How to take care of a papa katsu woman for a long time

 

have an attitude of acceptance

Most men who are fathers have generous hearts.

This is rare that a papa katsu woman holds onto a man.

How is it actually?Are you open-minded?I?When asked, I wonder how it is.

That's what I really think.

Generosity has various meanings, and there are various ways of perceiving it.

For example, let's say you find a girl you like.

Let's say the woman asks us to switch to another man.

What would you do then?Do you see them off with a big heart and a smile?If it were me, I'd probably send him off with a slightly disgusted look on his face.

Suppose a woman lies to us and asks for a temporary allowance even though she doesn't need it.

And when the lie is revealed, can you be generous and smile and forgive?If it were me, I would probably cancel the contract before I smiled.

In the first place, rather than paying a lot of allowance, I was more shocked that I was lied to, and I don't feel like I can get along with that woman later.

So I am thinking of canceling the contract.

What I want to say is that talking about men having a generous heart is very convenient for women.

However, in order to have a long and happy relationship with a woman who is a daddy, it will not work unless we are ready to accept it to some extent.

"Readiness to accept = first step to becoming a dad.” You have to keep this in mind.

So, do you really need to keep an open mind when you become a dad?

To be honest, it is impossible to maintain a generous heart.

This is what I really thought when I became a dad.

For women who work as dads, it is necessary to give them the feeling that ``my dad is kind'' or ``the feeling that he can forgive anything''.

If this is a short-term contract (about XNUMX months) and the other party is a pretty girl, most men might be able to put up with it.

However, in the long run, it becomes unreasonable, and I think that there are many patterns of contract cancellation.

But why do such phenomena occur?As I mentioned earlier, it seems that the reason for this is the word "generous heart."

Women are also human beings, so there are many patterns in which they become dependent on others, and when anything comes true, there is no limit to what they can do, and they make more and more requests.

The so-called desire to come true is getting more and more swollen.

Then, the phenomenon that what I have endured until now explodes in my dad life.

Then, for example, it means that it becomes a character like Paris Hilton.

Women refuse everything if they have even the slightest objection.

However, all requests from women should be swallowed by men.

No matter how you look at it, it's a slave king relationship.

Some people can tolerate it for a short period of time.

However, there are many men who think that it is a boulder when it comes to the long term.

So what should we do?

In the first place, I don't think men need to understand the "generous heart" part so deeply.

Ordinarily, it is fine to treat women gently and gently, and men should also refuse if they feel that this is unreasonable.

I think this is important.

In the first place, when you hear the word “generous heart”, men will misunderstand that you can’t say no or that you can forgive anything.

However, a generous heart is basically a big instrumental story, and it is not a story about giving in to pressure from women.

The male side is prepared to accept it, but if we accept it, there will be no merit here, so we cannot make a contract.

You should think of it this way.

Papa-katsu is a kind of business.

So, from a business point of view, a win-win relationship is ideal.

For some reason, however, when it comes to dad activities, there are many cases where only “profits for women” can be considered.

From a business point of view, it's easy to see that it won't last long.

It's just that men are really a lot of cases to accept this.

That's why there are so many patterns where women have the wrong perception that this is normal.

I've had a lot of those experiences too.

And I have the experience of putting up with women and accumulating stress.

However, it is not "become a dad = endure".

“Becoming a dad = having fun with women” is the correct answer.

For that reason, it is necessary to think about the contents of the contract that will be profitable for the woman side and that will be beneficial for this side as well.

For example, let's meet at least 6 times a month.

We issue this allowance for six times a month.

If this only meets 4 times, lower the amount.

Suppose you have a contract like this.

In fact, you should never spoil a woman and pay her the same amount as if you met her six times, even though you only met her four times.

This does not mean that you have a generous heart.

He's just a sweet uncle.

For example, let's say that the other party kept their promise and met six times.

So, when I see a woman struggling, I understand and give her an allowance.

Isn't this what a man with a generous heart deserves?

What I want to say is that it is a story after keeping the promise firmly.

Even around me, I get a lot of advice like, "Should I pretend not to see this, forgive me, and watch over me kindly?"

However, most of them feel that "Isn't it okay to get angry?"

In my case, I basically say, ``If you don't understand what you're doing wrong, you're wrong, so let's terminate the contract.''

But if you ask me if it went in the wrong direction, it's not.

Of course, there were times when the woman got in a bad mood and the contract was canceled, but when I treated the woman with a firm "resolute attitude", only the woman who lasted for a long time actually remained.

This is just my example, so it may not be the same for everyone.

But I want you to know that there are actual examples of people saying that, and since I've become a dad, there's no need for me to say, "I can forgive anything" even if I'm wrong.

From what I've seen, I don't hear stories about ``having a long and good relationship with a man,'' limited to papa-katsu-women who misunderstand that they'll forgive anything. (This is the same thing that I heard when I heard the story of a female daddy friend with whom I have a contract.)

So, to all the men who are thinking of becoming dads in the future.

I want you to understand that being a dad doesn't mean forgiving anything.

Besides, if you forgive everything, you won't be able to enjoy being a dad.

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