Women Who Passed By 2: Married Women, Part XNUMX
[Instructions for a Married Woman]
There are a few married women registered with the Space Club. Some women state that they are married in their profiles, but Joe suspects that there are also a number of female members who hide the fact that they are married. It seems that there are a number of hidden AV actresses in the Space Club.
I'm not trying to make fun of her. It's much more risky to reveal her face and state that she's married. I'm sure there are circumstances that outweigh the risk. At the same time, it's also evidence that Otosama activism has spread to different generations and become more common.
Male members have different preferences when it comes to married women. Looking at question boards, there are a certain number of male members (in fact, they may be the majority) who say, "I would never propose to a married woman, and I would stop dating her if I found out she was married."
They may have a number of reasons, but one of them seems to be that it's "too dangerous." Certainly, the impact of being found out would be far greater than if they were unmarried. If they were both single, would it become legally tangled, leaving aside the ethical issues? It's unlikely. However, Joe, who has worse crisis management skills than most, would not avoid a relationship with a married woman for the sake of "danger." First of all, one is tempted to say that "danger" is the essence of love.
That being said, Joe knew she was married and never offered her a date, but that was just because she wasn't his type, and if she was his type, Joe wouldn't hesitate.
In fact, it was not just once or twice that the men who were approached turned out to be married. The reasons for these women registering are varied, and while the main motivation is financial, just like the young women who are active as men, another reason seems to be that "my husband doesn't see me as a woman." It may be hard to believe, but Joe believes that there are quite a few married women who want to experience the same thrills and sexual satisfaction as they did in the past. So when a woman confesses, "I'm actually married," it makes me even more aroused than usual. Hey, married women seem a little soft, don't they? They seem to know the joys of sex, too. Maybe not? But who are you talking to?
I've already mentioned her in a column, but for Joe, Satsuki is by far the most soft-skinned married woman who knows the joys of sex. He didn't meet Satsuki at the Space Club, but through an industry group that Joe belongs to. There were many twists and turns before they started dating, it wasn't easy, and it took time. There were some restrictions, but at first Joe thought that those restrictions were actually good for him. However, that wasn't actually the case. Joe learned from his relationship with Satsuki that people's hearts are not as easy to control as he thinks they are.
I think it's safe to categorize Satsuki as beautiful, but even more than that, everyone, including Satsuki herself, agrees that she has the "appearance of someone who likes sex." Of all the women Joe had ever met, she was, without a doubt, one of the most "erotic" women he had ever met. A woman with an "erotic appearance" isn't necessarily erotic in real life, but in that respect too, Satsuki did not disappoint. "Satsuki was a great woman, erotic," Joe still murmurs to himself from time to time. And this murmur always escapes Joe's lips when a relationship with a loved one ends.
Just because Satsuki is sexy doesn't mean she's a sloppy woman. She has a daughter of marriageable age and a son who is still a mama's boy even though he tells her, "Shut up, old hag!", so she is a good mother to two of them. Her relationship with her husband is also not bad. They have sex almost every week, and it seems to be their rule that if Satsuki's husband comes before she is satisfied, she gets her revenge the next day. Joe has never met a couple in their 40s who have such a rule.
Her husband is the president of a well-known company in Kyoto, but he is the third generation of the family and is a nice person, but he has a reputation for being an idiot. However, with Satsuki's support, the company's business has been going well since he became president, and everyone around him agrees that Satsuki is the real president.
It remains a mystery as to why Satsuki, who has a happy marriage and is a hard worker, accepted Joe's affections. When asked about it, Satsuki responds, "I have a weakness for rich boys like Joe."
I hesitate to say it myself, but Joe is certainly a rich young man. However, there are two types of rich young men: sophisticated young men and unrefined young men. Naturally? No matter how you look at it, Joe is the latter. And Satsuki's husband seems to be the same type. Normally, I don't think people would choose the same type of man, but that's what makes Satsuki so good.
[In the case of Satsuki in her 40s]
When Koi-san and Hime-san, who had been in a relationship with Joe in the past, got married, they said, "Now I'm on an equal footing with Joe." I thought, "Wow, there are people who think like that." But this way of thinking is probably not common. At least in Japan, the gender gap is still large.
When married people have an inappropriate relationship, people call it a double affair. Because they are married, the crime should be "equal," but for the reasons mentioned above, it cannot be said to be equal.
