2023/1/25
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Balancing boyfriend and dad life

Hello, this is Bell (*´ω`)♪

a happy New year! !

Right now, I am spending the New Year in Vietnam, leaving Japan (*^-^*)

This article that I wrote every week was also closed due to vacation.

I will write again from today (/・ω・)/

 

By the way, what I want to talk about this time is "Balance between boyfriend and dad life".

Right now, I'm in Vietnam to meet someone I like.

I came here to spend New Year's vacation with someone I like.

I am writing this article because I have time while he is working.

 

I've been good friends with him for 12 years, so he knows that I was the No. 1 hostess in Ginza.

I didn't see him at all while he was married, but by chance I met him again.

We kept in touch and met frequently.

I say ``frequently'' but he lives in Vietnam so it would be nice if I could see him every few months.

I am active as a dad for my own goals, but I am also active as a dad for the travel expenses to go to Vietnam.

Of course he doesn't know that I'm working as a dad.

We've been friends for 12 years, so we know each other, but the only thing I don't know is that I'm doing papa katsu.

I'm going to keep this hidden.

It's a long distance, so the probability of being caught is low, but he has a very good intuition, so you can't let your guard down.

 

Measures to prevent dad activities from being found out

First of all, I prepare a separate smartphone for my dad so that I don't have to worry if my smartphone is seen.

However, the contact information of my father, who I see frequently, is in private, so when I am in Vietnam,

I will never contact you and I will delete all LINE talk rooms.

When I go to Vietnam for a long time (1 week to XNUMX weeks), I tell my dad honestly that I am going to Vietnam.

If you say, "I'm going to take it easy in Vietnam♪", most dads won't contact me (laughs).

He is a kind and accomplished dad (≧▽≦) (laughs)

 

Next, don't tell him that you're going out or going out to eat.

When I go out with my friends, I sometimes tell them

I usually don't go out unless I have a plan, and he knows that watching Netflixs at home is a blissful time.

He never asked me what I was doing.

I don't get in touch with him every day, but every two or three days, so there's no way I'm bound (*^.^*)

 

If he lived nearby, I probably wouldn't have been doing daddy activities~~ I've had time to think about various things since I came here.

Suddenly, I thought about my dad life with him.

 

I wrote earlier that 'he has good intuition', because there were several passages that I thought so.

It seems that he has been cheated on by some ex-girlfriends, but he seems to have noticed everything.

A lot of men are unaware of this.

I think there is one thing that women are good at hiding, but even so, being able to see everything is

No more talent! ! !

As a result of knowing all the cheating, it seems that everyone was cheating on the ex-girlfriend (゚Д゚)

 

'Ignorance is Buddha' is like this.

I wonder why you know so much

I think what I learned from looking at him is that he has excellent powers of observation and a very good memory.

I used to be a hostess, so I also have good powers of observation and memory.

It's a good match level with me (laughs)

It is very rare and unusual for men to have such excellent observation and memory powers (';')

Looking at it, I feel that it is a complete female brain.

Well, I fell in love with him because of him (*´艸`) (laughs)

 

Because he has such a sharp intuition, I sometimes wonder how far he can see through me.

Well, even if I get caught, I have no physical relationship with my dad so far, so it's white.

I'm saying things that raise expectations for my dad, so if he sees what I'm talking about, I'm out (゚Д゚)

You can't even use "I'm just giving you hope" as an excuse.

 

When he casually looks at the time on my smartphone, he becomes impatient, like electricity running, saying "Yabai!"

If you're nervous like this

I came to see him and thought that it was for each other's sake to quit before he found out.

When I go back to Japan, I might change my mind (laughs).

If you've been cheated on a lot, you should naturally doubt me too.

It will be confusing if people mistakenly think I'm cheating on you, so I'm thinking that I'll finish it by the end of the year.

I'm doing daddy activities to pay for my trip to see him, but if daddy activities are found out, it's a total mistaking.

There is no point in being a dad www

I don't want to do such a wasteful thing, so I think I'll think about when I'm withdrawing soon.

Because it's not good to be too greedy.

``He who chases two rabbits catches neither'' is an old saying, so don't let that happen.

 

I'm enjoying my time with him now, and when I get back to Japan, I'll think about how I'm going to behave (*´ω`)

I think I'll write another article when my thoughts and thoughts are organized ♪

 

Writers: 
2nd year as a dad, late 30s. In my twenties, I was No. 20 hostess in Ginza. At the age of 1, he left Ginza and had a lot of things to do, such as breaking off his engagement, and since then he has been working as a dad only for rice.

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