Allowance is a dad's pride - Stories of 20 women who receive allowances

Meeting in a private sushi restaurant in Nagoya

I first met her at a private sushi restaurant near Nagoya Station. She was a member of the Black Class of the Universe Club. Her profile picture wasn't that great, but..."Celebrity"I only made the offer because I reacted to the words, so I didn't have high expectations.

The moment I saw her at the meeting place, I was speechless.

She was overwhelmingly more beautiful than in the videos or photos. In fact, even the word "beautiful" seemed trite. She was just under 170cm tall, with a slender figure and translucent white skin. Her large, deep-set eyes seemed to draw you in, and her straight nose made her face as perfect as a doll's. She was 20 years old at the time, and while she still retained a certain innocence, she exuded the sex appeal of a grown woman.

"Celebrities are amazing."

I couldn't help but mutter this to myself. I thought that the celebrities I saw on TV and in magazines only looked beautiful through a screen. I thought it was because of the lighting, makeup, and camera angles. But the girl in front of me possessed a natural beauty that didn't require any such adjustments. In fact, as I would later find out, she wasn't yet affiliated with an entertainment agency and had just begun her career as a model.

We were shown to a private room and sat across from each other. She looked a little nervous as she looked over the menu. Even her mannerisms were picturesque. I was financially well off, but my work schedule meant I had no time for romance. Or, to be precise, I didn't have the energy to make time. The sugar daddy relationship was convenient for me. If I paid, I could spend time with a beautiful woman without any complicated maneuvering. That's how I saw it.

"What do you like?" I asked. She thought for a moment and then said,I like salmon and sea urchin" He replied. His voice was also beautiful. It was clear, yet slightly husky, and very pleasant to the ear. I asked the chef for his recommended course, with plenty of salmon and sea urchin.

The conversation was awkward at first, but gradually we opened up. She said she continues to work part-time while pursuing her entertainment career. She gradually opened up about herself, telling me that she is from the countryside and moved to Tokyo with the aim of going into the entertainment industry, but things didn't work out and she returned to Nagoya, that she keeps a little distance from her parents' home, and that her dream is to appear in a major production as an actress.

We then began talking about why she was engaging in sugar dating. Her expression clouded a little, but she spoke honestly. She said that she couldn't cover her living expenses with her entertainment activities alone, and that she didn't want to rely on her parents. However, she didn't have much time to do a regular part-time job, so she chose sugar dating, which was an efficient way to earn money.

As I listened to her story, I sensed a kind of strength within her. It wasn't just that she was good-looking. She had the inner strength to make rational choices for her dreams without worrying about what other people think. This was similar to the values ​​I hold dear when doing business.

After the meal was over and we paid the bill, I didn't invite her back to the hotel and just put her in a taxi and sent her home. Since she was a C-type, I could have invited her back to the hotel, but I didn't. I handed her 50,000 JPY in an envelope, saying it was for the taxi fare. She seemed a little surprised, but she bowed politely and accepted it.

"Can we meet again?" I asked, and she smiled a little and replied, "Yes, I'd love to." The moment I saw that smile, I knew I wanted to spend more time with her. It wasn't just a physical desire, it was a genuine interest in getting to know her better as a person.

Looking back, this day was the beginning of a long relationship.

I paid 80 yen for a 2-night, 3-day trip to Hokkaido without adults.

About two months after meeting her, I decided to take the plunge and invite her on a trip to Hokkaido.

Up until then, we'd met three times a month. We'd go out to eat, go for drives, and sometimes even have an adult relationship. I gave him 200,000 yen each time. The amount didn't change whether it was adult day or not. That was my rule, and my pride.

Spending time with her was always pleasant. We had lively conversations, we laughed constantly, and I never got tired of being with her. I was drawn to her not only by her beautiful appearance, but also by her inner self. She was strong-willed, yet honest, and sometimes showed a childish side. Being with her soothed my tired heart from work.

