2018/6/16
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"If you don't want to show your true face, you can hide it." The Importance of Controlling Yourself

The best part of her dress

Hello, I'm Natsuyuki.

I was watching a movie the other day, do you know the movie "The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo"?

The original book "Millennium" has been remade into a movie in Hollywood.

The leading lady in the story is an emo, with full body tattoos, full of piercings, jet black hair, skinny clothes, and black clothes.

He's blunt and doesn't smile, eats only junk food like hamburgers, has rough sex, rides around on a motorcycle, and is a lone wolf...

A woman who looks like a character in a punk band.An image comes to mind, right?

So, after that, I was curious about the actress and did some research, and found out that she has also appeared in another movie, but the character is completely different.

As for what kind of character she appeared in, she played the role of a sharp female college student who seems to be able to use SNS and seems to be quick-witted (and it seems that she was set to be the main character, "she"...), and the movie "" It will appear on Social Networks.

Speaking of her here, she's a college student with a standard build, and looks like she's wearing a plain shirt and jeans, and doesn't really stand out.

It's clean, it's plain, it's that kind of impression.

What is surprising here is that the same person plays the two women who appear in these two works with completely different impressions.

If you don't look into it, you won't even notice that these two are the same person.

Or rather, her personality in each movie was so natural that it really made her look like a different person.
 

The "ultimate person" who becomes the target of men's admiration

And why am I telling you this story?

This is because I came to the conclusion that women, especially women who are working as dads, also have this “ability to become” in some way, and that they are controlling them on a daily basis.

As for what I can become, of course, I am an “ideal woman”.

That “ideal” is the pinnacle of my ideals, and the “ultimate person” that men admire.

Maybe it's acting, it's work, and it's just who I am.

For example, if you look at hostesses and hosts, popular casts that sell well have different acting skills.

Both of them have their faces neatly made, wear dresses, and have their hair set.

If you have an ideal appearance, you can become that person.

Here, their masquerade technique is to skillfully determine the personality of the person they serve and change their own character.

For those who are strong-willed, I try to be good at it.

I will carefully apply the bush by identifying the points where the opposite sex is tickled.

Control your character and control your opponent at the same time.

If you gradually draw customers in at our pace, you can serve customers that lead to repeat customers. This is their professional skill.
 

have two faces.

What is very useful here is the "source name".

With or without the Minamoto name, the degree of perfection in becoming the person completely changes emotionally.

I have two faces too.

Natsuyuki used to be a hostess before, so she still cherishes the name she received at that time.

One is my real name: my face that my parents know since I was little.

The other is the Genmei self: the new self that was born when I had the Genmei name.

In my case, my real name is "I walk the white path", and my Minamoto name is "I walk the black path".

For me, it's no longer acting, but each self, both being themselves.

My real name is White, I was a very serious person who liked studying, obedient to my parents, and was a hard-working type with excellent grades.

Actually, Natsuyuki, I've always had a complex about myself since I was a student.

He is the kind of person who does not disobey his parents, does not rebel, and just goes about his life quietly so as not to betray his parents' expectations.

Even now, when I go back to my parents' house, my real name, my "original self" appears, and I can't reveal everything, and I become quiet.

Meanwhile, I graduated from university and moved to Tokyo.

I left the fences I used to have and started to decide my own path.

For me, receiving the Genmei name and becoming a new person means liberation from the complex I had.

Another me, who was born with the name of Genji, has become able to express my true feelings and emotions straight.

I don't care what others think about me, I find what I want to do day or night and go ahead with my life.

Black without fear.

I feel like I can now be more confident and myself if I go on living under the name of Genji.
 

The key is balance and control.

It is when I meet my friends that I am convinced of my two selves.

When I meet my friends and family who I had a relationship with before I was a student, my "white self" comes out, and when I meet friends and work people who I started dating after becoming a hostess, I see my "black self". comes out.

Those who know my "white face" do not know my "black face", and those who know my "black face" know my "white face". not.

In this way, Natsuyuki also has two faces.

And I'm enjoying my father life with this Gen-name Black.

Rather than acting, it's a natural appearance where you can be yourself freely and express your original emotions straight.

They enjoy dating with a little professionalism there.

In other words, even if something happens to the black self, the white self exists separately, so there is a place to escape.
 

I think humans are fine with that.


Even Mitsu Dan is a perfect actress who puts out such a sexy aura on TV and dresses sexy.

In my private life, I might be wearing a jersey in my room, eating botechi and playing Pokemon games.

Marilyn Monroe is also a big actress who was called a sex symbol, but contrary to her flashy and scandalous impression, when she returns to her true self instead of "Marilyn Monroe", she prefers a very neat and quiet simple life. It seems that I was sending it.

Everyone has a work face, a real face, and two or more faces.

The key is balance and control.

Finally, there is a series of books I like called "Makan Raman".

Mr. Sharl, who has suffered from a serious illness, has been a nuisance, and has lived a variety of lives, was moved by the deep meaning of this word hustle.


"If you don't want to show your true face, you can hide it. This world isn't sweet enough to live with your true feelings."
 

Hasn't the way you challenged dad life and the way you set your mind a little changed?



Xia Xue

Writers: 
Hello, I'm Natsuyuki. "Snow that falls in the summer" is somewhat strong, ephemeral, fantastic, and outlaw image... I think women in their XNUMXs like me are such a living thing.I would be happy if you could look forward to reading such a neat post written by Natsuyuki.By the way, my favorite saying is "The secret is to make a woman beautiful."You got a little nervous, didn't you? *

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