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    Even in an adult relationship, the sense of distance does not shrink easily.
    Even when sitting on the sofa, sit at a distance of one person...

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Question date: 2022/09/25 20:12

I'm a man in his 50s.
Even in an adult relationship, the sense of distance does not shrink easily.
Even when I sit on the sofa, I sit at a distance of one person. If you don't say "Come on", you won't close the gap.

I understand that you are looking for money, but personally, I go to the dentist to maintain my body through sports, to prevent body odor, to remove hair, and to prevent bad breath.I'm not perfect, but I'm trying.

I want to talk slowly on the sofa, not just about physical relationships, but I can't get enough time.
When I sit on the sofa, I feel like she wants to go home as soon as possible, like "Hey, let's put hot water in the bath!"

I wonder if I can really close the distance with this person and become friends.
There are times when I feel annoyed because I feel like I'm partitioning the flow.

Once, when I asked, "Do you have to hurry home?"
It's 7 each time, so how about being so busy?I feel.

Am I inexperienced, expecting a relaxing sofa talk time?

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  • Age: 50s
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Phosphorus

You don't want to talk slowly on the sofa.
Why don't you try dating other women for the time being and see how other women are doing?

If it's 7 every time, shouldn't I be busy?
At 7 each time, it may be too busy for the woman.
Of course, there are people who give more than that, so it's 7 every time, so I'm sure they'll be OK with anything.I wonder if the place I'm thinking about is first.

Since it is said that he is caring, isn't it a person with such a bad impression?I think, but I have never met the questioner, so I don't know.
But I think it's good to be taken care of, so I hope I can continue to do so.
I hope you can find someone you can have a relationship with without any difficulty.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 20:32
Male member

Die

I feel like it's because I'm annoyed that I'm getting XNUMX every time.

I don't think any woman would approach a man who is frustrated.

Even if you don't notice it yourself, the other woman is sensitive to it.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 20:18
Male member

Losing man

10 each time doesn't seem to change the result.

In the first place, sitting sideways on the sofa is no good.
I can't sit next to a child who gives 20 each time on the sofa.

The farther you sit, the closer your mind becomes, and the closer you sit, the more your mind becomes more distant.

If you stick to your dad, the distance will shrink, and if you put a man out, the distance will open.

This is basic, but the questioner is doing the opposite, right?
It's useless if you don't hit the basics.Even I, who is accustomed to persuading girls, seldom do the extreme application of sitting next to me on the sofa.

Let's do more research into women's hearts.There is so much you can do.I'm completely unprepared.

Nampa is science.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 20:35
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Maezawa (Staff)

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> Am I inexperienced in my expectations?

It's not the lack of experience that I'm hoping for
I feel that the behavior in the hotel is inexperienced.

First of all, the questioner did not go as he expected.
neither advanced nor intermediate
I think you should realize that you are almost a beginner.

Nevertheless,

"Because it's 7 each time"
"I'm not perfect, but I'm trying."

Arrogant thinking is everywhere
I think it would be painful to talk to this person.

"Maybe it's because I can only raise 7 each time."
“Is there anything difficult with just hard work?”

I want you to always have that kind of humility.

On top of that, as a beginner's method

I want to talk time for 10 minutes after the act
Only there, please.

if you tell
Women are not demons.

Can I serve you for about 10 minutes?
should respond.

And if you think women are having fun in those 10 minutes
I think the conversation will be lively even after 10 minutes.

unless you think women are happy
I think the woman will stand up in just about 10 minutes.

Since I am a beginner, I think that it will probably end in just 10 minutes.
We recommend that you increase your experience points by repeating that 10 minutes.


>When I sit on the sofa, I feel like "Hey, let's put hot water in the bath!"

I think you have some kind of problem with your question.
I don't know what
I can clearly feel that he doesn't want to sit on the sofa with me.

It might be best to find out why.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 21:19
Female member

Aya

If you care so much about your appearance, then I think it's a matter of compatibility.

My father is also prone to rejection, or rather, he's the type who is often drawn to him because he's a mysterious, science-oriented boy.

This is a true story I heard from my dad, but when I took off my wedding ring on a date, he was thought to be a "single love daddy" and ran away.

But for some reason I was drawn to that kind of place.It was sexy when I took it off, and it was too compatible with my body, but I liked how it was normal and gentle.That kindness seemed disgusting to other girls, but from my point of view, "I have no eyes for it."You're such a good dad.

Therefore, I recommend that the questioner keep making offers until he meets a good match.It might be a good idea to make it black and ask the concierge for advice.My dad seems to have offered me that.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 21:23
Female member

Nana Ayase

How many months have you been dating?

If it's been like this for months, please say goodbye

I don't think we can get along.

It's not good to choose by face and youth.

I think it would be better for you to get to know yourself.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 20:18
Female member

Camellia

If you think "Even though it's 7 every time..."
Among the questioners, there is no value for that
Are you starting to wonder?

Instead of saying "Come on"
Try filling in the space for one person by yourself,
Try telling him "I want to talk slowly today"
Why don't you take a look at that kind of thing?

If you still can't get along
Give up and find another child who can speak slowly.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 20:33
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date ◎ dream

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Today's answer is good (laughs)
In particular,
Vote for Dai!
>I think it's because I'm getting irritated even though I'm putting out XNUMX every time.
It's good It's good (laughs)

Lynn's
>You don't want to talk slowly on the sofa.
This is also good (laughs)

loser's
> If you stick to your dad, the distance will shrink, and if you put a man out, the distance will open.
This is a masterpiece.

I
Well, that's right.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 21:07
Male member

Early

As Aya-san said, I think it would be more productive to keep making offers until you find someone who fits your ideals, rather than going out with an irritating partner.
Looking at your question, I don't think there is a difference.

Also, 7 each time is not that big of a difference, and with that in mind, I don't give the other child the same amount or more.
Perhaps the difference is the difference between the attitude I am receiving and the attitude the questioner is receiving.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/26 06:14
Male member

Kazu

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Is it a matter of experience?

I thought that the questioner's desires and inner feelings were a burden for women, not about body shape or bad breath.

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 20:21
Male member

Fuu

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Is it because of women?
from the point of view of the questioner
Is it sex or looks pretty good?

Because I get irritated because I think against one person
Other offers to experience other women
How about a tub?

One of my regulars is still the same even after 1 years.
I feel, maybe I'm not good at flirting, I'm not good at it
Pretty face, good style, tight-fitting
Adults don't cut corners, but they don't talk like that
No pillow talk.But that's fine.
i am satisfied
I take it as the personality of the woman.
If you shorten the distance strangely, you will say goodbye, the level where I will be cut
is the appearance of

Another regular woman walks and holds hands
(Sometimes I shake it off because I want it to stop lol)
I talk a lot, I can't go home
I say let's go to karaoke when I'm done growing up
Ordinary face, ordinary style
But there's charm, and adults don't have tech
It's fun because it's erotic and it goes crazy

It would be great if you had both
There is no such perfect woman, so in multiple relationships
Wouldn't it be nice if you enjoyed it?

The latter woman is aiming and offering many times
I finally found you.sorry for my pride

  • Answer date: 2022/09/26 02:50
Male member

Paper

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I think that is what you are asking.I can't do more.


Papa-katsu doesn't become a male-female itinerary, so it won't go any further.


I think you have a big problem with your question.Especially the atmosphere and smell at the beginning.



Anyway

>Even when I sit on the sofa, I sit at a distance of one person.

If you go to a love hotel, if you sit down, it's perfect for two people, isn't it? ?

  • Answer date: 2022/09/25 21:37