Generally, married women are overwhelmingly busier and have more responsibilities in the home. Married men, on the other hand, seem to be indifferent to their partners' busy schedules and tend to wield the mysterious excuse that "we're both married, after all" like a charm (maybe it's just Joe). And when their relationship is discovered, it's more of an impact on women, while men seem to baselessly believe (hope?) that they won't be found out in the first place (again, maybe it's just Joe).
You might say, "You have no say in that!" but when dating someone else's wife, you have to act more carefully and keep in mind that women have more restrictions than men imagine. However, there aren't many men who can do that. Joe is one of those men who can't keep that in mind. Although he didn't take Satsuki out often (it was physically impossible), Joe often made unexpected but attractive proposals that were probably difficult for Satsuki to refuse, which caused trouble for her.
In order to make time to accept Joe's invitation, she would have to lie to her family. This was unbearable for Satsuki. Normally, this would have been the end of their relationship. However, in order to be with Joe, Satsuki used a highly advanced technique that would be comparable to a level I Nagornyi triple backflip in gymnastics.
Satsuki confessed to her husband about Joe and then begged for permission to date him. Strictly speaking, it's not easy to say what is "normal," but this method is definitely not normal no matter how you look at it. And Satsuki herself must have been able to act because she knew that her confession would not ruin their marriage, regardless of whether she would be allowed to do so.
Satsuki and her husband have a mysterious rule: if they fall in love with someone, they don't hide it. Whether they actually start dating or not depends on their discussion. Her husband has proposed this rule twice in the past, and Satsuki has proposed it three times. What makes things complicated is that proposing it does not mean dating. There is a veto power, just like the permanent members of the UN Security Council, and Satsuki has used her veto power both times when her husband proposed a relationship, never approving it. Satsuki seems to be more jealous than you would think. Her husband has also used his veto power twice, and Satsuki has only been able to date once in the past. If you think about it (or even if you don't), you could say that the couple are fighting over each other.
Anyway, her husband didn't exercise his veto over her relationship with Joe, and she was able to date Satsuki without any problems.
[Conditions for dating Satsuki]
First, a LINE group was created. Satsuki's husband had many requests regarding their relationship.
Rule 1: Do not contact Satsuki outside of group lines.
Rule 2: Meet twice a month
Rule 3: Strict adherence to Cinderella Time Rule 4: Always cum inside
The hardest rule was rule number two.
At first, Joe thought that "twice" in rule 2 meant "up to twice." Satsuki was extremely busy as a mother, a wife, and sometimes as a lover, so even meeting twice a month was not easy. So, he was restless, thinking "this month will be difficult," when he got a LINE message from her husband saying "I haven't had sex with Satsuki this month yet," surprising Joe.
At that time, Joe was living in Kyoto, and whenever he went to tea ceremony lessons, he would almost always meet Satsuki. Of course, he was looking forward to having sex with her, but he was satisfied if he could see her face and talk to her a little during lessons. But her husband had different thoughts.
What gets people sexually excited is highly individual, and I have no intention of criticizing the sexual preferences of others. Her husband says that he would only insert his Nyoibou into Satsuki herself, who still has the lingering scent of another man's semen (he understands that there are a minority of men with this fetish, but Joe, who is a bit of a germaphobe despite his appearance, finds it hard to believe).
So if Joe didn't make love to Satsuki even once in a certain month, it was a big deal to him. However, and this is where it gets strange and selfish, it doesn't mean that Satsuki would help him make time. Satsuki had a very tight schedule; she was also a tea ceremony teacher, and she handled her company, general housework, and taking the children to and from their lessons, as well as other duties, all by herself. Some of these things her husband could do, but he didn't actively try to get involved. Satsuki often complained about her husband, but when she saw what he said and did, it seemed to Joe that she took pleasure in spoiling her sloppy husband.
[Happy days with Satsuki]
Although there were some hassles, their meetings were always exciting. Beforehand, he would send a rough outline of their date plans via LINE, including the time he would be home. The latter was more important to her husband, because his favorite thing to do was to pounce on Satsuki, whose scent was still lingering, as soon as he got home. Joe also made sure to come home earlier than planned, to satisfy his fantasy. Although their sexual proclivities were different, they were both perverts and understood each other's feelings very well. It may sound strange to say it, but in a way, he may have been more compatible with her husband than he was with Satsuki.
