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Taro

I used to find it disgusting, but now I'm happy about it, or rather, I feel like a sucker.

In the past, I used to have a desire to be properly evaluated by others. In a real fight. But basically, there's no way other people can understand anything about me, no matter what I do. I realized that other people can only see a part of me, and that I am the only one who knows everything about myself. So, other people's evaluations are crap. It makes no sense at all. No matter what they say, just think, ``You don't understand.'' Of course, I will take into account opinions from outside perspectives, but it is up to me to decide which parts to use as reference.

But people act according to their evaluations. In that case, it's better to have good reviews. It's dangerous if your expectations (hurdles) are strangely high, but in that case, you should go and fix it. When someone with good reviews says, ``No, that's not true,'' it makes you feel like ``this person is humble,'' and your likeability goes up even more. It's all about good things, isn't it?

It's much more difficult to play away to a storm of boos. The entire team was in tatters, labeled as completely useless, and even one small mistake forced them into a position where they were told things like, ``Again?'' Even though you have some good points in terms of ability, you are completely rejected as a bad person. Even if a good result is achieved, it is not recognized as a result of chance rather than actual ability, and the credit is taken away. In order to turn the tide in such a situation, we need a huge home run that no one can deny, and I think it's impossible to do it normally.

If you work hard even in a situation where your mental health and other aspects are being diminished, you will find a chance to make a comeback home run. The moment those who were booing fall silent, you can feel everyone holding their breath and the flow changes, it's nerve-wracking. If I were to ask which one is more fun, it would definitely be this one (lol)

So, people who lift things up without knowing why are suckers. If that sounds weird, I'd say it's an oasis in the desert. Thank you for giving me the time to win without having to be serious. Scheduled harmony love! Great digestion match♫. Thanks to you for lifting me up, I can recover a lot and save up the strength to fight in the next away game. And he can hit another big comeback home run. You did it, dad! Tomorrow will be another home run (by Yoshinoya). I have nothing but gratitude.


Taro

• Answer date: 2024/04/29 03:01

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Kazu

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If someone lifts me up, I feel uncomfortable.

I read Taro's answer and added it.
＞I used to find it disgusting, but recently I feel happy, or rather, I feel like a sucker.
＞I used to have a feeling that I wanted to be properly evaluated by others.

In my case, I don't find it disgusting for that reason, but I feel disgusted by the shallowness and ulterior motives of people who take the easy way out of lifting someone up.
Isn't it creepy when people approach you with their ulterior motives exposed?

• Answer date: 2024/04/29 00:15

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sun moon new

It's selfish of me to be so humble about myself.

If you have the same thing and there are people who will buy it for 100 yen and someone who will buy it for 10,000 yen, you will sell it to the person who will buy it for 10,000 yen.
If you were to respond honestly, you would ask them why they would buy it for 10,000 yen, and if there was any misunderstanding, you would clear it up.
Then, if the person thinks it's worth 10,000 yen, they can sell it for 10,000 yen.

Why does the president like the person asking the question when he or she vaguely feels that he or she is being praised by the president?
I guess they haven't made it clear whether it's their ability, charm, communication with other employees, or just the president's preference.
Perhaps it's a misunderstanding on the part of the president, or something he doesn't understand, and he's vaguely belittling himself.
That wouldn't be an honest response. Isn't it just that you feel good about being self-deprecating?

• Answer date: 2024/04/29 08:08

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flag maker

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Let's think about it with a manga brain.

For example, I think of this phenomenon as something like ``binding'' in Jujutsu Kaisen or ``restrictions and pledges'' in Hunter Hunter.

Right now, it's being buffed for no reason. If you think about it that way, I think something bad will definitely happen as a reaction.

In other words, I think it's safer not to benefit from that buff. Just from a manga perspective.

• Answer date: 2024/04/29 15:26

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