It is difficult to judge whether to see the surroundings as rivals

Recently, I have the impression that the number of women, including friends around them, has increased significantly.

Until now, a child who had only worked in the daytime suddenly started to carry only branded items, and he definitely couldn't do that job, right?fashion.

To be honest, if it changes that much, it's easy to understand, or even I feel a little guilty for talking about dad life.

But come to think of it, it's true that there are many children who are like that.

After all, even if you get 25 in take-home pay from your daytime job, will you be able to secure yourself with branded goods?100% impossible when asked.

And the longer the daytime OL business, the more women who have suppressed material desires.

It's a dad life, and the monthly money is plus.

Then you will be able to get your hands on what used to be a high-level flower unexpectedly easily.

It goes without saying that the brakes will not work.

Then people want to have a little fun.

Even if you are working as an OL in the daytime, you can't earn the amount you want.

On the contrary, the money that can be earned by being overworked and paying attention to those around you is normal.

To be honest, if you do dad activities, some women can earn a monthly salary for an OL job in two days. (There is no end to it if you look up.)

It's only natural that a daytime job would be ridiculous.

However, I recently had an idea.

It feels like the number of generous dads has decreased.

In terms of dating clubs, such as before corona, it was easy to meet to some extent.

But these days, the number of contracts with favorable conditions is not zero, but compared to a few years ago, I think it's clearly decreased.

One of the reasons may be that the male side has come to notice, but one of the other reasons is that the number of women who are active as dads has increased considerably, so the balance between men and women has become strange.I felt.

If that happens, the men will also recognize themselves as a valuable existence, so there is no need to go that far and sign a good contract with a woman.

After all, there are so many women who have registered with dating clubs, right?It should be easy to say that it's not you.

I was made to think a lot about it by talking about it with my friends around me.

Is it better to see other dad active women as rivals?please?Pretty important, don't you think?If you see them as rivals, women will have to make more efforts to be liked by men than they are now.

In other words, competition will intensify.

However, if you don't see them as rivals, there will be no pressure between the women. I should be able to send it.

In the first place, dad life is different from a normal occupation.

There is no boss to yourself, and if something happens, you have to take responsibility yourself.

That's why, if you see the women around you as rivals, it's possible that more women will start doing dirty things.

If I were to give an example, in order to get a contract with good conditions, I would start doing things I didn't want to do with a smile. (Sexual abnormal play, etc.)

From the men's point of view, the division between women is becoming lower, so there is a possibility that more men will ask for strange things like "Is this possible?"

So far, as far as I can see, I don't see that trend, but it's just a future story.

People around me say that I think too much, but for someone like me who makes dad life my main job, there is a possibility that it will develop into a life-and-death problem.

That's why I haven't been able to promote my dad activities to that extent recently.

What is it? It may be that the feeling of not wanting to take your own customers is born.

In fact, there are quite a few friends around me who have started dad activities, and some of them have even changed their personalities.

There are even children who make fun of their daytime occupations.

What if I didn't pursue daddy life in the sense that it would be great if I could earn money, but if my life was difficult and I didn't have time to spare?I was going to proceed with it at the entrance, but I never thought that I would turn into a person who lacks respect for women who work hard during the day.

I was personally very disappointed. (If you pay attention to it normally, you'll understand.)

Papa activities can change people, so it is necessary to be aware of "what do you want to do?"

Is it because the number of women working as dads has increased?I have a question for my dad.

i don't drink alcohol

However, I feel like I've been getting more and more requests from my dad recently, like, "Did another child learn to drink?"

Maybe I feel that way because I'm a little nervous.

I've never been told that before.

First of all, it's not that I can't drink alcohol.

In dad life, I just don't drink.

I feel that I have to serve my father, and I think that if I get drunk and do something rude, I judge that I shouldn't drink. , I just keep saying "I don't drink".

However, up until now, I hadn't done anything to promote alcohol to someone like me, who doesn't go out with my dad.

It may have just happened to be a coincidence, but I was told almost at the same time by two of my contracted papas.

Perhaps, because I was talking about contracting with another woman before, I wonder if that girl and I were weighed against each other?I simply thought.

Apart from that, that's fine.

I have my own individuality, and I've used that individuality as a selling point to keep myself alive as a dad.

Men have the right to choose women.

But remember.

If your contracted dad asks you to do something you can't do, refuse.

And don't lower the hurdles for yourself.

That's also an important factor in one dad life.