Anyway, you can't miss Obon.
To all the women who are working as dads.
How do you beat the heat every day?To begin with, I feel like I'll be fine in this heat.
And when the weather gets hotter, your electricity bill increases every month.
When that happens, our lives naturally become more and more compressed, and we become unable to buy the things we want to buy, which increases the amount of patience we have to endure.
I'm sure there are many women who are working as dads just to get there.
There is money that always comes out every month.
Of course, there are utility costs such as electricity and rent as mentioned above.
You could say that it is a very important lifeline in daily life.
Needless to say, being a dad has now become an essential lifeline in my life.
Now, in Japan, where everything is rising, including soaring prices, in order for women to live as stress-free as before, they need to earn an appropriate income.
For me, it's about being a dad.
For fathers, the Obon holiday is the time to earn money.
Why?This is because the Obon holiday means that all women who work during the day can easily take time off.
I actually have a lot of things to do during the day.
Considering my age, it would be unreasonable to say that my future depends solely on being a father, so I have to think about a lot of things.
However, you can't eat just that.
Most of my income comes from being a dad, and I use the money I earn from that to invest in my future.
I think there are probably many women who are similar.
However, this daytime job is a little different during the Obon holidays.
Basically, all domestic companies tend to take time off, and in my opinion it's easy to create an environment where you can concentrate 100% on your father's life.
If you are a woman who works as an office lady during the day and is a father in your spare time, there is no way you can use this Obon holiday.
For women who work during the day, the Obon holiday is a period that they should never miss.
How can you use the Obon holiday to improve your father's life?
I'll talk about my experience.
Most of the men I have real-time contracts with are over 60 years old.
Do you know what this means?Surprisingly, men of this age have a lot of free time during the Obon holiday.
In other words, if you make a schedule with a man over the age of 60 before the Obon holidays each year, there is a high probability that you will make a lot of money.
That's why, if you don't have a contract yet, you can even do a simple contract before the Obon holidays, so it's highly likely that things will turn out well.
Of course, if you are introduced to a man at a dating club and you like him.
Many people are taking quite a long break this year.
For that reason, using me as an example, it's easy to make plans with a lot of dads.
What do you do during the Obon holiday?
I'm trying to use this year's Obon holiday to try something new as a dad.
I've never done that before, but I'm going to take the initiative and make a request to my dad.
I'm sure that my father, with whom I have a contract, is intentionally planning his schedule to give priority to crowded places, such as overseas trips.
However, doing so would be disadvantageous for me.
The reason is, as I said earlier, it is my intention to meet as many dads as possible during the Obon holidays.
Besides, I can earn more money by meeting many dads than by staying with one dad for a long time.
With that in mind, I felt that it would be easier to conclude a contract and be more efficient, including time, if I specified everything from where I was going.
To be honest, making such a somewhat large-scale plan is not my father's life.
That's exactly who you meet on the first day, where you meet, what time you get home on the second day, and where you meet a different father the next day.We are planning to make a very detailed plan.
In other words, 70% of it is already completed.
I wish I could follow this path, but I'm a little worried.
First of all, one of the reasons for my anxiety is that I think that being a dad is a service industry.
So, of course, you have to provide the same service to every dad, and you should never behave in a way that makes the other person uncomfortable.
In a normal life as a father, there is often a gap of several days between fathers and different fathers.
Therefore, it is easy to switch on your feelings.
However, in this attempt, will it be possible to make that switch instantly?is a very important part.
There are other concerns as well.
Will daddy let me go home soon?Shall we stay together for a few more days?Wouldn't that be a request?That's the point.
Honestly, I'm the kind of person who can't say no when asked.
It has always been that way.
When my dad asked me a request, my first reaction was to say, ``Thank you for always taking care of me,'' and I often ended up doing exactly what dad asked.
However, this plan would definitely not work if he had that kind of personality.
That's why I've told all the dads I'm planning to meet during the Obon holidays that I can't change their schedules, and I'm going to be heartbroken.
Every dad is important to me.
But for me, being a dad is a business.
That's why I want to make a clear cut.
In addition, as I briefly touched on above, daily life is changing little by little due to rising utility bills and soaring prices.
Of course, if I talk to my dad, I think he can increase my allowance a little.
However, I don't want to request that.
The reason for this is that I think it would be unreasonable for me to raise prices since I am not fully committed to being a dad, and my stance is to continue working as a dad while working a day job. (Even if that means that most of your living comes from being a dad.)
For that reason, I basically want to manage within the rules that I decided with my dad at the beginning. (maybe there is also pride)
That's why you can't miss the time when you can earn money, such as during the Obon holidays, even if you don't change the amount of money.
By all means, why don't you all think about being a dad during this year's Obon holiday?How was I?I would appreciate it if you could continue to share your thoughts here.