Hokkaido TripThe idea for this came to me out of nowhere during a meal one day. "Why don't we go to Hokkaido sometime?" I asked, and her eyes lit up. "Really? I want to go!" Seeing her reaction, I was glad I'd asked her out.

I planned all the trip.Sapporo, Otaru, FuranoThe trip was three days and two nights. I booked a city hotel in Sapporo and a hot spring inn in Furano. We traveled by rental car, and I also made a list of restaurants and cafes that I thought she would like.

On the day of departure, I met her at the airport, and although she was dressed casually, her beauty was as eye-catching as ever. We boarded the plane, attracting the attention of everyone around us.

New Chitose AirportWhen I got off the plane, the air there was cold, different from Nagoya. In October, autumn was already in full swing in Hokkaido, and the autumn leaves were beautiful. I rented a car and started off byOtaruHeaded to.

As we walked along the canal in Otaru, she was having fun like a child.Glasswork ShopWhen they entered, they cheered, saying it was beautiful.Music Box HallShe listened intently to various music boxes. Watching her like that, I could see her true face as a 20-year-old girl, different from the adult face she usually shows as a celebrity and a woman looking for a sugar daddy.

at nightSushi restaurant in OtaruWe had a meal there. The authentic sushi was exceptional, and my girlfriend was impressed, saying, "The sushi I had in Nagoya was delicious, but the sushi here is on a whole different level." I was satisfied just seeing her expression.

When we returned to the hotel in Sapporo and entered the room, she said with wide eyes, "This is the first time I've ever seen a room like this." It had a spacious living room and bedroom, and a large window with a panoramic view of Sapporo's nightscape. I didn't say anything in particular, but I had no intention of having an adult relationship on this trip. I told her I would let her use the bedroom and I would sleep on the sofa.

She seemed a little surprised, but said, "Thank you," and headed to the bedroom. As I watched her leave, I wondered to myself: Why didn't we have an adult relationship? The answer was simple. This trip wasn't about a relationship that could be bought with money, but because I simply wanted to have a good time with her.

The next dayFuranoWe headed to the area. The lavender fields had already finished blooming, but the autumn flowers were still in full bloom. She was taking pictures in the flower fields. It was like a photo shoot, and tourists passing by stopped to look.

at nightHot spring innWe stayed at a hotel with an attached open-air bath, which delighted her. Dinner was served in the room, and consisted of a sumptuous banquet menu featuring an abundance of Hokkaido's seafood and mountain produce. As we ate, she spoke passionately about her dreams. She said she wanted to appear in a major film someday and inspire many people. To achieve this, she was currently in the early stages of her career, and was using all the money she earned from sugar dating to invest in herself. She was taking acting lessons, dance lessons, and studying languages.

Seeing her earnest gaze, I realized once again that she was not just a girl looking for a sugar daddy, but a person with a clear goal. And I wanted to support her.

On the last day, before returning to Sapporo, we stopped at an observation deck and the view was breathtaking. The vast expanse of Hokkaido and the endless blue sky. She murmured, "I'm glad I came here." I felt the same way. As a token of my gratitude,Allowance 80 yenI didn't give the adults anything, but I thought it was reasonable to charge a celebrity, even if he wasn't famous, for two nights and three days.

If I told anyone around me, they would definitely call me stupid. But to me, this trip was worth more than the price. I got to see her true self, we created memories just for the two of us, and most importantly, she enjoyed herself so much. That made me happiest.

When we parted ways at the airport, she said with tears in her eyes, "Thank you so much. I'll never forget you." I also felt a little sad to say goodbye. But that's also the good thing about sugar dating. You can maintain a good relationship without relying on each other and while maintaining a reasonable distance. That's what I told myself.

After that, we went on dates three times a month for 20 yen each time.

Even after returning from the Hokkaido trip, we continued to meet regularly, three times a month, sometimes four times a month. The allowance remained the same.20 yen each timeThe amount remained the same whether we had an adult relationship or not.

