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Is it okay to interpret the fact that she wants to be raw, that she takes responsibility even if she gets pregnant and that it's okay to give birth?

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Thank you very much for your question.

I would like to share with you one of the words of Lincoln, the 16th President of the United States.

"If you meet a dog on a narrow road, it is wiser to give way to it than to claim your rights and be bitten. Even if you kill the dog, the bite will not heal."

Certainly, if you say "I want to be raw", you should be prepared to take responsibility as the questioner originally said.

However, almost no one is prepared to take responsibility in reality.Moreover, there is no problem in thinking that the possibility that a man you meet through a service like Universe has that sense of responsibility is almost zero.

Then, if you get pregnant and give birth in such a situation, who will have a hard time?

If you ask me which one is worse, I will immediately answer that men are worse, but it doesn't really matter which one.Even if the man is sentenced to death for the crime, it is the questioner who will suffer.

This is the same even if the other man says "take responsibility".Such verbal promises mean nothing.

It's all well and good to defend yourself, but even friends who comfort you by saying, "You're not to blame," won't pay for you.

Think about which one is better, not which one is correct.