Sex was a must when I met up with Satsuki, and we had a set time to go home, so it was sometimes hectic, but we always enjoyed our meals. We went to a variety of places, from casual to formal, but Satsuki had no likes or dislikes and was happy with every establishment and enjoyed it. When we had time, we were able to drink enough to accompany her on bar tours, which made her a special woman.
This may be a matter of opinion, but I think the standard of restaurants in Kyoto is high. I can think of restaurants where we enjoyed ourselves together, regardless of genre: Japanese, Western, Chinese. I have not included restaurants that generally do not accept first-time customers or are extremely expensive. Only once, at Satsuki's request, did we go to an extremely expensive restaurant that was difficult to book (we paid 2 yen for two people), but it was not an enjoyable place, either in terms of the food or Joe's wallet.
The two of them like small, cozy places with a nice atmosphere. They would like the alcohol selection to be decent, but that's not a must. It was fun discussing with Satsuki the next place to go. Although, they could only communicate through group LINE, so there was no secrecy to their secret love affair.
Something like this happened once.
That day, after dinner we enjoyed some in-and-out fun, and since we had some time before our agreed time to go home, we hopped in a taxi and stopped off at our favorite bar, which holds many memories for the two of us.
I've written about this bar in a few columns. It's a bar on a street one block east of Gion-Shijonawate Street. It was originally a tea master's house that was renovated, and the bar is designed to make use of the typical grammar of Kyoto townhouses. In other words, the frontage is narrow, and a narrow alleyway sometimes referred to as an eel's sleeping place continues, but at the end of it appears the main house, which is much larger than you would imagine from the entrance. Joe thinks that this kind of layout is perfect for a couple like us who meet secretly (although we're not really secretive). I almost feel like telling Yujiro that it's not just night fog that surrounds the two of them.
It was here that Joe and Satsuki stopped off after their first meal together, back when he still hadn't dreamed he'd end up dating. The counter seats were full at the time, so he was shown to a private room in the back that had once been a tea room. It was here that Joe took the initiative to approach Satsuki, which was unusual for him, and they shared their first kiss.
"Hey, do you remember the first time you came here?"
"Of course. It was really hard to put out the fire after that."
Satsuki again muttered the same lines she had sent me in the LINE message after we had parted ways.
This day they passionately pursued each other more than usual, and they were both satisfied and the flames died down (maybe). Both Joe and Satsuki were wearing traditional Japanese clothing. It doesn't take long to take off traditional Japanese clothing, but it takes time to put it back on nicely. It's not that difficult for men to put on, but since coming to Kyoto I've had many opportunities to wear kimonos, so I've gotten better at putting them on and they look good. Satsuki is skilled enough to have a license to do so. With a little help from Joe, it doesn't take as long as you might think. I really wanted to come to this bar, so as I mentioned earlier, I quickly got changed and caught a taxi to get here.
For this reason, tonight's drink tasted even better than usual. Satsuki ordered a pear cocktail, and Joe ordered a rare Akashi single malt on the rocks, on the rocks. They talked about their rendezvous that night, and about each other's private lives. For example, Satsuki told me that her older sister, who is now in high school, has a boyfriend and she is interested in his every move, and that her younger brother is crazy about baseball and enjoys watching his performances at games more than anything else, while Joe told me how his wife, a painter, has received several new orders for paintings and is feeling high, and about the new business he has started with Osamu.
Looking back, these casual conversations seem to Joe to have been treasures in his life. Of course, sex with Satsuki was always fun, and he can remember a few sexy scenes, but what's engraved on Joe's body are Satsuki's words. Joe can recall her words vividly, as if he could touch them. At the same time, because he is often in an unstable mental state when he is lost in such memories, a feeling of regret wells up from deep within his body. Actually, to be precise, Joe is a person who is incapable of regret or reflection.
It was about time to leave the restaurant, so we paid the bill at the table.
"Let's catch a taxi in front of the store. I'm going to the bathroom first, so can you wait a bit?"
"Sorry, my husband has been nagging me to come home soon, so can I excuse myself here?"
To be honest, it wasn't going to take him many minutes to go to the bathroom, so Joe thought it would be okay if he waited a little longer to give her a farewell hug and kiss, but he also knew that to Satsuki, her husband's orders were absolute and took top priority.
"I understand. Today was fun. Have fun with your husband after this."
She had tried to sound as cheerful as possible, but Joe was probably aware that she was in a bad mood. Her last words in particular were sarcastic, so her tone must have been harsh. Satsuki didn't seem to care at all and just said, "Thank you as always. See you later," before leaving the store.