The amount of the allowance was very important to me. It was a sign of respect for her, and also a source of my own pride. I couldn't imagine being satisfied with a woman for a small amount of money. On the contrary, giving her a large allowance made me feel like my business was successful.

In the culture of sugar dating, the amount of a man's allowance is, in a sense, a reflection of his market value. Between a man who pays 50,000 JPY per date and a man who pays 20 JPY per date, the latter is clearly more likely to be chosen by women. I believe this is not simply a difference in the amount of money, but a reflection of the man's financial power, his success, and his attitude of valuing women.

Of course, 200,000 yen is not cheap. If I met her three times a month, it would be 600,000 yen, or 7.2 million yen a year. But to me, it was an investment. Spending time with her soothed my work-weary mind and gave me energy for the next day. And more than anything, I felt that the time I spent with a beautiful, intelligent woman like her was worth it.

We met in a variety of places. Sometimes we ate at high-end restaurants in Nagoya, and sometimes we went as far as Tokyo or Osaka. Sometimes, at her request, we went to casual cafes or ramen shops. She had a surprisingly down-to-earth side, and said that always going to high-end restaurants would be boring.

One day, she said,I want to go to the amusement park" It may be a natural wish considering her age of 20, but going to an amusement park for a sugar daddy is unusual. However, I readily agreed, and on the next date,ナガシマスパーランドI decided to go.

The amusement park was relatively empty on a weekday, and the wait time was short. She seemed to like roller coasters, and wanted to ride them multiple times. I'm not good with thrilling rides, but I went along with her because I wanted to see her happy face. The view from the top of the Ferris wheel was beautiful, and she said, "I've always dreamed of going on a date like this since high school."

Hearing that, I felt a little conflicted. Maybe what she really wanted was a normal date like this. A pure romance with a boyfriend her own age, not a relationship with a rich daddy. But the reality was harsh. She needed money to pursue her dreams, and I was in a position to provide it.

After the amusement park, we headed to the hotel. We entered the room, and before the door had even closed, she passionately kissed me, our tongues entwined. Then she threw me down on the bed, took off my clothes, and gave me a passionate blowjob. Then, for the first time in our sex life, she straddled me without a condom, moving her hips passionately and occasionally kissing me passionately. Overwhelmed, I quickly couldn't take it anymore, and when I said, "No, I'm going to come," she said, "Come on. Come inside me!" And just like that, I released everything I had inside her.

Another day, she told me, "I don't want to do anything today. I just want to be with you." That day, I went to her room and we spent the time watching movies and chatting about trivial things. We didn't have an adult relationship. However, as I was leaving, I gave her 20 yen, as I usually do. She said, "I didn't do anything today," but I replied, "It's an allowance for spending time with you."

In fact, the time I spent with her was valuable to me, whether we were physically intimate or not. Talking to her, laughing with her, sharing time together. All of these things were meaningful to me. So I didn't change the amount of my allowance. That was my way of showing sincerity and respect for her.

Our three dates a month had become a part of the rhythm of my life. Whether I succeeded in a big project at work or felt down after a failure, seeing her cheered me up. She also told me about the joys and sorrows of her entertainment career: the joy of passing an audition, the disappointment of not getting a role, and the troubles she had with relationships.

Our relationship was moving beyond the framework of sugar dating and was changing into something else. But what that was, I wasn't sure at the time. It wasn't romance, it wasn't friendship, but it was definitely something special. I didn't yet have the words to define it.

After three breakups

In the context of sugar dating, the words "dating" and "breaking up" may not be appropriate. However, we did indeed break up and get back together three times. To be precise, I broke off my relationship with her three times, and we rekindled all three times.

The first breakup occurred six months after we met.

It all started with something trivial. At the appointed time, sheMore than an hour lateThe reason given was that he had been talking with a friend and had forgotten about it. He didn't contact me and didn't seem sorry. While I was waiting, I remembered that he had come in between work and felt annoyed.

