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Question date: 2023/07/10 17:49

If I have a letter date, do I have to meet afterward?
I'm thinking of refusing because the conditions don't match, but is that okay?

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It is up to the person asking the question to refuse without meeting the conditions.

However, in the future, I recommend that you discuss the conditions after meeting.

This is because some people don't like being asked about benefits during a letter date exchange.

Regarding the allowance, wait until there is a proposal from the man's side, and report to the club only when you actually date and do not receive the allowance until the end.

Also, at that time, you should lower the evaluation of men as hard as you can.

Even though I can't get an allowance, I understand the feeling that I don't want to go out with my uncle.

However, I think that the person who gives the allowance should be smart, but I also want the person who receives it to be smart.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/10 22:21
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In letter dating, if there is more than one round trip between each other, the basics are free love after that.
You are free to meet or not.

By knowing the conditions of the allowance in advance, men also
It is often used by Sekoi people who want to save money on meals with people who do not meet their conditions.

So,
If there is a good deviation value for male members
A man who applied for a letter date
I think that it is better to think that the deviation value is about 40 or less.

Of course there are exceptions
I think it would be better to see what kind of text is sent

Like the person asking this question
If you suddenly receive a request for medical care
I'm a man looking for someone who will accept even a low allowance

It is normal to refuse.

Men can also eat, conversation is fun, and if the selection of shops is good
What are you doing when you have the chance?
No matter how far you go, if you think about it as an extension of the dating system, it's no good.
I think

I'm sure no one would say that.
I would say
(However, it is the same that it is difficult to say ...)

I got off topic
So in this case
I think you should reply that you can't meet because the conditions don't match.

Also, as a note for future
For letter dates, like when you were a bad guy after meeting
If you ignore the block, a report will come to the club
The staff will think that there is a problem with the character of the woman, so

Please give a proper refusal at least once.
However, if you persistently send me
Can I block the staff?
Block after hearing a word

I think that's the trick so that the staff won't think it's weird.

It's okay to ignore blocks after a real date
It's a little confusing when it comes to letter dates.



  • Answer date: 2023/07/10 18:09
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Another advantage of letter dating is that you can make a decision without meeting from the letter.


In addition, I have never talked about conditions in the exchange of letter dates.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/10 23:06
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Seattle

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No problem at all.
Rather, it is an advantage that you can refuse each other early without wasting time before meeting.

  • Answer date: 2023/07/10 17:52