I found out much later that at the time, her husband was sitting at the counter opposite us. Satsuki's cell phone was open and he was eavesdropping on their conversation. There was no doubt that what they were saying stimulated him. While Joe was at the bathroom, her husband put Satsuki in a taxi and they went to the same hotel and the same room where they had been having their in-and-out act earlier, and there they made wild advances on each other.
Joe was unaware of this at the time, but as her husband's behavior escalated, she began to feel more suffocated than the sympathy she had previously felt.
[Subsequent developments]
Gradually, her husband's demands escalated. He began to specify the date, time and place of their rendezvous, forcing Joe and Satsuki to adjust to them. Looking back, he had prioritized his own convenience above all else, and had specified the location so that he could conveniently monitor their rendezvous. As a fellow pervert, she also wanted to indulge in his delusions. At the same time, Joe began to feel that he was being used as an excuse for the couple's sex life, which was no fun, and he became increasingly frustrated that he couldn't control the rendezvous the way he wanted.
What bothered Joe even more was that Satsuki never raised any objections to her husband's proposal. The suspicion that Satsuki might also be toying with Joe's feelings made Joe feel more uneasy than anything else.
Still, whenever he met Satsuki, all his doubts vanished as if they were lies. That's because Satsuki always showed up with a big smile on her face when they met. And when she recognized Joe, she would approach him while waving her hand widely. And then hugs. And sometimes kisses. Though not as much as her husband's, Satsuki's face is still fairly well-known in Kyoto city, so no one knows who might see their hugs, let alone their kisses. Even though it's officially recognized, there are problems. But that's why Joe's heart, which was full of distrust before they met, had transformed into 100% trust. Of course, it was entirely possible that Satsuki's attitude was just an act. But if this was an act, Joe would no longer be able to trust anything.
It's time to turn the tables. I'm not going to take orders from my husband anymore. Satsuki's birthday is coming up, so I'll make a proposal in the group LINE. If she doesn't accept it, I'll end my relationship with her (but I couldn't do it at this point).
After the tea ceremony lesson, the other members had their usual dinner at a nearby restaurant. Usually, I made a conscious effort to sit far away from them, but that day I sat next to Satsuki. In the middle of the meal, I asked her as casually as possible:
"It's your birthday soon. Is there anything you want?"
"I'm not looking forward to being an old woman again like I did when I was a child."
Normally I would have expanded on the topic, but I was afraid she would say something dirty, so I ignored her and asked further.
"I want to give you something as a present. Can you make a request?"
"Just the thought is enough. My husband would get mad if I accepted it."
The husband again! Joe's heart was kindled.
"So, are you planning on getting your lovely husband to buy it for you?"
"I'm thinking about asking for glasses. I haven't told you yet. The frames are loose and the prescription isn't very good anyway."
Satsuki has terrible eyesight. She usually wears contact lenses, but says she can see better with glasses. That was the end of the conversation with Satsuki, but right after the dinner party, Joe immediately posted a plan for their next rendezvous in the group LINE.
[On Satsuki's birthday and then...]
I made the following suggestion to LINE:
"I'll take you to Sabae, the city of glasses, on Satsuki's birthday. I'm planning to give her a pair of glasses that she likes as a gift. We'll have dinner in Sabae and arrive in Kyoto at 22pm. After stopping by the usual hotel, we'll disband before midnight. Please pick me up at the hotel."
It may be hard to understand, but this was a much more aggressive proposal than the previous ones. He could have gone back earlier, but he chose the last Thunderbird train to Kyoto. He had never suggested "picking her up at the hotel" before. Perhaps her husband would take Joe's place and go into the hotel and rape Satsuki. The fantasy of this excited Joe, and he felt a small sense of superiority.
Her husband simply replied, "I understand about picking you up." It was a much shorter and more curt reply than usual, but I could imagine how excited he was.
We met at Kyoto Station on the day. I actually wanted to request a kimono, but I thought I might have to walk a bit in Sabae, so Satsuki came in casual clothes. She was wearing a beige blouse, a light green long skirt, and a black jacket. Her outfit was relatively chic, but her face was quite flashy, which made her sexiness stand out even more. When she took off her clothes, she was wearing garters and a thong.
Now, our destination is Sabae. This is how an eventful day began (continued in the second half).