But that was just a superficial reason. The real reason was that I had doubts about her as a person. During the date that day, she was rude to the waiters. She was careless in ordering, complained that the food was slow, and was rude to the waiters when paying the bill.There were no words of thanks.

When I judge people, I look at how they treat those in a weaker position than them. This is true in business as well as in life. They are friendly to those above them, but arrogant to those below them. Such people cannot be trusted. Seeing her attitude, I decided I didn't want to be with her.

At the end of the day, before we went to the hotel, I told her, "Today's the last day." She seemed surprised and asked why, but I didn't explain in detail. I just said, "I didn't think it was right to continue like this."

She cried and begged me to tell her what she had done wrong, but I hardened my heart and went home. She messaged me many times afterwards, but I didn't reply. I gave her my 20 yen allowance for that day. I thought that was the final straw.

However, two months later, she sent me a message saying, "I thought about what I did that day. I think it was about how I treated the store clerk. I'm truly sorry. I've been reviewing my behavior since then. Could we meet again?"

I read that message over and over again. She understood her mistake, admitted it, and apologized. That's not easy. Many people don't want to admit their mistakes and blame others. But she was different. So I decided to meet her again.

When we met again, she had clearly changed. She was polite to the store clerk,Words of gratitudeShe didn't forget to tell me that she was going to be with me. She even arrived 15 minutes before the appointed time. Seeing this change, I decided to resume our relationship.

The second breakup came a year later.

Just as her career in showbiz started to get on track, her attitude began to change again. As her social media following grew and she began to get small jobs, she gradually became more arrogant. She began to say things like, "I've been busy lately," and "It's hard because my fan base is growing."

The deciding factor was that she started talking about other daddies in front of me.I received this gift from someone else"That personThey'll give you 100 million yen a monthIt was clearly a ploy to get more money out of me.

I viewed sugar dating as a business, but at the same time, I expected honesty as a person. I had told her that other sugar daddies were OK, so it wasn't a problem, but I couldn't tolerate her trying to raise the price by bringing up other sugar daddies. It was a matter of personal integrity.

That day, I told her, "I don't want to see you anymore." This time, I also told her the reason: "I don't think it's right for you to bring up other sugar daddies and try to get more money from me. I don't mind sugar dating, but I don't like the way you do it."

This breakup lasted longer than the last. I didn't hear from her for six months. I didn't contact her either. To be honest, I thought we'd never see each other again.

However, six months later, she messaged me again. "I was really foolish back then. I relied on the sugar daddy relationship and trampled on your feelings. I only saw you as someone to give me money. But you saw me as a person. I'm truly sorry."

In that message, I sensed a deep remorse that was different from before. When I met her, she had really changed. She was humble, grateful, and most importantly, she never talked about money. I resumed my relationship with her again.

The third breakup came six months later.

The reason this time was a little different from the previous two times. She had become emotionally unstable due to stress at work, and she started taking out her anger on me.Just complainingHe would not listen to what I had to say and would sometimes get irrationally angry.

I listened to her and tried to support her, but when things got too much, I knew I had reached my limit. I told her, "I'm not meeting you to be an outlet for your stress," and cut off the relationship again.

Maybe this separation was necessary for both of us. She needed time to sort herself out, and I needed some distance.

Three months later, she contacted me: "I've started going to a clinic. I'm facing my problems. I was too dependent on you. I'm truly sorry." She continued, "I'm not asking you to meet again, but I hope you'll see that I've changed someday."

I was struck by her honesty. The third time, she didn't beg me to rekindle the relationship; she simply admitted her mistakes, apologized, and said she was trying to change, something not many others can do.

I met her and we got back together for the third time. That's when I realized. I didn't dump her three times because I hated her. It was the opposite. It was because I cared about her that I wanted her to grow as a person. And it was because she cared about our relationship that she made the effort to change herself.

I never expected such a deep connection to develop in a sugar daddy relationship. It was supposed to be a relationship connected by money, but before I knew it, it had become a relationship where we helped each other grow. It wasn't romantic, but it was certainly a special bond.

