I've only been dating the girls in the club for about 10/1 of that time.

I think it's hard for people to break up if they develop feelings over a long period of time, but in my case, I'm not a good-looking guy, so it's easy for women to say anything to me, and I can express my emotions freely...

The women in the club seem to tell me anything, including dissatisfaction, warnings, complaints, selfishness, and whatever they think, almost as much as my daughter, and it seems easy to ask them to do anything they want.
Is this an attractive woman who also feels stress?Are you used to it yet?Since you don't get irritated or angry, do you feel at ease with the other person?

I think it will continue if we both get hooked.

To answer, I'm not aiming for a long-term relationship, nor am I making any efforts.It remains as it is in its natural state.each other.

What I dare to do is

When you meet someone, it's about dating someone you want to be your partner with forever.
I don't think I've ever been wrong with my ball selection.

Also, since I'm not a good-looking guy, I think one of the big benefits of being a guy is that even if I don't say anything, women will interpret everything as if I'm special (and special).

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 02:25
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It's the same as saving money, you don't save money because you want to make money, you save money as a result, right?The same goes for dating.
It depends on whether the man is heartless or not.As I've met him a number of times, I wonder if I can feel love for him in the fact that we've met each other so many times.This does not depend on whether a man is good or bad, but on his character.So I guess there's no point in trying.
It's a bit extravagant to say, ``I'm the type of person who never gets bored of me,'' like Kazu-san, but it's like the king of the Thousand and One Nights, but I certainly have that side of myself.Women want to be beautiful, but if you want to win a man's heart, you should aim to be a woman who never gets bored.Beautiful women get boring and there are better ones.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 02:52
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Rut, inertia, habituation, rotten edges, cheap tiles, the bottom hole of a pachinko. . .I think if we can form something like this, it will last for a long time.

It's a nice story to say that it changes things up so you don't get stuck in a rut, but it's like trying to improve your long-distance record in a bird-man contest: your skills are great, but the odds are low. I guess it's not worth it.

If you can create a relationship that lasts without that kind of effort, you will be invincible.For example, at first high-class French restaurants and Zagin's Shissou are good, but eventually Toriki, Ootoya, and Ramen restaurants become the main ones, and people start fighting and complaining that I'm not being treated properly.I feel like this will last longer than expected (lol)


  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 02:31
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in my case
My wife and I have been together for over XNUMX years,
It's been 1 years since I've been dating a woman from the entertainment club who is limited to one person.

As a precaution,
be patient. (Don't push yourself too hard and don't expect too much.)
Listen to what I have to say and do what I can.
Say what you want to say, and ask for improvements where you can.

Is it like this? (lol)

In particular,
There is an age difference of more than XNUMX years between her and the woman in the entertainment club, and she is somewhere between her children and grandchildren.
Although I let them wear geta, I think they tolerate it.
I think a young handsome guy is definitely better than an old man.
Recently, my income has stabilized and I don't think I need to receive support anymore... but I won't leave (lol)

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 06:13
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This is my 7th year with my dad, and my 5th year together.

I think it has something to do with the fact that I have no desire to get married, that I have no trouble arranging my schedule with my father, and that my father was originally in a long-term relationship.

  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 13:37
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I think the distance between us is just right.
When we meet, he's kind and doesn't mind me even if I get clingy, and even tells me he loves me, but when I'm not with him, I only use LINE to check my schedule.

Even when we go out separately, I don't buy any souvenirs.
But when it comes to spending money, they spend a lot of money.

When I'm with my dad, I feel safe knowing that if something happens, I can leave it to him.

It continues like that for a long time.


  • Answer date: 2023/09/24 18:40