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Question date: 2024/04/24 09:34

It's been about 2 months since we met, and we've met as adults about 7 times, and we're planning to meet again as adults this week. I started to fall in love with him, and when I tried to openly tell him that I liked him, last time he told me that he liked me for the first time. Of course, I'm sure he's doing things according to my needs, but I'd like to develop this to the point where we can start a relationship in the future. Currently, I'm actively trying to let them know that I'm interested in them, and I'm in touch with them on a daily basis. She is a single mother and I am married with a child. It seems like he's still working as a P, so I'm thinking of asking him if we can go out together while continuing to support him.
This is a long story, but is there a way to tell whether you like a woman as a person or as a member of the opposite sex? I would appreciate it if you could give me some advice.

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Kazu

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What kind of relationship does the questioner refer to by "dating"?

Whether it's as a person or as a person of the opposite sex, I don't think people's feelings can be expressed that easily or that they have a choice.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/24 09:49
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I don't know what kind of situation you want.


If you are hoping for favor from the other woman

If it were me, what action would I take?

I won't tell you that I like you

I don't promise to meet up with you every day, and I won't contact you.

will do so.


That way, at least you will know that the woman will contact you and express her interest.


I think it is difficult to make a judgment because if you contact them or express your interest, they will only respond in the affirmative.

I think it's better to have the leeway that if you pull away, they will be attracted to you and pursue you.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/24 10:03
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flag maker

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There's no need to tell the difference. If the person asking the question is hoping for this kind of adult-based relationship with allowances.

On the other hand, women also don't want to be criticized for this.

Ambiguity is a good thing.

This is serious advice. I don't think he will listen to what I say though.

  • Answer date: 2024/04/25 19:35