Now we are "comrades in arms"

And now, my relationship with her has evolved even further.

Her career in showbiz was progressing smoothly, and she was finally able to appear on television. It was a small production, but it was a big step for her. After that, the number of jobs continued to increase, and she finally graduated from sugar dating.

On the day of our last sugar daddy date, she told me, "I've decided to stop sugar daddying. Thank you so much for supporting me up to this point." I said, "Congratulations," and gave her 20 yen, just like I did that day. I knew this would truly be my last allowance.

But to my surprise, a month later she contacted me and said, "Would you like to go out to dinner with me? I'm not asking for an allowance or anything, I just want to meet up." I was a little confused, but I decided to meet up.

When I met her, she was as beautiful as ever. In fact, she was even more radiant than before. The confidence of a woman who had begun to grasp her dreams through her own efforts made her even more attractive. As we ate, she talked enthusiastically about her work. Then she said, "I wouldn't be who I am today without you."

"I think sugar dating usually ends up being a bad memory. But my time with you was different. I was getting paid, but at the same time, you taught me a lot of important things about being a person. When I was wrong, you got angry with me. You never abandoned me, and you gave me many chances. To me, you're more than just a daddy; you're like a senior in life, a comrade in arms."

Comrades in arms. That word perfectly described our relationship. Comrades who fought together. We experienced ups and downs, supported each other, and grew together. We were truly comrades in arms.

From that day on, our relationship entered a new stage. No allowance. Not even transportation expenses. We only meet when she wants to meet. I never ask her out. Still, she contacts me once or twice a month, and we go out to eat or for drives.

And sometimes they have adult relationships. But it's no longer for money. It's something they mutually desire, and it flows naturally. It's a completely different relationship than before, more free and more equal.

One day, she said to me, "When I meet you, I can be myself. In the entertainment industry, you're always being watched, and you're always acting. But in front of you, I don't have to pretend to be anything. That's so relaxing." I felt the same way. At work, I always put on the face of a business owner. But in front of her, I can be just another man.

Her love life has also changed. I heard that she has started dating a man in the same entertainment industry. I congratulated her sincerely, saying, "I hope you'll be happy." She replied, "Thank you, but I'd like to see you sometimes too." I laughed and said, "That's bad for your boyfriend," but she replied with a serious face, "I'm not like you. He's him, and you're you."

In fact, our relationship continued even after she got a boyfriend. We saw each other less frequently, but still once every few months. Sometimes I would listen to her complain about her boyfriend or give her love advice. It was a strange relationship, but it was comfortable for us.

Now, she is steadily climbing the ladder as a celebrity. Her number of followers on social media has grown significantly, and she is holding fan events. The 20-year-old girl who was looking for a sugar daddy back then has now become a successful celebrity.

Sometimes I remember those days. The first time we met.Sushi restaurant in Nagoya.Hokkaido TripThree breakups and reconciliations. All of them bring back fond memories, and they have all shaped who we are today.

The other day, she contacted me for the first time in a long time. "I want to see you." We met at the same sushi restaurant in Nagoya as that day. She looked even more refined than before, and had an aura about her. But her way of speaking and smile were the same as back then.

After we finished eating, she asked, "Do you remember meeting me at this restaurant that day?" I answered, "Of course." "Back then, I was just a girl looking for sugar daddies, and you were the sugar daddy who paid. But that's not the case now. We're comrades in arms, and I want to stay that way forever."

I felt the same way. A relationship that started with money has become a relationship that transcends money. It may seem like a miracle, but we created that miracle together.

That day, we didn't have an adult relationship; we just talked, laughed, and then parted ways. I didn't give him any money either. But that was fine. Our relationship had become something that couldn't be measured in money anymore.

As I watched her walk away, I thought to myself, "When I started sugar dating, I never imagined our relationship would turn out like this. But now I'm convinced. Meeting her, and going to that sushi restaurant that day, was one of the most worthwhile decisions of my life."

