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Question date: 2023/07/21 05:20

You don't decide the details such as the time and contents of the initially agreed allowance, do you?
I don't want to negotiate allowances as much as possible because there is an awkward atmosphere, and it's especially difficult for women.
Is it correct to keep silent even if the date time, sleepover, painful play content, etc. have changed since the first time?

I think it's smart to get more men first, but am I wrong?

Several years have passed since the first edition, and the content has changed,
If the content becomes softer, it's welcome, but in general it will become harder (both play content and time)

Other than the allowance being generated, the allowance remains the same. Like a real lover.

A person who decides the time and takes care not to be seen as stingy by women
I feel divided into

For the former, even if you stay overnight, you will be able to go through with a single allowance (1 adults per visit, elderly).
I mustered up the courage to say that I wanted at least 1.5 times more, and they cut it off.

I see the opinion that women should not negotiate allowances, they shouldn't do it from women, and if women do, they cut them off.
What's going on with Dad in this case?

  • gender female
  • Age: 20s
  • Member: Universe Female Member
  • Member ID: 42482
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Kazu

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What is the correct answer depends on the other party and you.
I don't think people who ask complete strangers about it are not suitable for dating.

What you meet and do in a dating club is a relationship, a relationship.
As for how to spend a date, you should look at each other's situation and bring it to a reasonable place at that time.
There is a guideline of XNUMX hours in total for the early stages of dating when you don't know each other yet, but if you meet a few times, you will naturally be able to decide the date time of the day.

Regardless of gender, if you are not good at dating, I think it is better to use a customs where a third party decides the price, play time, and content.

I was once asked to increase my allowance.
She asked me, "I want to have only one partner, so could you match me with XX, the man who gives me the most allowances?"
I have a uniform amount of allowance, so I didn't think it was good enough to double the allowance for that woman and meet other women twice, so I declined.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/21 09:40
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Seattle

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If you're going to earn even a little, it's negotiating, and if you're going to do your best within a range that doesn't burden you, just leave it to me and cut off the bad guys.

If I were a woman, I would only continue with fun people, and if I can't fix the burden of poverty, I'd cut it off.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/21 07:18
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Nana Ayase

What kind of relationship are you looking for?
I don't want to negotiate allowances as much as possible because there is an awkward atmosphere, and it's especially difficult for women.
☆ In my case, after we both like each other and negotiate for allowances (amount, time, whether it is possible to travel, etc.), I never say anything.
Because it was decided at the beginning, and I think it's quite normal for the content of H to escalate.

I think it's smart to get more men first, but am I wrong?
☆ Please say that you can't do what you can't do.
If you get a man to increase it Please be very happy.

Not only the questioner, women and men who are active as dads
i want to say to all
Daddy life is not a customs It's a heartfelt relationship Let's think of it as lucky to have a heartfelt relationship + allowance.
If you think so, you won't be able to say that this kind of money is money.
So ladies, instead of money not telling you
If you don't like it, please tell me you can't do it. (resolutely).

  • Answer date: 2023/07/21 09:50
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Paper

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I think that in a normal relationship between men and women, men smartly entertain women.

If you try to enjoy that kind of relationship with daddy activity through money, I think that men will continue to entertain women more and more smartly.

On the other hand, I think it's unique to papa katsu, and it's different from men and women dating, because I'm giving you an allowance, so I'm going to have a good time with women.


In the former case, men will continue to pay attention to things that make women more fulfilled, so women will continue to be satisfied more naturally and easily without being bothered by it.

If it's the latter, I think men can switch to the next woman at any time depending on the woman, so I think the fish they catch won't be fun without being fed.
If the conditions were to treat other men as rivals, I think both sides would feel more connected with each other through money.


I think it depends on who you ask which man you choose.


In my case, I have been a member of the club for many years, but I have never talked about allowances or such conditions from the beginning.
I think that a relationship of mutual trust is more important than the conditions.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/21 05:34
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date ◎ dream

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Good question.

What kind of relationship do men and women want, not limited to dating clubs?
It would be nice if they were consistent, but there will be differences.
I think it's the same for married couples, lovers, and dating clubs.

The relationship of the dating club is through money,
I think it's just making it possible to date women who can hardly meet or who are impossible age differences.

I think you have no choice but to decide a certain line within yourself and have a relationship while talking (negotiating) with each other.
It's difficult because each person has a different line, but I think that's what socializing is all about.
In any case, if it's not a fun relationship, I think "farewell" is also "yes".
Even legally binding marriages can get divorced.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/21 06:54
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Early

I haven't decided on the details, I've never negotiated, I've never offered or forced any terms that could possibly be negotiated.
I think I was able to escort the woman smartly, but I never thought I would be stingy with my allowance.
Rather, if it's an important opponent, it will increase without permission.
Even so, my economic power is the upper limit, but my economic power is still developing, so I will grow.

However, the important thing is whether I am a good woman or not, so I don't think it should be the same for all women.
For the first time, I'll do my best to show you hospitality, but if you're not a good partner, it won't last, so naturally I won't be rude from the beginning.
There is an argument that men should be smart, but I think it can't be helped unless the woman deserves it.
It's a dating club, so if it's a relationship, it's basically equal, so I think it's necessary to be considerate of each other rather than which one, but most people don't seem to be like that.
That's why I thought I quit the club, and I didn't think about it.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/21 08:14

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