And from now on, our comradeship will continue. As we grow and improve each other. I don't know what form that will take. But that's okay. Because we no longer need definitions.

Why was the allowance 20 per session?

Finally, I would like to explain why I insisted on a 20 yen allowance each time.

In the world of sugar dating, the standard allowance varies widely. It starts from 3 yen per visit, then 50,000 yen, 100,000 yen, and even over 20 yen. The amount is determined by the woman's appearance and specs, as well as the man's financial situation. Some men even sign monthly contracts.

The reason I set the price at 20 yen each time wasn't simply because she was beautiful. Of course, that's one reason. For someone with looks on her level, 20 yen might be reasonable, or even cheap. But the real reason was something much deeper.

It was my own pride.

I am an entrepreneur. I started with a small project, gradually expanded, and even experienced hellish sales declines. The journey was never smooth. I experienced failures and setbacks, worked tirelessly, took risks, and sometimes made decisions to bet everything.

The success I achieved and the money I earned were not just numbers, but the culmination of my hard work and determination. Whenever I spent that money, I always felt a sense of pride, knowing that "I earned this."

The same was true in sugar dating. In fact, that pride was especially important in sugar dating.

I could sleep with a woman for a cheap price and feel satisfied, thinking, "I can buy a woman." This kind of boost to my self-esteem had no value to me. In fact, it was the opposite. I thought it was an act of lowering my own value.

What I wanted was a sense of self-affirmation as a successful person. "My business is so successful, I can pay myself such a high salary." This fact was proof that my efforts had paid off, and confirmation of my own worth.

That's why I wanted to give her the highest possible allowance. I paid her the highest amount because she had celebrity-level beauty. That was my pride and a way to realize my business success.

And there was one other important thing: keeping the allowance amount constant.

Many men pay a large amount on the days when they have adult relations and a smaller amount on the days when they don't. This seems reasonable at first glance. But it was different for me. Whether it was adult days or not, my allowance was always 20 yen.

Why? Because I thought that all the time I spent with her was equally valuable.

Certainly, a physical relationship is a special act. But that alone is not valuable. Talking with her, laughing, eating meals together, going for drives - all of these were meaningful times for me. In fact, if it was just a relationship that sought physical relationships, I probably wouldn't be engaging in sugar dating.

So I didn't change the amount. It was also a message to her: "Time with you is worth the same no matter what." That was my way of showing sincerity and respecting her as a person.

Looking back, I think this was the right decision. By not changing the amount, our relationship remained pure. We were able to build a natural relationship because there was no calculation: "Today we have adults, so it's more expensive, and today we don't, so it's less." And ultimately, our relationship developed into something that went beyond money.

Of course, spending over 700 million yen a year on one woman isn't cheap—that's enough money to buy a luxury car. But for me, the investment was well worth it.

Spending time with her soothed my tired heart from work. It was a precious oasis in the stressful life of a business owner. And more than that, the relationship we had, where we encouraged each other to grow as people, was priceless.

Now she's graduated from sugar dating, and we no longer exchange money. But sometimes she says, "I'll never forget that you gave me 20 each time. It wasn't just an allowance. I now realize that it was a sign of your trust and respect for me."

When I heard those words, I knew I had made the right choice. The allowance amount wasn't just a transaction price. It was a message that expressed my respect for the other person, my pride, and the kind of relationship I wanted to build.

Sugar daddy relationships may not be viewed well by society. They are sometimes criticized as relationships that are tied together by money. However, how you behave and what values ​​you hold within them is up to you.

Through sugar dating, I realized the success of my business and at the same time, I met a wonderful woman and gained a lifelong comrade. I still believe that this relationship was only possible because of the 20 yen allowance each time.

Money is a means. How you use it reveals your values ​​and your life. I used the money I won to show my pride and respect for the people I care about. No one can judge whether it was right or wrong, but at least for me, it was the best choice.

And to this day, I don't regret that decision. In fact, I'm proud of it, because it shaped our relationship into what it is today.